1 . When going through major life changes, like changing careers, I would change the people with whom I spent the most time. We’ve all gone through periods when the people in our lives have changed — graduation, moving to a new city, getting a new job, joining a new club, etc. I don’t think I need to convince you just how much influence other people can have over your identity. If you’ve ever experienced a major switch in your people environment, then you know that you change as well.
Most people don’t make these choices consciously though. You might consciously decide to spend more time with a certain friend, or you may ask someone out on a date to begin a new relationship. But few people choose their existing friendships deliberately.
There’s no “getting rid of people”. People are always dropping into and out of each other’s lives. Associations grow into friendships, and friendships fade into associations. You don’t get rid of anyone. The truth is that in order to make room for new people and new experiences, you may need to loosen up some of your existing connections.
What about loyalty (忠诚)? Shouldn’t you always be loyal to your friends? Once you have a close friend, even if their influence on you is slightly harmful, shouldn’t you stick by them?
Loyalty to a friend sometimes means having to let go. It means being loyal to their highest and best as well. If someone is destroying his health by smoking, for example, you aren’t showing loyalty by smoking right along with him. True loyally sometimes requires that you break damaging connections, get yourself back on solid ground, and then decide what you can really do to help your friend.
It can take a lot of courage to tell someone, “I’m sorry, but I can’t have you in my life anymore.” But even though this might seem like a selfish act at times, it’s often the best thing for the other person too. If a relationship is holding you back in some way, understand that it is also hurting the other person. For example, if you work for a violent boss, your acceptance of that situation is considered to be silent approval, encouraging your boss to continue to behave violently.
1. When experiencing major life changes, people may ________.A.join a new social community | B.influence their friends around |
C.choose their friendships purposely | D.have their people environment changed |
A.Everyone has at least one friend. |
B.It is unnecessary to make new friends. |
C.It is natural for different people to enter or leave one’s life. |
D.You ought to treat your old and new friend equally. |
A.Never betray your close friends whatever happens. |
B.Correct their mistakes while you guard their goodness. |
C.Stick by your friends even though they do harm to you. |
D.Break up with your friends immediately if they smoke. |
A.We should accept what we are told to do. | B.We should stay silent and be in favor of him. |
C.We should bravely disobey him if he is wrong. | D.We should give our boss courage to continue. |
2 . It is said that most people have not more than 30 friends at any given time, and 400 over the whole of their lives. However, on social networking sites, most users have about 150 friends. If these numbers are correct, then friendship means different things in different situations.
Also, there are no rules about friendship. There are no instructions about how to make friends, how to keep friendships going, and how to finish friendships if we want to move on. People have very different opinions about this: some people would die for their friends and they value them more than family. Others say that friends are temporary, only there to help each other until they are no longer needed. If people with such different views become friends, this can lead to problems.
Because of these different definitions of friendship, it is easy to be unhappy about our friendships. We may want them to be deeper or closer, or we may want to have more friends in our lives. Sometimes we simply do not have the time to develop our friendships, or we fear we have left it too late in life to start. If we move to another country or city, we have to find ways to make new friends again.
This dissatisfaction shows us how important friendships are for most of us. We should not think that it could be too late to build friendships. We also need to understand that the need to be around other people is one that is shared by many. Therefore, we should not be too frightened about starting to talk to people who in the future may become our friends: it is likely that they too would like to get closer to us. Remember what people say: strangers are friends we have not met yet.
1. In Para.1, the numbers are used to _______.A.show the ways of making friends |
B.introduce the topic |
C.explain the reason |
D.persuade readers to make more friends |
A.There is a rule about making friends. |
B.People with different views can become friends. |
C.Friendships mean different things to different people. |
D.Some people would die for their friends if they need to. |
A.they spend too much money with friends |
B.they are too old to make friends |
C.they have too many friends |
D.they spend too much time with friends |
A.need to have friends | B.build friendships late in life |
C.are dissatisfied with our friends | D.are frightened to talk to people |
A.Uninterested. | B.Cautious. |
C.Doubtful. | D.Positive. |
3 . In February, Japan appointed Tetsushi Sakamoto as the country’s first Minister of Loneliness to address the issue of isolation for the growing number of the population who live alone.
Loneliness has been a long-standing issue in Japan. Half a million people in the country live a solitary(独身的) life. They are known as hikikomori – “those who withdraw from all social contact and often don’t leave their houses for years at a time”, according to the BBC.
“In Japanese strict social norms(行为规范), high expectations from parents and a culture of shame make Japanese society a fertile ground for feelings of inadequacy.” Takahiro Kato, who studies and treats hikikomori, told the BBC.
But the pandemic has only worsened the effects of this lifestyle. According to figures released by the National Police Agency, in 2020 Japan saw a rise in suicides for the first time in 11 years. A total of 20,919 people took their own lives, 750 more than the previous year. The majority of them were single women and students.
