“I’m sorry, but visiting hours are over,” the nurse said apologetically. “You can come back in the morning.”
My husband Eric had just got out of the operating room and was still struggling with being sick from the anesthesia (麻醉). I really wanted to stay with him until he was more comfortable, but I knew that the hospital’s visiting policies must be followed.
“I’ll take care of him before you get back, I promise.” The nurse handed me a piece of paper. “That’s my cell number. You can call or text me anytime tonight if you’re worried or just want an update.”
I thanked her and then turned to Eric. “Can I do anything for you before I leave?” He shook his head slightly without opening his eyes, and I could tell he was uncomfortable. “I can’t believe I have to leave while you’re like this,” I said, tears filling my eyes. “I’m so sorry.”
He patted my hand and signaled to me to leave. “I’ll be right here in the morning.” I said and headed to my car, still fighting tears. In my head, I knew that Eric wasn’t in danger, and he would be physically okay when I returned in the morning, but it still broke my heart that I couldn’t be with him when he needed me.
The hospital was a few hours from our house, so I was spending the night in a hotel. When I got to my room, I texted Eric’s nurse. She texted back, saying he was still sick to his stomach.
I sighed, feeling the worry rush in. What if getting sick caused his stitches (缝线) to break open? How much of the pain medicine was still in his system? What if he was in pain from his incision (切口)?
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I turned on the TV to shift my focus, but it didn’t work.
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Around midnight, I heard my phone receive a message.
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2 . We all know that staying healthy is important. So here is another health tip: Empathy, which refers to the ability to share another person’s feelings and emotions as if they were your own. How can this be? Isn’t empathy about focusing on the other person?
Empathy helps you survive
Empathy can save your life, which certainly is good for your health!
Empathy connects you to others
Stress may be brought on by many different things. Over periods of time, this state of pressure becomes unhealthy. When you fully engage in empathy, you draw on skills for emotion regulation (调节). In doing so, you are also controlling emotions that can be stressful.
Empathy guides your moral code of conduct
Perhaps larger than almost everything is how you treat others and expect to be treated.
A.Empathy can lower your stress |
B.How does practicing empathy benefit you |
C.Empathy encourages you to show your emotions |
D.How can empathy help you behave well in a connected world |
E.The ability to read others helps you make decisions in your favor |
F.Empathy connects you to other people in deep and meaningful ways |
G.Empathy helps you identify what you consider to be acceptable behavior |
3 . We have all heard that if you talk to yourself, you’re crazy,
My first exposure to positive self-talk was reading The Little Engine That Could. Do you remember that book from your childhood? While trying to make it up a big hill, the little engine keeps saying to himself, “I think I can, I think I can.” And of course, he makes it.
Positive self-talk is one of the most valuable tools you can use to keep yourself physically and mentally balanced. Many Olympic and professional athletes use it every time they practice or compete.
Positive self-talk can also help you calm down from anxiety and feel less sad. There was a period of time when I felt upset. Every morning, I woke up and said to myself, “Hi, Barton. You’re going to have a good day today.”
A.In fact, that’s not always the case. |
B.Much to my surprise, I was just fine |
C.It’s a valuable lesson for us to learn and remember. |
D.Instead, there are several different types of self-talk. |
E.You know, I was programming my brain to feel good. |
F.When it comes to positive self-talk, the simpler, the better. |
G.That was an opportunity for me to try something challenging. |
4 . A hero isn’t just a superman that flies around saving people. A hero can be a volunteer worker, a teacher, or even a
My dad has always been caring and loving. When I was young, he was the one that stayed at home with me, taking
My dad isn’t a great person who changes the world, but he has
A.sports | B.club | C.rescue | D.family |
A.wrong | B.usual | C.strange | D.serious |
A.turn to | B.aim at | C.seek for | D.look into |
A.colleagues | B.heroes | C.competitors | D.parents |
A.So | B.Instead | C.Yet | D.Besides |
A.occasionally | B.definitely | C.gradually | D.suddenly |
A.possession | B.control | C.advantage | D.care |
A.assignments | B.interactions | C.experiences | D.inventions |
A.faster | B.better | C.stricter | D.happier |
A.changes | B.raises | C.treats | D.praises |
A.teacher | B.performer | C.listener | D.employer |
A.ready | B.hesitant | C.sorry | D.regretful |
A.adaptability | B.personality | C.innovation | D.appearance |
A.replaced | B.ruined | C.shaped | D.closed |
A.example | B.traveler | C.funder | D.servant |
As the weekend comes to an end, many of us are missing out on Sunday Funday and anxious about the upcoming week. Experts have nicknamed this worry the “Sunday scaries”.
