1 . I am a cognitive behavioral hypnotherapist (认知行为治疗师). I started my practice from sleep disorders, and soon came to realize how strongly loneliness was linked with poor sleep. I’ve focused on my skills and understanding of loneliness in order to know how I could best serve my patients.
Loneliness is an emotion. We probably all experience it at some point, but loneliness is very complicated and unique to each of us. There’s a big difference between loneliness and solitude (独处). Being alone is a choice, while feeling lonely isn’t something we force ourselves. You want to be around people, but something is making you feel unwanted or empty, so you’re not having the meaningful connection you seek.
When you’re feeling lonely over a long period of time, it becomes a chronic (慢性的) problem. It can finally turn into a mental and physical health problem, and can be a symptom or cause of depression. It can affect self-respect. You might turn to food and not feel like exercising, as chronic loneliness is linked to increased risk of high blood pressure, obesity and even dementia (痴呆).
To manage loneliness, you need to accept it. Loneliness is one of the most common feelings people have. Don’t brush it under the carpet, as that doesn’t help solve the problem. Seek joy in little things, like smelling a flower or a walk in nature. Celebrate each small achievement. When you decide to change things and seek a connection in with others, consider ale-minded group. A patient of mine joined a sewing group and it was very successful.
The best way to help somebody who is lonely is to sensitively ask how they are and what they’re doing, and listen to the answer in a non-judgmental way. If you want to invite them to do something with you, do it. If they say no, don’t be discouraged from asking again. They might need time before feeling ready to say yes.
1. Why does the author focus on loneliness?A.To do research on patients’ sleep disorders. |
B.To find out the true reason for loneliness. |
C.To provide better service for patients. |
D.To help poor sleepers gain a better sleep. |
A.Accepting loneliness is the only cure. |
B.Hiding loneliness turns out to be unwise. |
C.Joining a sewing group proves successful. |
D.Meeting people with common interests won’t help. |
A.Invite him later again though he has refused. |
B.Leave him alone for fear of disturbing him. |
C.Tell him right from wrong after listening to him carefully. |
D.Ask about his conditions publicly when noticing him in a bad mood. |
A.Loneliness is a choice that people can choose by themselves. |
B.Loneliness is a factor that can influence your self-reflection. |
C.Loneliness is a serious problem that can cause dementia directly. |
D.Loneliness is a complicated emotion that people may all experience. |
After 22 years of marriage, I have discovered the secret to keep love alive in my relationship with my wife, Peggy. I started dating with another woman.
It was Peggy’s idea. One day she said to me, “Life is too short, you need to spend time with the people you love. You probably won’t believe me, but I know you love her and I think that if the two of you spend more time together, it will make us closer.”
The “other” woman my wife was encouraging me to date is my mother, a 72-year-old widow who has lived alone since my father died 20 years ago. Right after his death, I moved 2, 500 miles away to California and started my own life and career. When I moved back near my hometown six years ago, I promised myself that I would spend more time with Mom. But with the demands of my job and three kids, I never got around to seeing her much beyond family get-togethers and holidays.
Mom was surprised when I called and suggested the two of us go out to dinner.
“What’s wrong?” she asked.
“I thought it would be nice to spend some time with you,” I said. “Just the two of us.”
“I would like that a lot,” she said.
When I pulled into her driveway, she was waiting by the door with her coat on. Her hair was curled, and she was smiling. “I told my friends I was going out with my son, and they were all impressed. They can’t wait to hear about our evening,” Mom said.
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Dear Dad,
Growing up being the farmer’s daughter has been very interesting. It has made life challenging, fun and
I have always had a love for animals. Thank you
Every time I pass a field of corn, I think about how I grew up
I’m proud to have a farmer dad. Although there were some
I Love you,Dad!
4 . The journey towards self-improvement and personal success is often paved with challenges and obstacles.
Mindset rests on a fundamental principle: your inner beliefs and thoughts can form your reality.
Factors like talent and hard work are often highlighted in professional success.
To make full use of the potential of your mindset, it is crucial to confront and overcome limiting beliefs. You may never realize it.
A.This isn’t merely hopeful thinking. |
B.Effort and ability can equal a positive mindset. |
C.The growth mindset means continuous improvement. |
D.In fact, mindset emerges as an equally critical element. |
E.Such beliefs can act as invisible barriers to your success. |
F.Mindset plays an important role in building good relationship. |
G.However, a crucial element that influences this journey is the mindset. |
Putting down the mobile phone, talking about negative feelings with friends or seeking professional advice are some of the methods to help tackle depression and
The World Health Organization said in March that the prevalence of depression around the world
Lu Lin, an academician with the Chinese Academy of Sciences and president of the Peking University Sixth Hospital, said at
From March 2020 to March 2021, the prevalence of depression and insomnia(失眠)in China had risen and repeated COVID outbreaks, quarantine requirements and the high risk of exposure
In an interview with People’s Daily, Lu said that some misinformation circulated online during the epidemic
The public should pay closer attention to information released by authoritative outlets, he suggested. People should also reduce the amount of time
6 . One in four children who are feeling sad or anxious hide mental health difficulties from their parents, research shows.
