1. 对礼物的喜爱;
2. 对她的感激。
注意:1. 词数100左右;
2. 可适当增加细节,以使行文连贯。
Dear Mary,
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Yours,
Li Hua
2 . Will Covid-19 Kill the Handshake?
The handshake might date back to the 14th century, when knights (骑士) and soldiers would extend their unclenched(松开的) right hands toward each other in greeting to show that they were carrying no weapons.
Now that a novel coronavirus is spreading fast, our hands are being cast in a new, doubtful light.
COVID-19 is a real threat, and we shouldn’t take the warning lightly. We may, indeed, need to keep our hands to ourselves for the time being. But we’re not ready to send handshake into the dustbin of history. Humans long for making a physical connection with friends. For now, perhaps, a regretful smile and nod might work as a shared acknowledgment.
A.Could we hug each other or nod? |
B.Could this be the end of the handshake? |
C.As we all know, shaking hands has become a habit. |
D.After all, our friendly intentions were not to infect or be infected by others. |
E.These days, it would seem, the potential weapon isn’t a knife, but the hand itself. |
F.We’re being drilled in handwashing techniques as if we were all second-graders. |
G.The French have been advised to abandon the familiar kiss on the cheek greeting. |
3 . Fear of missing out or FOMO is “a pervasive apprehension that others might be having rewarding experiences from which one is absent”.
Researchers have found that FOMO leads us to check social media more frequently, leading to a negative cycle that can be hard to break. FOMO can lead to feelings of depression, loneliness, and boredom.
Change your focus
Rather than focusing on what you lack, try noticing what you have. “Meritocracy(精英) society” is advocated today, but in fact, everyone owns their own success.
Keep a journal
It is common to post on social media to keep a record of the fun things you do. However, you may find yourself noticing a little too much about whether people are following your experiences online.
Seek out real connections
You may find yourself seeking a greater connection when you are feeling depressed or anxious, and this is healthy.
A.The answer is definitely: NO. |
B.This social anxiety is characterized by “a desire to stay continually connected with what others are doing”. |
C.FOMO is also defined as a fear of regret, which may lead to a compulsive concern that one might miss an opportunity for social interaction, a novel experience, profitable investment or other satisfying events. |
D.If this is the case, you may try to keep a personal journal of your best memories, either online or on paper. |
E.Try to reduce our screen time, focus on building your own path to success and do what you like. |
F.Your mood will be easily influenced by others and your life starts to be controlled by the outside world. |
G.Rather than trying to connect more with people on social media, why not arrange to meet up with someone in person? |
4 . How to Show Maturity
Sometimes it's fun to be a kid, but other times you want to show that you can be mature. Maturity can be a signpost of moving from childhood to adulthood.
●Live by your values. Maturity includes making decisions based on your values and morals, instead of what feels good at the moment.
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●Treat people with respect. Respect builds trust and support in a relationship. Make sure you treat others with the same respect, whether it is your parents, friends or romantic partner.
●Admit your disadvantages.
A.Keep your commitments. |
B.This is a very mature action. |
C.Reflect on what makes you active. |
D.Allow your values to guide your life. |
E.Respect others with both your actions and your words. |
F.A good way to learn respect is to first respect yourself. |
G.It can include intellectual, emotional and even spiritual aspects. |
5 . Steve Sparks was a young successful lawyer working for a famous law firm when his 3-year-old daughter’s serious leg problem changed his focus and the direction of his life. The problem led to many visits to doctors and an uncertain future. In a moment his life’s focus shifted from where he was going to take his clients to lunch to whether his daughter Katie was ever going to see her fourth birthday.
For three years Katie received many treatments in the hospital. And with the help of wonderful doctors and kind care-givers in Nemours Foundation, who Steve and his wife Michelle describe as heroes, Katie’s illness was cured.
Forever changed by the experience and inspired by the heroes who saved his daughter’s life, Steve felt he couldn’t go back to business as usual. He felt there was something else he was meant to do. He joined the Nemours Foundation as their lawyer. The job change came with a 65% pay cut from what he was making, but Steve’s purpose had found him and it was more important than a paycheck.
