Today I was at the shopping centre and I spent a lot of time reading the Father’s Day cards. But as I chose and read, and chose and read again, it seemed that not a single card said what I really wanted to say to you.
You’ll soon be 84 years old, Dad, and you and I will have had 56 Father’s Days together. I didn’t think that you were too old. But the sad thing happened last week. I watched as you turned at the corner in your car. I didn’t realize at once that it was you because the man who was driving looked so elderly.
Fifty years ago this spring, we planted carrots together in a garden in Charles City, Iowa. This week, we’ll plant carrots together again, perhaps for the last time but I hope not. I don’t understand why planting carrots with you is so important to me. Well, I don’t quite know how to tell you this, dad…I don’t like carrots…but I like planting them with you.
I guess what I am trying to say, Dad, is what every son and daughter wants to say to their dad today. Praising a father on Father’s Day is about more than a dad who brings home money or shares a dinner. It’s more about a dad deeply loving children who know everything and won’t listen to anyone. It’s about sharing. It’s about loving someone more than words can say, and I wish that it would never end.
Lover,
Jenny
1. Where did Jenny go today?A.A garden. | B.A shopping center. | C.A cinema. | D.A hospital. |
A.An old man. | B.A car driver. | C.Jenny’s father. | D.Jenny’s husband. |
A.It’s the last time for Jenny to plant carrots with her father. |
B.Jenny and her father plant carrots together every year. |
C.Both Jenny and her father like eating carrots. |
D.Jenny would like to stay with her father. |
A.Deep love for Dad. | B.Best wishes for Dad. |
C.The importance of Dad. | D.The beginning of Father’s Day. |
2 . Test anxiety is a form of performance anxiety. Wanting to perform well can be a strong encouraging factor that helps you prepare for success.
Get a good night’s sleep. Since your brain is responsible for taking all the information you’ve studied and storing it for test day, getting seven to nine hours of sleep will help you remember what you’ve learned. Proper rest is also important for calming yourself.
Try to do some exercise. The importance of exercise goes far beyond (超出) its physical benefits. Exercise can also help you to calm your mind and relax. You can lift weights and practice yoga in the gym.
Form a picture of success in your mind. When you imagine success, you create a mental image (心理意象) of yourself performing well on the test and achieving your goal.
A.Take time to master what you’ve learned. |
B.Feeling rushed will only increase the anxiety. |
C.Don’t pay attention to what other people are doing. |
D.You can also go for a walk with your family outside. |
E.Therefore, have a good sleep when preparing for a big test. |
F.This can help prepare your mind and body for the test experience. |
G.However, the pressure to get a good grade may cause you to experience anxiety. |
3 . Do you ever worry about your study? Your health? These kinds of worries are quite common. However, for some people, worrying may become constant (连续发生的).
Realize your styles of thinking
Another step you can take to reduce your worries is to consider what aspects (方面) of a situation you can control. Once you have considered this, focus on what you can control, For example, if you are worried about your health, focus on lifestyle changes that you can make. If you are worried that you may fail an exam, focus on studying well.
Practice mindfulness (正念)
When we worry a lot, it often means that we are caught up in our past or our future.
Exercise more to help you stop worrying
Exercise such as running or going to the gym can help give you a break from your thoughts and worries.
A.Are you one of them? |
B.Why do I worry too much? |
C.Talk to someone about your worries. |
D.It also has many useful effects on the brain. |
E.Focus on changes you can make to worry less. |
F.Mindfulness is a practice of focusing on the present moment. |
G.You now need to have some understanding of your styles of thinking. |
My dear father is an ordinary man I respect, love and admire very much. No one in my life can replace him, it is his physical features and unique personality that make him a gentleman. In my eyes, he is a perfect father. He is not only a great painter, but also good at cooking, singing and repairing small machines in the house. I want to be a man like my father.
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Cooking is one of the greatest talents that my father has.
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I am greatly influenced by him.
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5 . There’s no single best way to cheer someone up when they are feeling down.
Write them a handwritten note. If you want to cheer someone up, you don’t have to write a six-page letter detailing every happy thing you can think of.
Have a movie night. Perhaps you won’t be talking a lot during the movie, but it’s an excuse to come together with the person you’re trying to support. Sometimes they just need a little company when they’re feeling down.
Bring them their favorite food. Surprising someone with their favorite meal is an act of kindness that many like. They’re called our “comfort foods” for a reason, and sharing them will help your friends feel better.
A.Try something new together. |
B.Talk about interesting things. |
C.It shows them that you value them. |
D.Often, it just depends on the person. |
E.Being close to someone can help them feel less alone. |
F.A simple note with a supportive sentence or a little card will be OK. |
G.Plus, sharing a meal together is a good chance to chat about whatever they want. |
6 . Everyone feels a little jealous (妒忌的) once in a while. But when the feeling begins to ruin your relationship and cause you stress, it’s probably time to start looking for ways to get rid of it. Here are some tips to help you along the way.
