Friendship is important in our lives. Friends often affect our health and energy. More and more people are increasingly turning towards their friends for support. We may have a very unclear understanding of what makes a friend but we all want to have many good friends around us. There are certain steps that can win you friends or at least help you get close to those whom you want to make friends with.
The first step to make friends with someone is to make him like you. If they don’t like you in the first place, it is unlikely that they’ll be eager to become your friends. To let someone know that you are interested in him, simple gestures like a little smile and calling him by his name can help. To make the other person feel important, you need to be a good listener and encourage the other person to talk. Give your honest and real opinions but do not make fun of him or her.
The second step is to develop a full consideration between each other. You need to share his or her opinions. So, it is necessary for you to develop a habit of seeing things from the other person’s point of view. To become a best friend, you must show concern and consideration for your friend’s desires and opinions.
The third and final step is to show your support and encouragement towards your friend. Moreover, you also need to be very clear about your expectations from your friend. If what you expect from the person you want to make friends with matches with what that person can and want to do in friendship, the developing friendship between you and your friend is sure to be easy and successful.
1. What can we learn about friends and friendship?A.Friendship is less important in our life. |
B.Friends can provide us with support. |
C.Friends do harm to our health and energy. |
D.Relatives can not become friends. |
A.2 | B.3 | C.4 | D.5 |
① When you meet some questions, you ask him for help.
② When he is in trouble, you tell him your idea.
③ You smile to him to make him know that you like him.
A.②①③ | B.①②③ | C.③②① | D.③①② |
A.To tell us the importance of making friends. |
B.To tell about advantages and disadvantages of making friends. |
C.To tell us how to make friends step by step. |
D.To tell us that friends are hard to make. |
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【推荐1】Everybody likes to get a freebie(赠品). On my way to work today I was offered a bottle of new mineral water. Lucky me eh?
For businesses, giving out something for nothing is an important marketing technique. They want to see our reaction and hear our feedback(反馈) and finally make us buy more.
Living in a capital city certainly improves your chances of getting a freebie.
How businesses give away freebies is also of interest.
A.We might not give it much thought |
B.Well it’s a not necessarily down to luck |
C.Of course a freebie is not actually free |
D.But who they hear from is very important |
E.Maybe you have experienced one of these approaches |
F.According to economist Enrico Trevisan, they have three approaches |
G.Not only is the population larger but these places are considered the trendsetter |
【推荐2】Ways to Boost Your Energy
Are you sleepy as the afternoon wears on? When low energy drags you down, don’t look to a candy bar, a cup of coffee, or an energy drink for a lift. The sugar and caffeine might give you an immediate pick-me-up, but after that quick high wears off, you’ll crash and feel even more tired.
Let the sunshine in.
Research suggests that just a few minutes of walking outside on a warm, clear day may enhance mood, memory, and the ability to absorb new information. Going outside can even improve your self-esteem.
Chew a piece of sugar-free gum.
It’s not exactly clear why, but numerous studies have shown that chewing gum increases attentiveness. Even before science confirmed it, during World War I, American soldiers were issued gum to help them focus.
When you’re stressed, it’s natural to breathe shallowly, which can decrease the amount of oxygen that reaches cells. To counteract that, try breathing in through your nose for four seconds, holding your breath for four seconds, and then slowly breathing out for four seconds.
Have a drink of water.
Belt out your favorite tune.
Singing gives you a kind of emotional high while it reduces levels of stress in your body.
A.Have a bite. |
B.Take a few deep breaths. |
C.If you absolutely can’t get out, at least open the shades. |
D.So grab a hairbrush, put on your favorite song, and sing away. |
E.What you need is a lasting solution to helping you feel refreshed. |
F.You don’t necessarily have to follow the “eight glasses a day” rule. |
G.Expose yourself to natural sunlight, especially in the early morning. |
【推荐3】Junk food like potato chips, candy, cookies, and soda may make you feel momentarily happy, but they are not so good for your health.
Stay away from junk food.
Keep plenty of healthy snacks on hand. The more healthy food that is readily available for you to choose from, the easier it will be for you to keep yourself from eating it. Keeping vegetables, fresh fruits and low-fat yogurt in your refrigerator is one effective way to distract your attention from junk food
Eat plenty of healthy food early in the day. The more healthy food you eat early in the day, the less chance you will have to binge(大吃大喝)on junk food later on in the day when your willpower is lower.
