1 . Shyness can have a huge effect on your life.
Make eye contact with everyone you talk to. It is so easy to look at the floor, the ceiling, anywhere but into the other person’s eyes. Looking directly at someone makes them see you in a different light. If they think you are confident, you will become more confident! If you find it really hard, look just above the eyes, and they will never know.
Start a conversation with a new person every day. Think of four or five things you could start a conversation with and then find at least one opportunity each day to talk to a new person.
In a word, never give up, keep practising and soon you will be a different person.
A.Just reading tips will not help. |
B.It will make you feel less nervous. |
C.Pay attention to your body language. |
D.It can stop you from making any progress. |
E.Many young people are actually shy in public. |
F.You don’t need to have a deep conversation. |
G.You can have a talk with your parents if necessary. |
2 . As most of us know, talking to and listening to parents don’t always go smoothly. Emotions and past experiences can get in the way. Since communication is a two-way street, some depends on your parents and some of what happens depends on you. The way you talk can influence how well a parent listens to and understands you.
•Be clear and direct.
Be as clear as you can about what you think, feel, and want.
•Be honest.
If you’re always honest, a parent will be likely to believe what you say.
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Using a friendly and respectful tone makes it more likely that parents will listen and take what you say seriously. Of course, this is hard for any of us when we’re feeling heated about something.If you think your emotions might get the better of you, do something to let off steam and calm down before talking.
•Try to understand their point of view.
If you have a disagreement, can you see your parents’ side? If you can, say so.
A.Try not to argue. |
B.Communicate as often as possible. |
C.If you lie, they’ll find it hard to trust you. |
D.Make careful preparations before talking to your parents. |
E.Here are some guidelines to consider how to talk to parents. |
F.Give details that can help parents understand your situation. |
G.Telling your parents that you understand their views and feelings helps them be willing to see yours, too. |
3 . There are all kinds of enemies, and one of the arts of living is to learn to tell them apart. There is a kind of enemy who
Let me tell you about one of them. Years ago, I
Pat and Peggy came home
The party was a(n)
A.only | B.ever | C.still | D.never |
A.jumping at | B.getting into | C.comparing with | D.running after |
A.adopted | B.examined | C.adored | D.prevented |
A.formal | B.beautiful | C.strange | D.modern |
A.classmates | B.tutors | C.doctors | D.neighbors |
A.sleeping | B.crying | C.quarreling | D.playing |
A.attending | B.requiring | C.throwing | D.supporting |
A.magically | B.hardly | C.frequently | D.casually |
A.pretty | B.grateful | C.cautious | D.creative |
A.recalled | B.mentioned | C.recommended | D.controlled |
A.guests | B.thoughts | C.enemies | D.thanks |
A.illnesses | B.inspirations | C.excuses | D.opportunities |
A.exchanged | B.combined | C.discovered | D.improved |
A.explanation | B.business | C.attempt | D.success |
A.furthest | B.slowest | C.biggest | D.newest |
4 . How to refuse an invitation politely
Everyone has got an invitation to a party.
Be honesty but also kind. If you don’t want to go, be honest and tell the host you aren’t interested in this party.
Call after the party to ask how it goes. If you are invited to a party by a close friend, but you can’t go there, what can you do?
A.But remember to be kind |
B.Make a call ahead to explain. |
C.Offer another time to get together. |
D.Call him when the party is over to see how it goes. |
E.However, sometimes you couldn’t or didn’t want to attend it. |
F.Don’t embarrass your host by telling others about the invitation. |
G.Set up an appropriate time to give the host an explanation. |
5 . Sixteen years ago, a boy gave me an important gift. It was a smile.
It was the early autumn of my first year at a middle school, and my old school was far away. As a result, no one knew who I was. I was very lonely and afraid to speak to anyone. Every time I heard the other students talking and laughing, I felt my heart broken. I couldn’t talk with anyone about my problems.
Then one day, when my classmates were talking happily with their friends, I was sitting at my desk unhappily. At that moment a boy came into the classroom. I didn’t know who he was. He passed by me and then turned back. He looked at me with a smile. Suddenly, I felt something bright and friendly. It made me feel happy and warm. That smile changed my life. I started to talk with other students and make friends. Day by day, I became closer to everyone in my class. The boy with the lucky smile has become my best friend now.
One day I asked him why he smiled, but he couldn’t remember doing so! It doesn’t matter because all the dark days have gone. I believe that the world is what you think it is. If you think it is cloudy, you might always be alone. So smile at the world and it will smile back.
1. When did the writer get the gift?A.At the age of 16. |
B.After making friends with the boy. |
C.In the first year at a middle school. |
D.After becoming closer to everyone in the class. |
A.Excited. | B.Lonely. | C.Happy. | D.Worried. |
A.A book. | B.A smile. | C.A letter. | D.A card. |
A.He started to make friends. |
B.He became the best student in class. |
C.He started to fight with his classmates. |
D.He was more interested in his lessons. |
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Five ways to make a great first impression (印象)! Researchers have discovered that, in general, it only takes seven seconds for a person to start making judgments about you when they first meet you. That’s why you should follow these useful tips on how to create a good first impression.
Before meeting someone, start thinking about the purpose of the meeting. Are you trying to impress them? For example, if you want to make new friends at a social event, you will want to appear friendly. And if you decide to run for class president at your school, you will need to appear confident.
Smiling is the most important thing you can do when meeting someone new. It shows that you’re friendly and makes people around you feel more comfortable. To have a winning smile, make sure your teeth are clean by brushing them every day.