BBC Children in Ned surveyed 2,502 young people aged 11 to 18, whose replies suggested that one in three regularly felt anxious or worried about their future. One in four said that they regularly felt the need to hide negative feelings, while one in three said they did not feel comfortable asking for help about feelings and emotions. One in four said they had not talked to someone they trusted about their mental health in the past six months.
Researchers also surveyed 2,500 parents, with half saying that there was insufficient support available for children struggling with’ mental health. One in six said they were not confident in recognizing signs of poor mental health in their child. Simon Antrobus, president of BBC Children in Need, said, “Some feelings of anxiety can be hidden, so empathizing (共情) with them and letting them know that you understand why they feel the way they do can make a real difference to a child’s health and can help prevent mental health problems from becoming serious.”
Meanwhile a survey of 3,014 adults by the mental health charity, Mind, suggested that the rising expenses of living is making people stressed. Half of participants said that their mental health was being negatively affected by the financial impact of the expenses of living- Sarah Hughes, Mind chief executive, said, “The uncertainty of watching as our costs rise can be difficult to bear and having so much to deal with can affect our mental health. Despite this, looking after our mental health is often last on our list.”
1. What can be learned from the survey on young people in paragraph 2?A.Most of them have anxiety about their future. |
B.One in four found it difficult to trust their parents. |
C.One third felt the need to ask for help with their problems. |
D.A quarter of them regularly felt it necessary to hide negative feelings. |
A.Place children’s needs first. | B.Recognize their own struggles. |
C.Show understanding to children. | D.Study the reasons for children’s problems. |
A.We are supposed to cut down our living expenses. |
B.Mental health has been attached much attention to. |
C.Almost every adult has experienced financial difficulties. |
D.There is a link between high living costs and mental health. |
A.To introduce a mental health charity. |
B.To discuss the causes of negative feelings. |
C.To encourage studies on children’s mental health. |
D.To present research findings of mental health issues. |
7 . Often when we have an uncomfortable feeling,such as sadness,fear or shame,our first reaction is to reject that feeling. We may tell ourselves that it is a bad feeling we don’t want to have.
Certainly no one wants to feel emotional pain all the time,but when we reject our emotions,we may actually make things worse. Often emotions arise as they give us useful information about the,world.
An alternative to pushing away our emotions is to accept them. Accepting means that we must practice allowing our emotions to be what they are without judging them.
Emotions help us decide what we should stay away from and what we should approach.
A.We have emotions for a reason. |
B.Actually,it is vital to handle our emotions. |
C.It isn’t easy to learn how to accept emotions. |
D.It also means accepting that emotions will change. |
E.Then we may do something to get rid of that feeling. |
F.Therefore,pushing away emotions isn’t the best idea. |
G.Without emotions,we would make terrible decisions all the time. |
8 . The Power of Insensitivity
Highly sensitive(敏感的)person, or HSP, is a term invented by psychologist Elaine Aron. HSPs can come with many challenges. They may find it hard to adapt to new surroundings, and easily become uncomfortable in response to certain feelings or others’ opinions.
The power of insensitivity can be explained as “slow power”. Usually, people connect “insensitivity” with something bad, but indeed, it stresses the ability to keep doing something difficult without complaining.
There are some ways to practice “insensitivity”: Don’t pay too much attention to the ups and downs of life at the moment.
Everyone can gain the ability to be insensitive.
A.Insensitivity plays a significant role. |
B.Rather, you should be looking forward. |
C.That’s where the need to be insensitive comes from. |
D.Once you slow down the pace, you will feel more comfortable. |
E.Those not easily affected are the people who care less about others. |
F.That is, calmly facing the downtime in life and moving towards one’s own direction. |
G.One reason why insensitivity allows people to better survive is the strong self-awareness. |
9 . Tips to fit gratitude in your life
Ready to begin? Here are some ways to become a more thankful person.
Every day, say aloud three good things that happened. This can be a fun activity to do around the dinner table together with the whole family, but it’s also extremely powerful to express gratitude aloud when you’re alone.
Keep a gratitude journal. Write down the small things from your day that mattered to you, like the few minutes of quiet time you had on your drive to work, or the fact that this afternoon’s rain storm didn’t flood your basement.
Thank yourself.
Enjoy the good moments. If you notice you’re feeling happy, stop what you’re doing and pay attention for a few minutes.
Check for silver linings. Even the most difficult life challenges come with some benefit- you just have to look to find them. Being sick draws the compassion of friends.
Look outward, not inward. Robert Emmons says people are more likely to feel grateful when they put their focus on others, rather than getting caught up in their own inner narratives about how things should have gone. Empathy (同理心) for others can arouse a sense of gratitude.
Change your perspective. If you struggle to come up with something to feel grateful for, put yourself in the shoes of someone experiencing misfortunes greater than your own. Recalling a colleague who is in poor health, e. g, will inspire gratitude for your own healthy body, which you may have taken for granted otherwise.
A.Making a mistake teaches you a lesson. |
B.Make it a habit to show empathy for others. |
C.And it is wise for people to have an outward focus. |
D.When you feel unwell, ask yourself: What makes you being so? |
E.Gratitude doesn’t always need to be focused on what other people have done for you! |
F.If you’re having a hard day, you can look back through these blessings in your life. |
G.Notice exactly how you feel, including the sensations in your body and your thoughts. |
1. 表示理解;
2. 提出建议;
3. 邀请他到你家做客。
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