Sometimes there are deeper underlying (潜在的) issues that fuel jealousy. Once you admit that you’re struggling with jealousy, it’s time to start looking into why you’re feeling that way.
Use your jealousy to motivate yourself
Sometimes jealousy is rooted in feelings of insecurity and a lack of self-confidence.
Constantly comparing yourself to others can fuel feelings of insecurity. It can be tempting to compare yourself to others and want to compete against them. However, constantly setting yourself up against others can just make your jealousy and feelings of insecurity worse. Stop doing that.
A.Find the root of your jealousy |
B.Engage yourself in meaningful activities |
C.Focus on yourself and how you’re doing instead |
D.They are able to help you with increasing your confidence |
E.However, it’s important to find your own unique strengths |
F.For example, low self-confidence is often a cause of jealousy |
G.Your jealousy might be just what you need to seek what you want |
7 . Music affects our emotions. We tend to listen to music that reflects our mood. When we’re happy we may listen to upbeat (愉快的) music; when we’re sad we may listen to slower and more moving songs; when we’re angry we may listen to darker music with heavy guitar, drums and songs that reflect our level of anger. We may not know why we prefer the artists we listen to, but we can learn a lot about ourselves through our musical tastes.
Consider John, a pleasant man in his mid-40s who describes his mid-20s as a time when he was figuring out his place in life. At the time, he considered himself to be cold, nervous, shy, well-mannered and sensitive. But the music he preferred to listen to was dark, heavy and aggressive. After some time in therapy (治疗), John realized he’d been repressing (抑制) anger and aggression due to years of childhood abuse, and music had become his voice. Now John has been able to unlock his previously hidden emotions and begin to work through the issues.
Cindy, a woman in her mid-30s, has struggled through years of depression. While depressed, she often listened to music that reflected sadness and emotional pain. However, Cindy also noted that she had a passion for upbeat music that made her want to dance and feel free from emotional struggle. But she rarely felt this energy and freedom without the music encouraging. It turned out that Cindy was an energetic and happy child. However, Cindy’s struggle with depression began after her mother’s death when she was 11 years old. With the help of therapy, Cindy is now in the process of breaking through the layer of depression that has covered her since her mother died.
In summary, while music can move us in an intense emotional moment, it also can be used to teach us about unconscious elements of our emotional structure. If we notice a pattern of emotional music that raises questions about our current feelings or about who we are, it could be an important opportunity for self-exploration.
1. What kind of music do people probably listen to when they are delighted?A.Music with drums. | B.Slower songs. |
C.Upbeat music. | D.Dark music |
A.He was passionate. | B.He was aggressive. |
C.He was dark inside. | D.He was polite. |
A.Her mother passed away when she was 11 years old. |
B.She rarely felt energetic and free. |
C.She always listened to sad music. |
D.She had experienced childhood abuse. |
A.How to Be Happy |
B.Music Impacts Our Emotions |
C.People Change While Growing up |
D.Different People Listen to Different Music |
8 . How to cheer others up
It is nice to help a friend, family member, or partner out when he or she is feeling down. Here are some easy ways to cheer him or her up.
Just listen. Generally speaking, people who are feeling down would rather be alone.
Offer to give advice.
Make them laugh.
We are not natural comedians (喜剧演员) but that is okay. Even without being a professional comedian, we all have the ability to make our loved ones laugh.
A.Reduce their stress. |
B.Spend time with them. |
C.Ask for permission before you offer your advice. |
D.Something as simple as a hug can change a person’s day. |
E.In that case, listening is a very important step to cheering someone up. |
F.If they say yes, go ahead and gently offer the advice you have for them. |
G.Telling a joke, making a funny face or just smiling big enough can make your friends laugh. |
A.John didn’t do well in the exam. |
B.John doesn’t worry about the exam result. |
C.The exam was easier than the previous one. |
D.John is sure that he will do better in the next exam. |
10 . How to talk to your child about current events
Nowadays, exposure to worldwide events is easily accessible.
Educate yourself before speaking to your child
Give your child a chance to voice what they believe has happened and why. This will allow you to listen for any misinformation, address areas needing clarification, and hear what concerns or fears your child is currently processing.
Ask questions, and encourage your child to ask too
It’s important that you allow your child to absorb the information you’re giving them and give them time to respond. Asking your child questions about how the event made them feel can give your child the opportunity to talk about their emotions without your influence.
Share your feelings and experiences
It is often helpful to share your own feelings and responses surrounding the events. If you have experienced discrimination, discuss that experience, how it made you feel, and what you did to overcome it.
A.Ask your child what they know |
B.Look at current events together |
C.Additionally, allow your child to raise questions |
D.For this reason, it’s important to use language your child understands |
E.This can give them confidence that they will get through these feelings and fears |
F.Before speaking with your child, try to ensure that you have accurate information |
G.Children can see and hear about current events from the media without any difficulty |