1 . Teens love to argue their viewpoints.
Look at the person. You need to be in person and face-to-face for this to work well, no texting or social media.
Say “I understand how you feel". This starts the discussion off on a positive note. Be sincere in your desire to come to agreement, and admit the other person's right to an opinion.
Tell why you feel differently. Get your “ducks in a row", which means get everything properly organized and under control.
Give a reason. Be sure your reasons are sensible and you can support them with facts.
Listen to the other person attentively. Give the other person time to present his or her view.
Say “thank you for listening”. Sometimes you get what you want, and sometimes you don't, but at least you've had a chance to give your opinion and hear the other person's thoughts, too.
Make sure to practice several times before your child actually needs to use the skill. Over time, you'll find this skill calms things down in your house and equips your teens to navigate differences of opinion wherever they may be —— and that's a win-win for everyone!
A.Use a pleasant voice. |
B.Don't act before thinking. |
C.And always think before you speak. |
D.However, listen attentively at first. |
E.Don't interrupt, look bored or argue. |
F.Teach your teens to disagree properly! |
G.Instead, wait till everyone has cooled down and is ready to listen. |
2 . Michael rises every morning at 4: 00 and walks into his sandwich shop. By5:50, he's making the rounds of the shelters on Centre Street. He
20 years ago, when Michael
Michael made 200 sandwiches every day in the past 20 years. I don't simply give them away. I shake their hands and
A man had
The moment needed no
A.sets | B.gives | C.picks | D.finds |
A.got across | B.came along | C.ran after | D.came across |
A.entertaining | B.relaxing | C.resting | D.playing |
A.Surprisingly | B.Disappointedly | C.Fortunately | D.Thankfully |
A.tricking | B.presenting | C.testing | D.viewing |
A.demanded | B.agreed | C.pretended | D.determined |
A.predict | B.hope | C.follow | D.wish |
A.ignored | B.blamed | C.confirmed | D.handled |
A.memories | B.situations | C.schedules | D.professions |
A.escaped | B.volunteered | C.disappeared | D.survived |
A.competitive | B.complex | C.familiar | D.stable |
A.money | B.sandwiches | C.food | D.plan |
A.responsibility | B.encouragement | C.permission | D.achievement |
A.purpose | B.relief | C.dialogue | D.doubt |
A.hope | B.fun | C.pride | D.luck |
Your attitude plays a big part in your everyday life and can influence how your life may turn out in the future. If you have a good attitude, you’ll be the kind of person who works hard and you'll live the kind of life many would admire. Here are some tips which can help you improve your attitude.
Spend time with those who share your positive attitude. This is a must if you want to improve your attitude. The people you surround yourself with most of the time will reflect upon your life. So always make sure that these people share your positive attitude and lift you.
When you take action, always take steps to act with a purpose, to that your actions are in line with your values. For example, Walt Disney’s main purpose is to “make people happy”. So next time you act, think of your purpose and improve your attitude while doing so!
Being polite when given help or asking for it isn’t a hard thing, yet so often we forget these simple words, especially with those closest to us. If you want to improve your attitude, use “please” and “thank you” every time you’re given the opportunity.
If you want to improve your attitude to life and to those around you, stop comparing yourself with others. It's human to compare our lives with others', but when we do it too often we can drag(拖)ourselves down. So spare yourself the worry and stop comparing; only focus(集中)on your own life and you’ll be much happier in the process.
Gratefulness is one of the most powerful attitudes in your life. If you want a better life, give thanks for all that you have each and every day. Gradually, you'll receive more things to be thankful for!
So how’s your attitude today? Does it need a little fine tuning?