Fast forward 18 years, Katie is now a healthy 20-year-old junior in college and Steve is the Senior Vice-president of the Nemours Foundation where he brings Kati story and his purpose to work every day.
In 3 weeks Steve will celebrate Katie’s 21st birthday, and give a big thank-you to Nemours by riding his bicycle from Nemours’ headquarters in Jacksonville, Florida to Wilmington, Delaware. He will ride more than 900 miles in 9 days and raise 100,000 for the Nemours Foundation. His purpose hasn’t just become a part of his work. It has become a part of himself and his family.
1. What’s the text mainly about?A.A hospital saved a girl’s life. | B.A girl going through a disease. |
C.A man with a good purpose. | D.A family suffered a lot. |
A.Injury. | B.Reduction. | C.Share. | D.Hole. |
A.To find his purpose. | B.To cure his daughter. |
C.To earn more money. | D.To help others. |
A.Sometimes we find our purpose and sometimes our purpose finds us. |
B.Unless you work hard, you cannot overcome any difficulty. |
C.Anyone who is kind to others deserves good returns. |
D.Nothing is more important than health. |
6 . The joy of giving is real, according to a study. Research presented in the Journal of the Association for Psychological Science shows that those who give gifts are happier — and happier for longer — than those who receive gifts.
Researchers conducted two studies last year. In one,participants were given $5 every day for five days and were required to spend the money on the same thing each day. Some participants were required to spend the money on themselves, while others were required to give to make a donation to charity. In a second experiment that was done online, participants played 10 rounds of a word puzzle game and each won 5 cents per round, which they could keep or donate.
In both experiments, participants reported their overall happiness. Those who donated their money showed that their happiness declined at a much slower rate than those who kept the money or spent it on themselves.
The researchers note that when people focus on an outcome, they can easily compare outcomes, which may diminish their sensitivity to each experience. When people focus on an action, they may focus less on comparison and instead experience each act of giving as a unique happiness-inducing event. Further analyses ruled out some potential alternative explanations, such as the possibility that participants who gave to others had to think longer and harder about what to give, which could promote higher happiness.
The results are especially interesting because according to one of the researchers, Ed O’Brien of the University of Chicago Booth School of Business, they conflict with past research. “If you want to sustain happiness over time, past research tells us that we need to take a break from what were currently consuming and experience something new. Our research reveals that the kind of thing may matter more than assumed: Repeated giving, even in identical ways to identical other,may continue to feel relatively fresh and relatively pleasurable the more we do it,” O’Brien said.
So for all the holiday gifts you give this season, expect to feel happy and know that feeling is going to stick around for a while.
1. What’s the function of the first paragraph?A.To lead to the topic. |
B.To highlight the importance of the study. |
C.To recommend a journal. |
D.To persuade people to give gifts regularly. |
A.To challenge the past research. |
B.To rule out different experimental data. |
C.To show the benefits of donation. |
D.To make the conclusion more convincing. |
A.Develop. | B.Show. | C.Reduce. | D.Lack. |
A.Gift giving will result in longer happiness than receiving. |
B.Thinking longer and harder on giving will promote higher happiness. |
C.The feeling of happiness will disappear soon if people just give holiday gifts. |
D.Taking a break from what were currently consuming will sustain happiness. |
7 . In the workplace, one of the most important skills to possess is good communication.
Having empathy (同理心)is very useful in communication.
Encouraging others will heighten confidence and appreciation in the workplace.
Body language can greatly impact how others treat you in the workplace. Being extroverted(外向的) and friendly lets co-workers know you are open to hearing their opinions about projects or new designs.
While many of these good communication skills occur naturally in individuals, some may need to be learned and practiced in order to become second nature.
A.While communication is important |
B.By praising and offering words of encouragement |
C.Praising co-workers helps communications go smoothly |
D.It involves seeing things from the point of view of others |
E.People value co-workers who can communicate effectively |
F.Being able to listen to others is vital in the communication process |
G.Body language is a large part of being empathetic and encouraging |
8 . After exactly a year of staying at home, we have adapted to socializing digitally, in short bursts of time.Remember in Before Times you could head to the gym after work and then get dressed for dinner and a night out? The pandemic(疫情) has changed this. Our social batteries have run out of charge. It's been a long time since we had to perform our social role for an extended period.