It may not happen overnight, but you can learn how to stop eating junk food.
A.Make your eating settings changed |
B.Buy a cookbook with easy healthy recipes |
C.Like everything in life, it requires time and patience |
D.Kicking the junk food habit is easier said than done |
E.Water helps you to feel full and helps balance your blood sugar |
F.So it is a good idea to start your day with a big healthy breakfast |
G.Keeping junk food around when you are trying to avoid it is a recipe for failure |
【推荐1】Sometimes people can have fights, but friendship is a valuable gift.
Join an organization or a club. This is a great way to find other people who have common interests.
Volunteer. Volunteering is also a good way for people of all ages to meet others. By working together, you’ll build relationships with people.
Make yourself available. If you want to make friends, you first need to put yourself out there somehow to meet people.
A.Join a sports team. |
B.If you’re still in school, sit somewhere with other people. |
C.Do well in sport in order to make new friends. |
D.Sometimes, good friends are hard to find. |
E.You don’t need to have lots of common interests with people to make friends with them. |
F.It is not easy at all to get along with new friends when you study in a middle school. |
G.So you can devote your time to a local nursing home or a hospital. |
【推荐2】It seems that no one can live a happy life without friendship. While a great number of people expect others to be their friends, they don't give friendship back. That is why some friendships don't last long. To have a friend, you must learn to be one. You must learn to treat your friend the way you want your friend to treat you. Learning to be a good friend means learning three rules: be honest; be generous; be understanding.
Honesty is where a good friendship starts. Friends must be able to trust one another. If you do not tell the truth, people usually find out. If a friend finds out that you haven't been honest, you may lose your friend's trust. Good friends always depend on one another to speak and act honestly. Generosity means sharing and sharing makes a friendship grow. You do not have to give your lunch money or your clothes. Naturally you will want to share your ideas and feelings. These can be very valuable to a friend. They tell your friend what is important to you. By sharing them, you help your friend know better.
Sooner or later everyone needs understanding and help with each other. Something may go wrong at school. Talking about the problem can make it easier to solve. Turning to a friend can be a first step in solving the problem. So to be a friend you must listen and understand. You must try to put yourself in your friend's place so that you can understand the problem better.
No two friendships are exactly alike. But all true friendships have three things in common. If you plan to keep your friends, you must practice honesty, generosity and understanding.
1. Some friendships don't last long because ________.A.there are too many people who want to make friends |
B.those who give others friendship receive friendship from others |
C.some people receive friendship but don't give friendship back |
D.they don't know friendship is something important |
A.something impossible | B.more important than anything else |
C.as important as money | D.the base of friendship |
A.Honesty Is the Best Policy | B.A Friend in Need Is a Friend Indeed |
C.Three Important Points in Life | D.How to Be Friends |
【推荐3】One evening at a busy Broadway crossroad, I noticed a sister struggling to keep her little kid under control while she talked on the pay phone. She wanted him to stay still next to her, but he wanted to run and play at the curb(路边), close to rushing buses and taxis. One could sense the woman’s frustration(挫败), that she was pulled in too many directions: She was angry at the person on the telephone and shouting at the younger that she would “snap(打断) his leg” if he moved again. As I waited for the traffic light to change, the child began to complain and struggle to free himself from the woman’s grip. She dropped the phone, seized the neck of his tiny T-shirt and gave him a back-hand blow across the face that I know made his little head spin.
The light changed, and passersby continued on their way. But I stood there, fixed to the pavement. I knew this extremely upset woman would follow through on her threat of violence to the child. Before, I had wanted to approach her and offer to watch the youngster while she dealt with the distressing situation on the phone. Now I wanted to comfort the little boy. I also wanted to speak to the sister to calm her and to caution her, as I wish someone had cautioned me when I was passing my pain on to my daughter and causing her emotional suffering. But I was chicken(胆小鬼). I thought, she may think I’m out of line, or I may be her next target.
Often I’ve thought about that child and the many others abused(虐待,辱骂) by adults. I wonder how they will internalize (使……藏在心底) their pain, if it will crush their spirits. Will this little boy grow up to be an abusive man? Will he be gloomy and withdrawn? Will he find it hard to communicate with women, with other men? Or will he survive and be sensitive, caring and determined not to continue the cycle?
