A.To book a room. |
B.To make a complaint. |
C.To ask for help. |
2 . My daughter Eve used to love the Lightning McQueen character from the film ‘Cars’. As a little baby she began to stop and smile every time she saw the character. She was happy when a relative bought her some ‘Cars’ toys.
I knew her interest in ‘Cars’ had disappeared recently; she’s developed new interests since starting school. But when I found myself in a hurry to buy juice cartons(盒装果汁), and the choice was between ‘Disney Princess’ or ‘Cars’ cartons, I took the ‘Cars’ ones.
The next morning she saw a carton go into her lunch bag and took it out. She said it embarrassed her. She told me it was because ‘Cars’ is ‘boyish’. When I said to her that I thought she liked ‘Cars’, she said, very quietly, “I do, but I don’t want anyone to know“. Eve says children should be able to like whatever they want to, but the pressure to behave ‘like a girl’ has got to her.
Children do understand the gendered messages they receive. They understand the gender rule ‘This is for boys and that is for girls, ‘in the same way as other kinds of social rules. The period between birth and age 7 is called The Imprint Period, because this is when children learn about everything around them. They accept much of it as true. It’s one of the reasons gender-stereotyped(性别刻板印象的)toys can be so damaging.
From the moment they are born, children are expected to live up to expectations of what it means to be a boy or a girl. It’s easy to see that they are influenced by the way toys are marketed. Children accept what their world tells them, so it’s necessary to change the harmful stereotypes they are being sold.
1. Why did the author buy ‘Cars’ cartons?A.She chose them only out of habit. | B.She loved the characters in ‘Cars’. |
C.She had no choice but to take them. | D.She tried to stimulate Eve’s interest. |
A.She wanted it stored by her mother. | B.She disliked being the envy of others. |
C.She lost interest in the ‘Cars’ carton. | D.She didn’t want to be laughed at by others. |
A.They learn how to tell right from wrong. | B.They turn a blind eye to the surroundings. |
C.They can be easily affected by social rules. | D.They care too much about others’ thoughts. |
A.Let Toys Be Toys | B.Girls Will Be Girls |
C.Toys for Boys Only | D.Let Rules Be Rules |
3 . We are often reminded of Oscar Wilde’s saying that “sarcasm (讽刺) is the lowest form of wit” while forgetting the following “but the highest form of intelligence”. Parents or teachers of teenagers, in particular, may find it hard to believe that it is actually a sign of a flexible and inventive mind.
Yet that is exactly what psychologists and neuroscientists have been arguing. They have found that sarcasm requires the brain to jump through numerous hoops (圈) to arrive at a correct interpretation, requiring more brainpower than literal statements.
If you’re still not convinced that your teen’s love of sarcasm is a thing worth celebrating, consider a recent experiment from Li Huang, a psychologist at Insead’s business school in Fontainebleau, France.
In the experiment, participants were presented with a candle, a pack of matches and a box of tacks (图钉). Their task was to find a way to attach the candle to the wall so that it could burn without dripping wax on the floor. The correct answer is to empty the box of tacks, pin it to the wall, and then place the candle inside a solution that will only come to mind if you are prepared to think about the functions of each object.
Before working on the problem, some participants were asked to recall a sarcastic interaction, while others remembered a sincere or neutral exchange. Quite amazingly, the sarcastic memories more than doubled the participants’ success rate, from around 30% to more than 60%.
It may initially feel like a shock when parents notice their children using sarcasm——a sign, perhaps, of a more adult-like cynicism (愤世嫉俗) that conflicts with their impressions of their children’s youthful innocence. Parents may feel particularly helpless when dealing with a teenager who uses it in almost all interactions, as if they struggle. to express any sincere emotions.
But should we blame teens for applying this handy tool? Perhaps it’s better seen as the useful practice of a vital ability. Penny Pexman, a psycholinguist at the University of Calgary agrees and it is for this reason that she has produced Sydney Gets Sarcastic, a storybook that provides multiple examples of sarcasm and the reasons it was used. In a recent experiment on 5-to 6-year-olds, she showed that children who read and discussed the story found it easier to detect sarcastic statements in a following test.
1. Why does the author refer to Oscar Wilde’s words at the beginning of the text?A.To give a definition of sarcasm. |
B.To stress the significance of sarcasm. |
C.To express his concern about sarcasm. |
D.To show the misunderstanding of sarcasm. |
A.They tended to stay long with participants. |
B.They offered clues to the problem to be solved. |
C.They could force participants to face problems. |
D.They contributed greatly to participant’s success. |
A.It shows their innocence. |
B.It helps them express emotions. |
C.It is not appropriate for their age. |
D.It allows them to behave like adults. |
A.To urge parents to learn from their children’s sarcasm. |
B.To teach parents how to respond to their children’s sarcasm. |
C.To show parents the positive side of their children’s sarcasm. |
D.To remind parents to teach their children to use words properly. |
4 . Listening heals hurts and builds bridges. It gives us the ability to understand and view the world from our own point.
As it turns out, effective listening is actually a combination of two key communication skills: listening and confirming. As an effective listener, your goal is to hear and absorb what another has to say.
This is much easier said than done, so here are a few helpful tips:
•Give the speaker your full attention.
•Be patient.
Not everyone is a gifted speaker. Some people take longer to find the right word to make a point. Others are too worried to get their message across properly.
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If what someone is saying creates an emotional response in you, make an extra effort to listen carefully. When we' re angry, frightened or upset, we often miss key parts of what is being said.