Here’s how you can ease your end-of-weekend anxiety.
When structuring your Sunday, try not to arrange too many errands and chores. If you’re feeling more stress, it’s important to make space for some activities to relax yourself. And there’s no right way to do so — maybe a midafternoon shower or bath, maybe an engaging movie or show.
Anxiety is a normal human experience, and one of the main ways to manage it is to identify your personal triggers.
Getting rid of the Sunday scaries isn’t just about minimizing the gloom of the week ahead, either. Having something to look forward to gives you something pleasing to think about, rather than only focusing on the anxiety you feel.
Make Sunday nights about doing something for yourself to reduce your anxiety about Monday. Plan some favorite foods to enjoy or go all in for some self-care.
A.It’s a form of shifting your thoughts. |
B.This is an opportunity to give yourself a refreshing time. |
C.Try to figure out what’s really causing you to fear the week. |
D.It doesn’t mean you have to shift your thoughts to something fun. |
E.But even though the Sunday scaries are common, they are manageable. |
F.It can be whatever feels like a helpful distraction to relieve from the stress. |
G.Instead of sitting on the sofa and watching the clock, do something that you enjoy. |
6 . What do a picturesque sunrise, a nice cup of coffee, and holiday celebrations have in common?
Expressing your feelings connects you with others. When it comes to relationships with your family and significant others, knowing how to express your feelings is the key to creating intimacy (亲密关系).
Sharing your feelings boosts health. According to The New York Times, holding everything inside and not expressing your emotions can be harmful.
Speaking about your emotions enables you to get help. When you put what’s in your mind into words, you are making that experience or emotion real, instead of ignoring it. That’s a way of recognizing yourself. Moreover, talking about your feelings allows your loved ones to help you. They are naturally concerned about your well-being.
All in all, accept your feelings, even negative ones and learn to manage them. Practice sharing your feelings on a regular basis, and you will benefit a lot.
A.Opening up keeps emotional intensity down. |
B.Sharing your emotions improves brain function. |
C.Telling others about the depths of your feelings can be scary. |
D.If so, you’d better avoid judging yourself and other people. |
E.These are all wonderful experiences that you can share with loved ones. |
F.By letting them know what you’re experiencing, you can get their support. |
G.That may cause increased stress levels and risk of developing related diseases. |
7 . I love persimmons(柿子). A few years ago, preparing to travel from San Francisco to Boston, I
A lady
Sometime during the flight, the lady caught up with me in the aisle(过道) to
Only then did the influence of this tiny act dawn on me. To this day I am
A.picked | B.exchanged | C.packed | D.demanded |
A.ate | B.donated | C.washed | D.observed |
A.bus | B.train | C.ship | D.plane |
A.approached | B.left | C.missed | D.discovered |
A.disappointed | B.nervous | C.excited | D.energetic |
A.give | B.compare | C.throw | D.deliver |
A.showed | B.purchased | C.offered | D.sold |
A.hated | B.chose | C.removed | D.refused |
A.searched for | B.returned to | C.checked up | D.complained about |
A.comfortable | B.happy | C.anxious | D.worried |
A.support | B.thank | C.praise | D.reward |
A.imagined | B.responded | C.agreed | D.shared |
A.taking | B.helping | C.reconnecting | D.mixing |
A.moved | B.surprised | C.shocked | D.attracted |
A.regret | B.freedom | C.joy | D.kindness |
8 . Life is full of surprises. You never know what’s going to happen from one day to the next.
One way to fight against these negative feelings is through optimism,
When something bad happens, optimists are less likely than pessimists to blame themselves or others for what happened. They don’t consider these negative emotions. They are able to see things from a positive perspective, even when something doesn’t go as planned.
