1 . Being responsible can seem hard at first, but if you keep at it, it will become second nature to you.
Place others’ needs before your own. When you have a family, friends, or pets, being responsible may mean placing their needs above your own.
Find solutions for issues instead of casting blame. Problems come up in any relationship.
People who are not responsible with their words will shout out the first thing that comes into their heads, including calling another person names. Instead, take time to think your words through.
A.Don’t let your anger get the better of you. |
B.You need to take care of yourself and others. |
C.That doesn’t mean you don’t take care of yourself. |
D.Doing just the things you are asked to do is responsible. |
E.Your responsibility won’t mean much if it is hit or miss. |
F.If you are not sure, consider how it would make yourself feel. |
G.Instead of blaming the other person, try to find a way to solve them. |
2 . Everyone, at one time or another, has experienced some challenges in friendships and relationships with family members. We might find ourselves frustrated or angry with other people, or even find that we argue with them. The reality is that nobody is perfect and we need to realise that we should find ways to live happier and less stressful lives.
Respect other people and accept them.
This is the most important point. If we want to show someone we love them, we need to first respect who they are and show them we accept them for who they are.
Be interested in others' interests.
This is the hardest thing for most of us to do.
So, try and follow the advice and you will find that you have happier and stronger relationships with your friends and loved ones.
A.You can learn from mistakes. |
B.Apologise when you make a mistake. |
C.Show your friends what you really think. |
D.Yet a simple “I'm sorry” can undo a lot of tension. |
E.Everyone is unique with different experiences and lives. |
F.Here are some tips on how to make relationships happier and healthier. |
G.We might have friends who are crazy about sports, while we prefer reading. |
3 . How would you feel if you were invited to the moon? If you found a gold coin, would you save it, give it to charity or use it for a holiday? Personality quizzes of this kind, known as “psychometrics”, have bothered many job seekers. Now, it is being applied to the oldest problem in finance: will a borrower repay?
In rich countries, lenders use credit scores to weigh risk. But just 7% of Africans and 13% of South Asians are covered by credit bureaus (征信机构). Bailey Klinger of the Entrepreneurial Finance Lab (EFL), which explores new kinds of credit data, argues that psychometrics could include many more people in the financial system. Everyone has a personality, after all.
Judging character is not new. Psychometrics attempts to make it a science. The model developed by EFL has undergone many tests and adapted to different cultures. Its collected data reflect something unnoticed. For instance, young optimists are risky, but old ones are safe.
Clever design cuts cheating. There are no obvious right answers; responses are cross-checked for consistency. The model monitors mouse movements for signs of indecision or distraction. When borrowers lie to get a loan, they often do so in predictable ways. In an EFL test, people are shown pictures of five drinks and asked which one they would be. Choosing water over something with small bubbles may be a sign of cheating.
This sounds fanciful, but there is evidence that it works. In one Indonesian bank, combining psychometrics with existing customer data cut default (违约) rates for small businesses by 45%. A study by the World Bank found that EFL’s model increased lending to those without a credit history.
The technique needs further development. At present, turning to credit bureaus is still the best way to tell if somebody will repay a loan. But bureaus improve more slowly than technology. Lenders will find ever more ways to look into their customers’ souls.
1. What are the figures intended to show in paragraph 2?A.Uncertain property of poor people. | B.Racial discrimination from lenders. |
C.Current weakness of credit bureaus. | D.Great risks brought by credit scores. |
A.Its data confirm some ideas. | B.It has been greatly improved. |
C.Its effects vary with cultures. | D.It can’t tell characters exactly. |
A.Lenders’ answers. | B.Drinks with bubbles. |
C.Borrowers’ responses. | D.Pictures of five drinks. |
A.It is beyond the expectation | B.It will replace credit bureaus. |
C.It will be mature in the future. | D.It has won most lenders’ love. |
1. 人际关系方面的一些建议;
2. 合理的开头结尾。
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人际关系:interpersonal relationship 人际交往:interpersonal communication
Dear Will,
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Best wishes,
Li Hua
5 . If you feel that making friends as a kid is easy, you’re right. “They have a break between lessons and gym classes. They can let their guard down,” says Marisa G. Franco, a sought-after friendship & belonging expert. However, it’s not the case for adults. Even though they see their colleagues every day, they still find it never easy to be friends with them.