There is too much cruelty in the world, too much cruelty between people. I tremble at the increasing verbal bitterness and violence among Black girls, and among young mothers trying to discipline their children. This behavior isn’t class- or age- related: I hear sharp words from Black women from all walks of life who are overworked and stressed out and have grown impatient. At times I, too, become short with others, or, like the sister on the phone, strike out at(抨击) those closest to me.
Often we’re tired because we’ve made the wrong choices. Young girls who still need mothering are loaded with children. We, sisters easily get hurt and annoyed when we don’t compromise(妥协)with our own sense of self. Our personal fulfillment requires knowing what is best for us, setting oar boundaries and keeping them undamaged. We will always be asked to do more than we are comfortable doing. When we know our boundaries, we can decline comfortably. People — and we ourselves — will act in ways we don’t like. But they, like us,are still worthy of love.
Whatever irritates (激怒) us about a person should be examined. Is the person reflecting behavior in us that needs to be changed? Often, when I find people irritating, I find they mirror something about me that I need to correct.
What we people of African root must do to thrive begins with love, sensitivity and our ability to work together. We Black women have these spiritual resources in abundance(充裕). Now we must draw on them to create a peaceful place — for ourselves, our children, our men.
1. The scene the author described in the passage probably happened .A.in a phone booth | B.on the street | C.near a taxi stand | D.at a bus stop |
A.confused and quick-minded | B.cruel and talkative |
C.disappointed and hot-tempered | D.considerate and sensitive |
A.“Walk away. It’s none of your business.” | B.“You can watch and comfort my kid.” |
C.“You’re not standing in the queue.” | D.“You are walking in the wrong direction.” |
a. We sisters refuse to marry young. b. We aren’t satisfied with ourselves.
c. We have our boundaries damaged. d. We decline others’ requests for help.
A.a, b | B.c, d | C.a, d | D.b, c |
A.return to tenderness and tolerance | B.avoid the hard words and sharp tones |
C.reflect on our behavior that needs correcting | D.examine if anything is wrong with him |
A.critical | B.optimistic | C.pessimistic | D.objective |
【推荐1】China has a unique advantage that is recognized by the world: its huge market. China has a population of more than 1.4 billion, larger than the combined population of all developed countries today. It is predicted that in the next 15 years or so, China’s middle-income group will grow from 400 million to 800 million.
McKinsey Global Institute estimates that in 2020, 55 Chinese cities could be classified as high-income cities, covering 27 percent of China’s population. By 2030, the number of high-income cities in China will increase to 93, which will be home to 44 percent of the population.
China is the biggest engine of global growth and is expected to contribute to one-third of global growth this year.
China has recently announced a series of new measures to promote opening-up, including improving the protection mechanism (机制) for foreign investment rights and interests, further reducing the negative list for foreign investment access, and guaranteeing the national treatment of foreign-invested ventures. This once again shows China’s determination to build a market-oriented (以市场为导向的), law-based and international business environment.
China’s advantages are reflected in its comprehensive cost performance, including world-class infrastructure, complete industrial structure, long industry chains and the responsiveness of the government system, as well as its large number of entrepreneurs (企业家) and high-quality workers. These are competitive advantages that no other country has all of.
Statistics show that in the first 10 months of this year, 41,947 new foreign-invested enterprises were established in China, an increase of 32.1 percent year-on-year. It is fair to say that whoever gives up on the Chinese market is separating themselves from opportunities and the future. China brings energy, certainty and growth to a world that is in short supply of them as it enters a period of change. That explains China's continued appeal to the foreign business community.