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4 . I never forget the single act of kindness that changed my life over 25 years ago. During a vacation trip, I needed to find my
I
At one point, I asked him why he
A.connection | B.entrance | C.way | D.route |
A.poor | B.lucky | C.wealthy | D.talented |
A.forgot | B.failed | C.agreed | D.managed |
A.valuable | B.expensive | C.reasonable | D.special |
A.paper | B.email | C.Internet | D.phone |
A.difficulties | B.support | C.market | D.system |
A.admiring | B.doubting | C.wondering | D.knowing |
A.upset | B.excited | C.hurt | D.crazy |
A.speech | B.introduction | C.conversation | D.connection |
A.spent | B.demanded | C.offered | D.charged |
A.actually | B.easily | C.certainly | D.clearly |
A.covered | B.included | C.involved | D.provided |
A.Unfortunately | B.Thankfully | C.Surprisingly | D.Delightedly |
A.secretly | B.in person | C.privately | D.in a hurry |
A.wonderful | B.strange | C.ordinary | D.brave |
Nowadays, more and more people have chances to travel, study, work or even live abroad. It is necessary for you to keep in mind these general
If you
Don’t leave
One morning, I was waiting at the bus stop, worried about being late for school. There were many people
7 . Wheeling her red chair and scissors around the city, Katie gives out—of—luck strangers the gift of visibility.
Last summer, Katie saw a man sitting with a
The man, named Edward, was in his 60s. “
“It’s more than a haircut. I want it to
Katie wanted to help people
It all began with a belief in simple acts of
A.mask | B.chair | C.sign | D.minor |
A.perfect | B.regular | C.special | D.free |
A.Naturally | B.Luckily | C.Actually | D.Eventually |
A.exploring | B.hoping | C.begging | D.moving |
A.good | B.brave | C.healthy | D.satisfied |
A.prove | B.show | C.appreciate | D.combine |
A.establish | B.complete | C.change | D.reflect |
A.suffered from | B.got through | C.put up with | D.adapted to |
A.charged | B.applied | C.sought | D.arranged |
A.worthwhile | B.serious | C.alone | D.innocent |
A.feel | B.follow | C.accomplish | D.select |
A.struggle | B.escape | C.relief | D.performance |
A.extremely | B.apparently | C.merely | D.hardly |
A.joy | B.honesty | C.pride | D.kindness |
A.occurs | B.continues | C.remains | D.matters |
8 . We are surrounded by people trying to make the world a better place. Peace activists bring enemies together so they can get to know one another and feel each other’s pain. School leaders try to attract a diverse set of students so each can understand what it’s like to walk in the others’ shoes.
It is true that people who are empathetic (共情的) are more sensitive to the perspectives and sufferings of others. They are more likely to make sympathetic moral judgments. The problem comes when we try to turn feeling into action. Empathy makes you more aware of other people’s sufferings, but it’s not clear whether it actually motivates you to take moral action or prevents you from taking immoral action. For example, in the early days of the Holocaust, Nazi prison guards sometimes wept as they killed Jewish women and children, but they still did it.
Empathy directs you toward moral action, but it doesn’t seem to help much when that action comes at a personal cost. You may feel painful for the homeless guy on the other side of the street, but the chances are that you are not going to cross the street to give him a dollar. Studies investigating the link between empathy and moral action suggest that empathy is not a major player when it comes to moral motivation. Its contribution is slight in children, modest in adults, and nonexistent when costs are significant.
Nobody is against empathy. However, it’s not enough. These days empathy has become a shortcut. It has become a way to experience delicious moral emotions without confronting the weaknesses in our nature that prevent us from actually acting upon them. It has become a way to experience the illusion (幻觉) of moral progress without having to do the nasty work of making moral judgments. Teaching empathy is a safe way for schools and other institutions to seem blameless without risking dispute or hurting anybody’s feelings.
People who actually perform pro-social action don’t only feel for those who are suffering, they feel it necessary to act by a sense of duty. Empathy is less important. If you want to make the world a better place, help people debate, understand, reform, revere and enact their moral principles. Accept that principles conflict.