Before you begin speaking, you will be judged on your body language. Therefore, it’s important to show trust in yourself by standing up tall and putting your shoulders back. Besides, if you uncross your arms, you will appear relaxed and friendly.
How you smell can influence people’s first impression of you. If you have a bad body smell, it will put people off. In short, aim to smell clean and avoid putting on a lot of scented products.
What you wear matters. While you should look clean and tidy, it’s also important to dress properly, whether you’re going to a birthday party or a sporting event. You should think about what your clothes say about you.
A.Smell good |
B.Dress to impress |
C.A smile goes a long way |
D.Decide what image (形象) you want to present |
E.Be careful about your body language |
8 . My mother passed away when I was two. Two years later, I got a stepmom, Tina. I
I was
Now, at age twenty-five, I’m writing this to show my love and
A.decided | B.failed | C.refused | D.wanted |
A.voice | B.friend | C.mom | D.word |
A.example | B.rest | C.place | D.advice |
A.If | B.When | C.Although | D.Since |
A.polite | B.nice | C.anxious | D.awful |
A.buys | B.cooks | C.makes | D.washes |
A.fun | B.little | C.new | D.crazy |
A.forgetting | B.treating | C.controlling | D.reminding |
A.hardly | B.nearly | C.easily | D.totally |
A.used to | B.filled with | C.freed from | D.confused about |
A.part | B.list | C.wave | D.set |
A.liked | B.stopped | C.kept | D.started |
A.changed | B.dropped | C.forgot | D.included |
A.support | B.worries | C.sorry | D.thanks |
A.possible | B.responsible | C.respectful | D.careful |
9 . Identical Twins Kathy and Sophie arrived at college last year and determined to strike out on independent paths, so they had requested rooms in different dorms. While Kathy got along with her roommate, Sophie was miserable. She and her roommate silently warred over matters ranging from when the lights should be turned off to how the furniture should be arranged. Finally, they divided the room in two and gave up on oral communication. During this time, Sophie kept seeking comfort from Kathy. Before long, the two wanted to live together again. Sophie’s roommate eventually agreed to move out.
Sophie’s ability to solve her dilemma by rooming with her identical twin is unusual, but the conflict she faced is not. Most roommate conflicts spring from such small, annoying differences rather than from grand disagreements over abstract principles. One person likes quiet, while the other person spends two hours a day practicing the trumpet. One eats only organically(有机地) produced vegetables and loves animals, while the other likes wearing fur and enjoys cutting up frogs in biology class.
When personalities don’t mix, the excitement of being away at college can quickly fade away. Moreover, roommates can affect each other’s psychological health. A recent study reports that depression in college roommates is often passed from one person to another.
Many schools have started conflict resolution programs to calm tensions that otherwise can build up like a volcano preparing to explode, finally resulting in physical violence. Some colleges have resorted to “roommate contracts” that all new students fill out and sign after attending a lecture on roommate relations. Students detail behavioral guidelines for their room, including acceptable hours for study and sleep, a policy for use of each other’s possessions. Some schools try to head off the feud before it begins by using computerized matching. Students are put together on the basis of their responses to housing form questions.
1. Why is the twins’ story mentioned?A.To describe college life. |
B.To reveal the relationship of the twins. |
C.To show the love between the sisters. |
D.To present the phenomenon of roommate conflicts. |
A.They have opposite mindsets. | B.They argue over serious matters. |
C.They differ greatly in life values. | D.They hold different preferences in some way. |
A.Difference. | B.Quarrel. | C.Competition. | D.Test. |
A.Identical Twins Living Together Again in Colleges |
B.Roommate Conflicts, Common and Unavoidable? |
C.Roommate Contracts, Useful in Solving Conflicts? |
D.Roommate Conflicts Affecting Students’ Psychology |
10 . We stopped to choose a cake for our daughter. We’d passed several other elderly customers but our daughter Norah seemed drawn to (被吸引) a man. Her face lit up like the sun and she waved excitedly saying, “Hi, old person! It’s my birthday today!” “Hello, little lady! And how old are you today?” He asked. They chatted for a few seconds.
We said goodbye and carried on shopping. A few minutes later, Norah asked me, “Can I take a picture with the old man for my birthday?” I thought the old man couldn’t have gone very far. So we quickly found him. “Excuse me, sir? She’d like to know if you’d take a photo with her for her birthday,” I asked. He looked surprised and then happy. “A photo? With me?” He asked. “Yes! For my birthday!” Norah cheered. And so they posed together and then they hugged each other like they were long lost friends.
We thanked Mr. Dan for sparing a few minutes of his day with us. He was moved to tears and said, “No, thank you. This is the best day I’ve had in a long time. You’ve made me feel so happy and valuable, Ms. Norah.”
Now, Norah and Mr. Dan often visit each other. While they don’t, Norah makes sure to call him at least once a week. Norah worried about Mr. Dan being alone and brought Mr. Dan a dog on his 82nd birthday. Mr. Dan said that his meeting with Norah helped to heal (治愈) his broken heart as he was having a difficult time before he met Norah that day. Sometimes talking to strangers turns into the most beautiful thing in the world.
1. How did Norah know Mr. Dan?A.By appointment. | B.By meeting in a store accidentally. |
C.By telephone. | D.By chatting online. |
A.Doubtful. | B.Frightened. | C.Surprised. | D.Happy. |
A.He found a hope to live on. | B.He found a true friend. |
C.He no longer felt lonely. | D.He felt he was valued. |
A.Everyone Wants to Make More Friends |
B.Congratulations on Your Birthday |
C.From Strangers to Friends |
D.More Than a Photo Was Taken in a Photo Shop |