Before the pandemic(疫情), most people who live alone had a fairly normal routine: a full day of work, dining with friends afterward, then going home. But the pandemic forced them to stay indoors, reducing the few chances they had to socialize.
Sakamoto hopes to deal with the issue of increased feelings of isolation. At a news conference on Feb 12, he said that he hopes to “carry out activities to prevent social loneliness and isolation and to protect ties between people”.
After all, just as UK poet John Donne wrote, “No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main.”
1. What does the underlined word “inadequacy” in paragraph 3 probably mean?A.Respecting the elderly. | B.Lacking self-confidence. |
C.Hiding to avoid trouble. | D.Following social norms. |
A.The pandemic put people out of work. |
B.The pandemic made solitary people feel lonelier. |
C.People suffered from anxiety due to the pandemic. |
D.Being outside their routine caused inconvenience. |
A.Man is a social animal. |
B.Everyone is like everyone else. |
C.People should be ashamed of being alone. |
D.People can find ways to deal with loneliness. |
A.The reason why there are hikikomori in Japan. |
B.The responsibility of the Minister of Loneliness. |
C.How the pandemic has affected people's lives in Japan. |
D.Why Japan appointed a Minister of Loneliness. |
Alice had just been appointed in the multinational bank. After one month of severe training, today was her first day to go to work.
She got up a bit earlier than usual, and decided to skip her gym workout as she did not want to risk being tired or getting late to her office on her first day. She went through her morning routine and spent a lot of time in selecting what to wear. None of her dresses seemed to appeal to her—they were either a little too casual or too dull and she definitely wanted to make an impression right from the start. Finally she settled on the white embroidered (刺绣的) dress.
She waved bye to her mom and set off cheerfully towards the bus stop. But she saw a bus leaving the stop just as she crossed the street. Now she would have to wait for a good 15 minutes. 15 minutes passed and then 30 minutes and there was no sign of the bus. “It must be stuck in heavy traffic”, a kind lady who was also waiting for the bus told her. Hearing that, Alice got anxious. She had to reach her office on time. Then she saw a taxi approaching but when she tried to stop it, the taxi driver sped by without even taking a glance at her. Alice was wondering what she could do.
It was then that a car stopped near her and a man waved to her. The driver asked her where she was going and after Alice told him that she was going to the bank at Nariman Point, the man said “Oh, my office is in the nearby building. Can I give you a lift?” Alice hesitated for a moment and got into the car. They exchanged names and began to talk for a while. Then the driver switched on the radio and was absorbed in the song. Alice looked out of the window and imagined her first day at work, worrying whether she was capable of the new job, and if she could get along well with her colleagues. After about ten minutes, Alice realized they were not on the familiar route to her office.
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She began to worry that she might get into the car of a bad man.
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Then the car turned around a corner and Alice saw the tall building where her office was unexpectedly.
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5 . How do we take part in dinner party in foreign countries ? Have you ever experienced it ? I hated dinner parties. But I decided to give them another shot because I'm in London. And my friend Mallery invited me. And because dinner parties in London are very different from those back in New York. There, "I'm having a dinner party" means: " I'm booking a table for 12 at a restaurant you can't afford and we'll be sharing the cheque evenly, no matter what you eat." Worse, in Manhattan, there is always someone who leaves before the bill arrives. They'll throw down cash, half of what they owe, and then people like me, who don't drink, end up paying even more. But if I try to use the same trick, the hostess will shout: "Where are you going?" And it's not like I can say I have somewhere to go: everyone knows I have nowhere to go.
But in London, dinner parties are in people's homes. Not only that, the guests are an interesting mix. The last time I went to one, the guests were from France, India, Denmark and Nigeria; it was like a gathering at the United Nations. In New York, the mix is less striking. It's like a gathering at Bloomingdale's a well-known department store.
For New Yorkers, talking about other parts of the world means Brooklyn and Queens in New York. But at Mallery's, when I said that I had been to Myanmar recently, people knew where it was. In New York, people would think it was a usual new club.
1. What does the word "shot", in Paragraph 1 probably mean?A.Choice. | B.Try. | C.Style. | D.Goal. |
A.There is a strange mix of people. | B.The restaurants are expensive. |
C.The bill is not fairly shared. | D.People have to pay cash. |
A.Easy-going. | B.Self-centred. | C.Generous. | D.Conservative |
1.主讲人、参会人、活动的时间、地点
2.讲座的内容
3.同学的评价与收获。
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2.可以适当增加细节,以使行文连贯。
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7 . Traveling alone can be daunting. I have traveled by myself many times but, on every occasion, there was someone to meet me at the other end of the bus, train or plane journey. This time was different.
Last week I had a holiday from work, but none of my friends had the same week off. I decided that I still wanted to do something, so I booked a train ride to Toronto and reserved(预定) a bed in a hostel for one week.