In the US, for example, a 2021 survey by the American Enterprise Institute, found that the number of adults who said they had no close friends had increased four times since 1990, going from 3 percent to 12 percent. “We’ve never been more disconnected,” says psychologist and author Jody Carrington. Although adults spend time together from 9: 00 am to 6: 00 pm and even late into the night, the fast paced work pattern dictates that communication is limited to the content of the work, and after work, they immediately go back to homes, leaving no extra energy to have unplanned interactions to develop further friendship.
Research by Brigham Young University psychologist Julianne Holt-Lunstad has shown that loneliness is a major threat to longevity (长寿), same as smoking 15 cigarettes a day or being an alcoholic. People who are lonely or socially cut off have a higher risk of having diseases like depression, dementia and cardiac death. On the another side, healthy friendships can help us a lot, doing better with stress and living happier and longer. Plus, happiness is contagious. Harvard researchers found that when an individual becomes happy, his or her friends who live in a 1.6-kilometre radius have a 25 percent higher chance of getting a boost in happiness, too.
Hence, making and deepening friendships matters more than we imagine. You might think making friends is an inherent skill that doesn’t need to be taught. It’s not the case. We can all get better at connection if we try. Some experts offer some tricks to make finding connection a little easier.
1. How does the author lead in the topic of the text?A.By listing a lot of figures. |
B.By drawing a conclusion. |
C.By making a comparison. |
D.By showing a conversation. |
A.Lack of breaks in the workplace. |
B.Worry about being deeply hurt. |
C.Unwillingness to communicate. |
D.Lack of unplanned interactions. |
A.The necessity of staying connected. |
B.The approach to leading a happy life. |
C.The consequences of getting into bad habits. |
D.The relationship between happiness and habits. |
A.Unrealistic. | B.Influential. | C.Flexible. | D.Unique. |
Twins Katie and Sarah Monahan arrived at Pennsylvania’s Gettysburg College. They were determined to strike out on independent paths. Although the 18-year-old sisters had requested rooms in different dormitory, the housing office placed them on the eighth floor of the same building, across the hall from each other.
Katie was a very lovely and kind-hearted girl. She always did her best to prevent others from any problem. Once the dormitory was out of electricity and her roommate. Windy was studying in the classroom only leaving Katie alone in the dormitory at that time Katie had just finished her favourite horrible American TV series. She felt very scared. But she didn’t want to disturb Windy, so she just stayed in the dark dormitory alone till Windy got back to the dormitory. Windy was a nice girl too. She gave Katie a lot of comfort and care. She would like to make Katie relax after stressful study. She often shared her happiness with Katie. They lived a very happy life together.
While Katie got along with her roommate, Sarah was always cold, but Lily never wanted to turn on the heat, even though it was snowing heavily outside. Sarah liked wearing fur in winter and she also enjoyed cutting up frogs in biology class. But Lily is an vegetarian (素食主义者) and believed all living things are holy (神圣的), even ants and mosquitoes. She and her roommate silently warred over matters ranging from when the lights should be turned off to how the furniture should be arranged. Finally, they gave up communicating.
One day, there was a dormitory contest, which needed roommates to join hands to decorate their dormitory. Sarah wanted to win in the contest but she thought it was impossible for her to finish it because she didn’t talk with Lily.
Depressed and hopeless, Sarah ran across the hall to seek help from Katie.
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Hearing what Katie said, both Sarah and Lily lowered their heads.