1. Why does the author mention the Holocaust in paragraph 2?A.To show that empathy is limited in preventing people from wrongdoings. |
B.To prove that empathic people are more likely to make compassionate moral judgments. |
C.To explain that empathy is helpful for moral teaching. |
D.To criticize the immoral actions of Nazis. |
A.Reach out to them. | B.Ignore them. |
C.Feel sorry for them. | D.Raise money for them. |
A.People are enthusiastic about empathy. |
B.Teaching empathy is a quicker way to achieve moral education. |
C.Empathy alone is not sufficient. |
D.People are unwilling to take actual actions. |
A.Try to understand what it’s like to walk in the others’ shoes. |
B.Be more sensitive to the perspectives and sufferings of others. |
C.Stop teaching empathy since it is only a sideshow in moral education. |
D.Take on the duty to act and make real moral progress. |
9 . Emoji(表情符号) and Workplace Communication
In Asia, messaging platforms are growing rapidly, with users in the hundreds of millions, both at work and play.
Written communications can often read as cold and dull. Using emojis can add humor and feeling, keeping intention clear.
In any given office, employees can range from age 22 to 70 and beyond, and finding common ground in communication style can be a challenge.
There is also the matter of tone(语气). Who hasn’t received an email so annoying that it ruined an entire day?
A.Message with emojis feel more conversational |
B.Even a formal email can seem cold and unfriendly |
C.Sending smiling faces to colleagues may seem strange |
D.The popularity of these platforms is spreading globally |
E.Giving employees the tools enables them to communicate honestly |
F.Studies show that friendlier communication leads to a happier workplace |
G.An easy way to bring all work generations together is with a chat platform |
10 . On a recent afternoon, some 60 years after they graduated from grammar school, Kathleen Rys, 72, and her sister Lorraine O’Kelly, 70, sat down and had a meal with a classmate, Bruce Smit, 71 for the first time.
In the 1950s, Lorraine and Kathleen Rys’ family moved from Chicago to Monee. As new kids at Monee Elementary School, they soon found themselves on the outs with other students.
“I would be with the other guys and see Kathleen walking down the hallway, her head down, holding her books, walking slowly. And all of us guys would be flat against the wall until she passed. Then we’d burst into laughter. How rude is that? It’s just crazy.” said Smit, a doctor whose wife, Tammy, organized the meeting.
The women said none of the teachers cared about it. “We just kept it to ourselves.” Lorraine said.
Over the years, Tammy Smit said, “Bruce would just start to cry at times. He’d wonder what happened to the sisters, if they landed OK.” One day a few weeks ago, Tammy took to the internet and found Mary O’Kelly, Lorraine’s daughter, and offered to set up a meeting. The idea of revisiting the pain was not well- received by Kathleen, who had never married, let alone gone on a date. It took some convincing, but Lorraine finally got Kathleen to agree to meet with Bruce.
Bruce broke into tears. “I’m so ashamed, so embarrassed,” he said. “But I’m so happy you’re still here and that I can finally apologize.” He said he hopes his apology will encourage others to seek forgiveness for the pain they make on others. Lorraine said, “This is a beautiful thing. It’s just wonderful that a person from 60 years ago can ask for forgiveness. It’s like a miracle to us. It’s a healing to us.”
1. What can we learn from the first three paragraphs?A.Kathleen made her classmates afraid of her at school. |
B.Kathleen was once hurt by her classmates at school. |
C.Bruce Smit asked his wife to organize the meeting. |
D.Bruce Smit spoke ill of Kathleen. |
A.The guys’ meeting. | B.Kathleen’s slow pace. |
C.The guys’ apology. | D.Kathleen’s suffering. |
A.Angry. | B.Excited. | C.Anxious. | D.Unwilling. |
A.Bruce was embarrassed for his apology. | B.The other guys apologized to the two sisters. |
C.Bruce and the two sisters felt a sense of relief. | D.Lorraine thought the apology came a little late. |