For 23-year-old Hafsa, the excitement of her friends and family to restart their social lives has left her astonished. “ At the minute my parents are planning a trip abroad and I keep postponing getting back to them with a date,” she explains. “They don't know it's because of all of this. Just the thought of being in a room full of people is scary, it's like going back to school.”
Heather Garbutt, psychotherapist of the Counselling & Psychotherapy Centre says communication is key to recharging your unused social battery. “Take it slowly and don't immediately organize a large get-together,” she advises. “Go for a walk with somebody for no more than half an hour and gently get used to being with people again. It may actually be a shock to our system which has been shut down to some degree to cope with absence. We may have that longing to be with others, but that doesn't mean we are free from anxiety. It would be good to start off with a conversation about what it's going to be like when you are all together again.”
She says finding some causal topics to discuss also works. Acknowledge that many of you may feel a bit awkward after being physically apart for so long. It's a bit like learning to walk again after you've broken a limb. It may all be off-balance to begin with but you will find a new steadiness with practice. Whatever happens post-pandemic, your loved ones can't judge if you want to take it easy and not engage in the festivities immediately. We are recovering from a post-pandemic stress disorder, after all.
1. What has become of us after a year of staying at home?A.We are addicted to chatting with people online' |
B.We may feel it impossible to go back to normal |
C.We are quite looking forward to being with people. |
D.We may find it hard to socialize with others like before. |
A.Anxious. | B.Excited. |
C.Astonished. | D.Guilty. |
A.Pay a visit to a close friend and stay over. |
B.Hang out with your friends for several hours. |
C.Have a brief chat about your future get-together. |
D.Ignore those who are anxious about connecting with others. |
A.What Can Help Repair Our Social Networks? |
B.How Can We Restore Our Social Batteries? |
C.When Can We Speed Up Our Reunion Plan? |
D.Why Did the Pandemic Mess Up Our Social Life? |
9 . If you have some free time to socialize, do you prefer to spend it with your best friend or partner, or with a larger group of people?
A new study investigated what group size people actually look for and encounter in everyday life. The scientists asked more than 4, 000 people from the U. S. and the Netherlands to report the size of their social groups for a wide variety of activities. For eight different activities (going to a bar, chatting at work, chatting off work, having dinner, going on a holiday, going to a movie theatre, working on a project, playing sports), people reported a group size of two more often than they reported larger group sizes. Interestingly, for about half of these activities, women reported a group size of two significantly more often than men did, suggesting that women prefer a social group size of two even more than men do.
The researchers also used a research technique called real—time experience—sampling in the second part of the study. 274 volunteers were asked seven times a day to report the last social situation they had experienced. The results were clear. Two was the most common group size with 52. 6 percent. Thus, this part of the study also suggested that two is the most common group size in social interactions.
So why do people prefer spending their time with one other person compared to spending their time with larger groups? Researchers explained that in general, social interactions with just one other person allow for more control of the situation, especially when it comes to reciprocity ( 互助). When we interact with just one other person, one's choices directly affect the other person and only that person. Thus, it is easy to distinguish whether there is mutual cooperation (for example, both people take turns paying for dinner) or whether someone acts selfishly (for example, one person never pays the bill). In larger groups, the situation gets much more complicated.
1. What is the new study mainly about?A.What social group size people prefer. |
B.Whom people like to spend time with. |
C.Which activities people choose to kill time. |
D.How people make friends in social activities. |
A.To collect the latest data. |
B.To make their activities last longer. |
C.To know the variety of their activities. |
D.To prove the result of the former study. |
A.The closer relationship. | B.The limited choices. |
C.The sense of control. | D.The selfish intention. |
A.Advanced technology. | B.Social psychology. |
C.Entertainment. | D.Health. |
1.表示歉意;
2.解释原因;
3.另约时间。
注意:1.词数80左右;
2.开头和结尾已给出,不计入总词数。
Dear David,
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Yours,
Li Hua