So it’s important to face bad things bravely and keep a positive mind. Of course, it’s important to remember that optimism can’t put a stop to all bad things.
A.It can be exciting. |
B.It can be a positive attitude to difficulty. |
C.Too much optimism can also be harmful. |
D.Optimism is a positive attitude toward the future in general. |
E.This kind of thinking can help lower stress and improve mental health. |
F.When you are optimistic, you’re also more likely to control the situation. |
G.No matter how positive you are, there’ll be times when bad things happen. |
When I drove my sister Connie from Michigan to Arizona to start her junior year of college, I didn’t realize it’d be the last time that I’d see her alive. Four months later, when she was traveling back to the Midwest for winter break with four of her college friends, the driver of her car fell asleep. The car went off the road and rolled over several times. My sister, unfortunately, was thrown out from the car and died within minutes.
As a nineteen-year-old away at college myself, I was already dealing with my own confusion and uncertainty about where my life was headed. I’d thought I wanted to become an engineer, but the related courses I’d taken left me wholly uninspired. Now, with the struggle from my sister’s sudden death, I knew leaving my family to return to school hours from home would only heighten my confusion. Yet, when my parents expressed their belief that Connie would’ve wanted me to return to college, I knew they were right.
During the first term following her death, I felt like I was sailing through a personal fog in a rudderless(无舵的) boat. I was aimlessly drifting, fearful of what lay beyond the horizon. My grief(悲伤) consumed me as I continually questioned how the college courses I was taking would affect my life. And, more importantly, I missed my sister. Born just ten months apart, she’d always been there for me.
When I began my junior year, I still hadn’t declared my major, but I signed up for one particular class for personal reasons: Death Education and Suicide Prevention. One day, the professor had a guest speaker come to our class. At some point during the presentation, the speaker said, “Joy shared is joy increased. Grief shared is grief decreased.” The speaker explained the saying by breaking it into parts, saying, “Joy shared is joy increased. If you don’t believe it, go into a closet and tell yourself a joke. It isn’t funny unless you share it with others. Or you can try to share your sadness with your beloved one, even in the journals.” I was locked in “Joy shared is joy increased. Grief shared is grief decreased.”
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I silently repeated this message to myself over and over again, trying to absorb these words into my being.
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After that day in class, I began keeping journals about my sister.
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10 . My daughter has a new app on her phone that can clear up and improve old photos. She used it to make copies of pictures from my old photo albums, brighten them up, and email them back to me. There were pictures of Mom, Dad, Grandma, my brothers, me and my first dog Duke. Looking at them brought back so many loving, happy memories. I even put one on my laptop computer as my new screensaver.
It is a picture of me sitting in my favorite chair, across from the woodstove, next to a bookcase full of old books. I am wearing my special Snoopy sweatshirt. There is a big smile on my face and a joyful shine in my eyes. It was how I spent a lot of my winter afternoons as a boy, reading an old book.
It is strange too that 50 years later that boy still lives inside of me. I still love comfortable chairs, warm stoves, old books, Snoopy, hugging dogs, and reading books on cold winter days. Yet, when I look in the mirror now all I see is thinning, graying hair, age spots, and lots of wrinkles.
Once in a while I look into my eyes in the mirror. They are hiding behind glasses now. They are set a little deeper in my eyes. The innocence (天真) in them has been replaced with wisdom. But they still have that same joyful shine.
Looking at the little boy smiling at me from the computer screen and that 56-year-old man looking back at me in the mirror can be a bit confusing at times. They seem so different. Still, they are both me.
1. What did the author’s daughter do for him?A.She updated his computer. | B.She improved his old photos. |
C.She downloaded a new app for him. | D.She helped him forget bad memories. |
A.A sunny boy. | B.A lovely dog. |
C.His reading room. | D.His family members. |
A.The author’s competitive spirit. | B.The author’s innocent eyes. |
C.The author’s old bookcase. | D.The author’s living habits. |
A.Doubtful. | B.Unclear. | C.Appreciative. | D.Uncaring. |