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7 . Kindness May Keep You Healthy
If you are driving in the United States, you may see a common bumper (汽车保险杠) sticker on passing vehicles that reads:
However, being kind is not just emotionally beneficial. Lyubomirsky studied a group of people with the disease Multiple Sclerosis (多发性硬化).
“The basic reason why people are kind,” Oliver Curry, explained, the research director at Kind-lab that is a non-profit organization, “is that we are social animals. Kindness is as much a part of us as our anger, grief or desire.”
A.Perform random acts of kindness |
B.Acts of kindness are very powerful |
C.In other words, we are designed to be kind. |
D.She found that they felt better physically when helping others. |
E.Research shows that doing kind things can make us feel better |
F.He found that being kind makes people feel better emotionally, |
G.Other research has shown that many people prize kindness above other values |
8 . Having good working relationships with your coworkers is important. Unfortunately, some coworkers can be rude, or unprofessional. It’s easy to get stressed and struggle with productivity when you’re suffering a bad work relationship.
One easiest way to avoid trouble is simply to avoid them when you can. Stay away from difficult coworkers if you don’t have to work with them directly. Limit your interactions.
Fight a coworker’s negativity with your own optimistic perspective. Does your coworker seem to complain constantly?
Understanding and empathizing with them makes it easier to get along. As you learn about your coworker, you’ll also gain insight into why they behave the way they do.
A.If so, build a positive attitude in response. |
B.Try developing a few coping methods to help you. |
C.Thankfully, there are ways to improve the situation. |
D.Then you’ll reduce the amount of frustration you feel. |
E.They might be overworked, or going through a rough time. |
F.Get to know your coworker so you can understand why they act that way. |
G.Letting bad behavior slide right off your shoulders is often the easiest way. |
9 . Going Solo to a wedding? Make Yourself Welcome.
Taylor was nervous when walking into the wedding of her friend Gabrielle. She’s not alone. Attending a wedding by yourself can bring anxiety, especially for people who are single and feeling lonely.
Dress to Impress
Wearing something that will make you feel comfortable and confident is key.
A Smooth Arrival
The first thing to do when you enter an event space is find the bathroom. Take a look in the mirror and get situated. Then, go to the bar and grab a glass of water or a drink.
Conversation
After dinner and some chitchat, there’s no harm in leaving if you don’t feel like you want to stay any longer on your own.
A.But the effort and the presence are what count. |
B.People are more willing to talk to you if you do that. |
C.If a conversation doesn’t go as expected, don’t get discouraged |
D.You may want to make an excuse and stay home, but don’t do that. |
E.Talking to people who are also waiting at the bar is a great way to start. |
F.Introduce yourself to everyone at the table, whether there is arranged seating or not. |
G.For her friend’s wedding, Taylor wore a floral dress and was feeling herself that day. |
10 . We all remember our first days of high-school, college, our first job. We all remember the feelings of butterflies in our stomachs when we took our
What if my coworkers don’t like me? What if I mess everything up? These are the
It has only been a week and you have already fallen into a rhythm. You walk into your workplace and
You notice a new task that you haven’t encountered before, but you no longer feel
A.first | B.quick | C.big | D.light |
A.achieve | B.belong | C.finish | D.find |
A.opinions | B.memories | C.excuses | D.thoughts |
A.brave | B.careful | C.determined | D.patient |
A.despair | B.desire | C.fear | D.promise |
A.career | B.relationship | C.habit | D.rhythm |
A.say hello | B.make an apology | C.wave goodbye | D.tell a story |
A.end in | B.give up | C.strike up | D.cut in |
A.confusedly | B.curiously | C.impatiently | D.hurriedly |
A.take in | B.search for | C.think of | D.reach for |
A.work | B.report | C.schedule | D.routine |
A.pleasure | B.respect | C.uncertainty | D.loneliness |
A.survived | B.planned | C.surprised | D.regretted |
A.advised | B.congratulated | C.lectured | D.questioned |
A.wrinkle | B.smile | C.frown | D.sorrow |