1. According to Paragraphs 1&2, which of the following might the author agree with?A.China’s high-income cities will house 44 percent of the population in 2030. |
B.China’s population is larger than the population of all developing countries. |
C.China’s middle-income group will increase by 800 million in the next 15 years. |
D.China’s 27 percent population could be classified as low-income group in 2020. |
A.Protecting foreign investment rights and interests better. |
B.Reducing the negative list for foreign investment access. |
C.Announcing a series of new measures to promote opening-up. |
D.Ensuring the national treatment of foreign-invested ventures. |
A.The numerous entrepreneurs. | B.The world’s first-class facilities. |
C.The overall industrial structure. | D.The insufficient industry chains |
A.To persuade us to become entrepreneurs. |
B.To share information about Chinese market. |
C.To tell us how to improve China’s economy. |
D.To appeal to the foreign business community. |
【推荐2】The Beijing Expo Park, where the International Horticultural Exhibition (国际园艺展) took place in 2019, has become a camping resort this summer. Twelve camping areas each named after the constellations (星座) have recently opened to the public at the park.
“When I see parents and children put down their mobile phones and enjoy their family time, I feel happy. At this moment, all our efforts in organizing this camping festival have paid off, ”said Xue He, a camping operator at the park.
“Located in the Yanqing district of Beijing, the camping area covers about 280, 000 square meters. It provides more than 1, 000 camping spots where tourists can spend their leisure time on picnics, fishing, horse riding, boating, and many other activities, ” said Han Weiwei, a manager of the Beijing Expo Park Investment and Development.
At the camping area named after Sagittarius, tents are spread throughout the woods, while a wooden trestle (支架) connects the campsites. “We pursue harmony between humans and nature, so the original plants were preserved as much as possible, ” said Liu Xiao’ou, an operator in the area.
“Horse riding is one of the most popular activities here, ”Liu said, adding that campers can ride horses in the Sagittarius area under the guidance of coaches. Children can also interact with some little cute horses which are less than one meter in height.
As the altitude in Yanqing is higher than that in downtown Beijing, the expo park is much cooler in summer. “This is favorable for camping. These abundant activities have given is so much fun, ” said a resident surnamed Yin from downtown Beijing.
In the coming three months, the Beijing Expo Park is going to host more than 30 activities during the camping festival, including bicycle races, fishing contests and night runs, according to the organizers.
1. What has happened in the Beijing Expo Park?A.Horse riding performance has been offered. |
B.Twelve camping areas have opened. |
C.Art exhibitions have taken place. |
D.A traditional festival has been celebrated. |
A.Successful. | B.Unwelcome. | C.Boring. | D.Important. |
A.The camping area is only for children. |
B.Campers have little fun at the Sagittarius area. |
C.Horse riding becomes popular only among children. |
D.Campers are offered a natural environment. |
A.The Beijing Expo Park will be open to the public. |
B.The Beijing Expo Park has changed its course for the future. |
C.The Beijing Expo Park becomes popular for its abundant exhibitions. |
D.The Beijing Expo park offers memorable camping experiences to the public. |
【推荐3】A donation letter is what you write to a person you expect, who will give away some of his money to support your good cause. Good as the cause may be, it is hard to make a person part with his hard-earned money. It takes some really great writing skills to write such a letter.
The donation letter for charity isn’t exactly a formal letter for business communication. You need to take a casual tone. Make sure that you know the name of the recipient (收信人) to sound more like a friendly gesture. The language too should not be extremely serious and should be slightly informal, which can make your recipient willing to believe you.
Make sure that you include all the details regarding your program, your funds required, and your plan in the letter. The most important thing is to mention how someone stands to benefit because of the recipient’s contribution. Talk about how many lives your charity fund has been able to change and how many more you wish to change further. This may touch the reader and talk him into making a donation towards your cause. Include the amount which you expect the recipient to donate, within your letter.
A typical donation letter is often divided into four paragraphs. The first paragraph will be an introduction to your organization, like what you do, how long you have been running, and your achievements. The second paragraph will give more details regarding your current goals that you’re trying to reach. In the third paragraph you use a more direct method here, asking politely for any help. Keep it short and clear. The final paragraph is your conclusion, where you tell exactly how the help received would be put into good use. Add a “thank you” for any and all help received.
1. How should the language used in a donation letter be?A.Relaxing and persuasive. |
B.Happy and friendly. |
C.Official and honest. |
D.Short and clear. |
A.Asking about the recipient’s plan. |
B.Including all the details of people in need. |
C.Telling directly the amount of money you expect. |
D.Showing the value and importance of one’s donation. |
A.The skills used for writing business letters. |
B.The general content of a donation letter. |
C.The common problems in a donation. |
D.The tips on making a donation. |