·Hold your fire.
Don't jump to conclusions immediately.
A.Never hide your true emotion. |
B.Keep your emotions in check. |
C.Only then can you respond properly. |
D.Stop talking and remove all distractions. |
E.If necessary, ask the speaker to explain further. |
F.You can take a moment to stand in the other person's shoes. |
G.A good listener doesn't react until comprehension is complete. |
5 . Suppose you are out shopping and come across an acquaintance who starts telling you a story that seems to be dragging on and on. You want to seem interested, so you offer the occasional “Oh” or “I see”. To your surprise, though, this person angrily stops in their tracks and says, “Sorry if I’m boring you!”
Where did this come from? Clearly, your body language must have betrayed you. The idea that verbal (口头的) and nonverbal messages can conflict was the inspiration for a recently published study from Yale University’s Lueylle Armentano. As part of her study of communication in relationships, Armentano’s research also examined communication channels in people meeting for the first time.
To test the role of verbal-nonverbal mismatch on emotional communication, Armentano and her partner created experimental conditions to see what happens when someone asks for help from strangers. The research team created videotapes of a fellow Yale student expressing nervousness in his words, bodily gestures, or both. The bodily gestures included running his hands through his hair, grabbing his arm, and facially expressing uneasiness. The key question was whether the other participants, another 82 Yale students, would believe the student and provide the help he was requesting. They needed to give their responses.
Turning to the findings, those nonverbal cues (提示) of nervousness had a greater impact on helping behavior than the verbal cues. Surprisingly, helping behavior was the highest when verbal expressions of nervousness were low but nonverbal cues were high.
Recognizing that your body language can outweigh your words means that you need to be mindful of what your body is doing when you’re interacting with others. Generally, when someone is speaking to you, you want to look like you’re interested. Not only should you maintain eye contact, but you should keep your body still and face toward the other person. If you’re not trying to look interested, it may be more polite to say you have to be somewhere else.
1. What is paragraph 1 mainly about?A.The obvious advantages of body language. |
B.A situation where body language is a must. |
C.An example of verbal-nonverbal mismatch. |
D.The proper way to interact with old friends. |
A.Express nervousness in their words. | B.Identify the types of body language. |
C.Try to win the nervous student’s trust. | D.Respond to the nervous student’s request. |
A.His sincere verbal expressions. | B.His bodily gestures of nervousness. |
C.His positive attitude to nervousness. | D.His good manners in front of others. |
A.Make a prediction. | B.Offer suggestions. |
C.Present some facts. | D.Give some warnings. |
6 . Honesty is important. However, not everyone seems to think so. Lies and the hiding of truth are commonplace. But when examining the case for honesty, you realize it’s a better option. Here are the reasons why the value of honesty is beyond measure.
It is easier to understand.
You are more likely to get what you want. We often hide our true desires or preferences rather than speak out the truth. But when we are completely honest with ourselves and others, we encourage the right actions that lead to what we want.
It is better for your inner peace. Lying doesn’t come easy for most people. When you cheat others, it can feel like you are going against your values. Not only that, but as soon as you lie, you will live with the fear of that lie being discovered. That’s a mentally tiring thing.
A.Telling the truth is simple. |
B.It is the best way to prove your honesty. |
C.Instead, it is so hard that no one can do it. |
D.When we speak up, the other person is more likely to listen. |
E.Honesty, though not always easy, doesn’t carry such burdens. |
F.When you are clear in what you think, there’s no grey area for confusion. |
G.Actually, it can be hard when you tell others what they don’t want to hear. |
7 . Everybody wants to hang out with fun people. Nobody wants to be classified as “boring”. It’s just that some of us need a little help in this department. Being fun to hang out with fun people starts with developing healthy self-esteem (自尊) , an adventurous spirit, and a kind personality.
Be confident.
Show interest. Listen and show kindness to others during conversation. If people think they can talk to you about anything, they’ll invite you to hang out more often.
Smile. Looking the part of a fun person is half the battle, and it’s not even really much of a battle because once you get the hang of it, smiling just becomes a reflex, and an attractive one at that.
Learn how to “hang out”.
A.Be positive |
B.Hold the conversation |
C.Don’t control the conversation |
D.Have a healthy sense of self or good self-esteem |
E.Hanging out means the same thing to every person |
F.All of this will make you an ideal person to hang out with |
G.Hanging out can mean different things to different people |
8 . Handling difficult co-workers in an office environment is a headache. Avoiding them at work is sometimes not an option, so many people wonder how to deal with them, and perfect solutions can’t come too soon.
Go to H.R.
Whether you have a formal Human Resources department or just one person who supervises everyone, there should be someone who’s in charge of employee peace-keeping. You can talk to this person.
Address the offending party directly.
If your co-workers do something that you object to, speak up. Politely but firmly say that you don’t want to do their extra work, or tell them whatever else is on your mind.
Let it roll off your back.
If you’ve tried the tips above but they don’t work, you may consider changing jobs. It’s sad if things have to come to this, but you wouldn’t have to seek a job if you didn’t have a difficult co-worker prompting you to make a change. Maybe, there are potential positives in your new position. The trick is to find them.
A.Look for a new job |
B.Try to seek jobs in a creative way |
C.If your co-workers realize their problems |
D.You may not get a positive response at first |
E.If the co-workers don’t affect you too much |
F.If you do, be specific about what is upsetting you |
G.Fortunately, there are some basic ways that can work |
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