One week by myself. Would I be lonely? Would I be bored? Quite the opposite. In fact, there are many benefits that come from traveling alone. Firstly, I was able to do whatever I wanted. I spent hours in museums that would have seemed boring and dull to some of my friends. I walked all around the city, which some people may have found too exhausting(令人疲惫的). Instead of relying on someone else to remember directions or to suggest activities to do, I discovered my independence and developed map-reading skills that I didn’t know I had. I could get up and go to sleep when I wanted and I didn’t have to wait for anyone else to shower and get ready every morning. Being in the safe environment of a hostel with like-minded travelers also gives a great opportunity to meet new people from all over the world, which can help combat loneliness.
In spite of the benefits, I found that there were also some disadvantages of traveling alone. I missed having someone to talk to and to bounce(探讨) ideas off. Experiences are often more enjoyable if they are shared, and part of the fun of traveling is the memories you have afterwards. Without a travel partner, I won’t be able to laugh about and remember my Toronto adventure with a friend of family member in years to come.
In addition, eating in a restaurant or cooking in the hostel was less fun on my own.
I am very proud of myself for traveling alone, and I had a fantastic time in Toronto. However, in the future, I think I will always prefer to travel with another person or in a small group. Though, maybe it depends on who you travel with—I would rather be by myself than with someone who is lazy, difficult and argumentative(好争论的).
1. What happened to the author last week?A.She lost her way during a trip to Toronto. |
B.She felt lonely away from home and missed her family. |
C.She booked a group tour to Toronto with her friends. |
D.She traveled alone to Toronto during a work vacation. |
A.finds it boring and dull to visit museums. |
B.has always had great map-reading skills. |
C.enjoys sharing traveling stories with family and friends. |
D.believes she could benefit by traveling alone more |
A.learn about. | B.adapt to |
C.fight against | D.live with |
A.ambitious and imaginative | B.enthusiastic and independent. |
C.talkative and humorous | D.generous and kind |
Children of One God
Bina and Adil came from neighboring villages.They went to the same school between the two villages.
Things went smoothly,
The villagers agreed.A fight started over this small issue.It got increasingly
Bina and Adil were terribly upset. Mr.Pillai,their history teacher, called them to his room.On entering his room,Bina burst into tears.”Why are people behaving like this?Are they mad?”
“Yes,”answered Mr.Pillai,”They are!But there is a medicine to cure them.And you children can help me.”The two children were prepared to do anything they
Next day,at the assembly,Mr.Pillai said,:You are all children of one God.You are the flowers in his garden.His garden will look ugly
Everyone wanted to participle in the play. Mr.Pillai made sure that every child had a part
The play was based on the Freedom Struggle
The play began.Many elders shed tears as scenes from the past flashed before their eyes.At the end of the play,the Headmaster of the school thanked the children and
9 . Improve Your Relationships
Having stable and positive relationships in your life can make you happier and more fulfilled. Whether it's your friends, family, or significant other, improving a relationship can sometimes be confusing.
Express your appreciation for the person.
If you hardly see each other or talk to each other, it can be difficult to maintain a relationship. Take extra time out of your day and devote it to the person that you want to improve relations with. Try to work around the other person's schedule so that you can spend the time together. You can share a meal, watch a show, listen to music, or go shopping with them.
Turn off distractions.
Distractions like a cell phone, social media, or video games can create a division in between you and another person. If you notice that you are always distracted, you should turn off your cell phone or computer and talk to them.
Seek therapy(心理治疗) if you can't get along.
To fix or improve family relationships or relationships with your significant other, you can turn to therapy. If you notice that you and the person are always arguing over the same kinds of things, and nothing has worked, you should consider seeking therapy with them.
A.Spend more time with the person. |
B.Maintain a relationship if possible. |
C.People often like to be praised for achievements. |
D.A specialist can help solve longterm issues in the relationship. |
E.If they are the one always distracted, ask them if they can do the same. |
F.Follow the tips and you can develop good relationships with your family. |
G.Luckily, by adjusting your behaviour, you can improve any relationship in your life. |
10 . Rhemy Elsey, a fifth-grader, is deaf and mainly uses sign language to communicate, along with the
It’s been a few months since the club was
His interpreter, Tammy Arvin,
The club has already had an effect on the way the students
“It
A.role | B.help | C.idea | D.need |
A.give up | B.put off | C.prepare for | D.talk about |
A.openly | B.casually | C.modestly | D.effectively |
A.improved | B.formed | C.evaluated | D.purchased |
A.delighted | B.worried | C.calmed | D.disappointed |
A.visits | B.blames | C.instructs | D.discovers |
A.rules | B.goals | C.signs | D.games |
A.since | B.before | C.through | D.during |
A.moved | B.embarrassed | C.anxious | D.concerned |
A.agree | B.fight | C.compare | D.communicate |
A.kids | B.teachers | C.interpreters | D.parents |
A.discussing | B.exploring | C.saving | D.controlling |
A.frequently | B.hardly | C.really | D.suddenly |
A.task | B.behavior | C.culture | D.opinion |
A.fearing | B.benefiting | C.appreciating | D.ignoring |