1 . Anger is the most destructive emotion, which will dominate your thoughts and actions.
Change your attitude.
Realizing that no-one is perfect and accepting that not everyone has the same standards as you is a good start to avoiding getting angry.
Stop trying to manage your anger.
Anger management used to be promoted as a way of dealing with anger, but a much better way of facing up to anger is to identify the root cause. When trying to do it be prepared to be honest with yourself. Is it worry or stress making you angry? Are you fearful of failure?
Don’t dismiss anger as a bad emotion.
We all get tempted to throw something or even hit someone when getting angry. A reaction like that is called the easy way, which might make you feel better after an angry outburst. However, staying calm or walking away from conflict are harder but much better choices .By learning control, you can become a much calmer, less volatile person.
A.This applies to work, day-to-day life, and relationships. |
B.Once you know why you get mad, then it is possible to deal with the cause. |
C.When you are in a temper, you may make ill-considered decisions that you will probably regret. |
D.Many people try to live by high standards, and as a result, are often disappointed and get angry. |
E.Don’t take the easy way when you get angry. |
F.Stop anger from being your master. |
G.There are occasions when anger can be directed in such a way as to achieve great things. |
I was a broke university student. I should have been going to university on a scholarship because I came from a low-income family, but a last-minute £100-a-year pay rise for my mum pushed my family over the threshold (门槛) for what defined “low-income” and I was suddenly no longer qualified for £15,000 a year in scholarship money. This news came after I’d been accepted by the university and signed the lease (租约) for my accommodation.
Despite my family not being labelled low-income anymore, I still wouldn’t receive any financial support from my family as all the income went toward taking care of my disabled brother and paying their own bills. It would be tight, but because I had savings from my part-time job, I decided to go to university anyway. After paying my rent, I had £10.20 a week for everything else including food, toiletries, and school supplies.
As I was in a new city, I really wanted to make friends, which was difficult when most of the social activities were expensive. Therefore, I jumped at the chance to do a relatively cheap coffee shop trip with my roommates who were pleasant to me.
I had £20 with me to get a cheap cup of coffee and my food shopping for a few weeks. So I headed for the coffee shop. While paying, I pulled out the note and a handful of change and realized I could pay without breaking the note, so I put it back in my pocket. It wasn’t until I arrived at the supermarket that I realized the note was gone. What should I do? I was desperate it was the equivalent (相等物) of two weeks of money. My roommates helped me look for the note. However, it was in vain. Finally, I went to school empty-handed.
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P1: As a final attempt, I messaged the coffee shop’s Facebook page asking if they’d seen it.
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4 . Do you find it difficult to feel content in your own company? Do you feel pressure to be constantly connected to others, resulting in overwhelming anxiety when you’re alone? If the answer is yes, then you’ll be pleased to learn that there are tips to help you enjoy solitude without feeling lonely.
Find companionship in your passion
Whether your passion is art, writing, or knitting, being alone is a great opportunity to get connected to it. Investing mindful, quality time into doing something you love is beneficial to your mental health.
Design a plan
You may find yourself just going through the motions in life. While structure is a good thing, it can also prevent us from moving forward. When you’re alone, sit down with a pen and paper and design a plan.
One of the biggest consequences of finding yourself alone is that you may automatically believe you’re bored.
Practice Meditation
Please understand that loneliness is a feeling, one you can take control of. If you’re a social person most of the time, when you’re alone your brain maybe guilty of convincing you there’s something wrong.
A.Challenge yourself |
B.Do your favorite sports |
C.This is far from the case |
D.It doesn’t need to be a life-changing plan |
E.Then you’re more likely to succeed in career |
F.Therefore, you become worried and desire to be around someone |
G.It keeps you focused, thus reducing anxiety and helping to keep you happy |
5 . Having an off day when you feel stressed or sad is totally normal.
Take a few minutes to breathe deeply. The simple action of taking full, deep breaths can help you start to feel better. Deep breathing increases oxygen supply throughout the body.
Start keeping diaries.
Rely on your support system. Studies have shown the benefits of having a close support system of family and friends to whom you can turn. Social support leads to a sense of belonging and security rather than loneliness while dealing with emotional pain.
A.Take a break to laugh. |
B.Go ahead and cry if you need to. |
C.Take some time for yourself and treat yourself. |
D.It’s also been linked to an increased sense of self-worth. |
E.Writing down your feelings provides a great benefit. |
F.This can help to relax muscles and reduce your blood pressure. |
G.The good news is that there are things you can do for yourself to start feeling better. |
6 . Anger has a bad reputation.
But what if anger is a valuable-friend, not an adversary (对手) to be defeated?
Anger has one main purpose — to secure our safety and survival. We respond with anger when we are threatened or when our boundaries are violated (侵犯).
What we need is a willingness to experience anger without suppressing it or discharging it immediately. When we have the courage to remain present with our anger, we can look directly at it. We can investigate and come to understand it, and we can extract its wisdom.
Anger, like a fire, is a force. Left unchecked, it can be destructive.
A.Uncovering the wisdom of anger begins with feeling it fully. |
B.It gives us energy and power to overcome threatening situations. |
C.Yet when it is used wisely, it can be powerful beneficial instrument. |
D.When you come to see anger as a friend, you change your relationship with it. |
E.While anger sometimes involves aggressive tendencies, it also carries great wisdom. |
F.When we have the courage to remain present with our anger, we can look directly at it. |
G.When it bursts out, it can take control of our body, our thoughts, our senses, and our actions. |
7 . How to Feel at Peace
Is feeling truly peaceful a pipe dream? Nope! With a little work, you can feel calm, cool, and collected (just like you deserve to).
Release what you cannot control.
This is the most important part of feeling at peace and the first place you should always start. 90% of the time, when we’re worried about something or stressed out, the source of our anxiety is really something that we have no control over.
Get an inspiration from nature.
Go sit out in an area nearby. Listen to the trees. Watch the animals. Do they seem worried about what their brother did last Christmas? Do the trees seem to notice when it starts to rain?
Create goals.
Having a goal that you can work for can really help when you’re feeling lost and aimless in life.
When other people make us angry, it is usually because we cannot understand why they’re doing something that’s making us angry. Instead of blowing up at someone or stressing yourself out, try to see things from their side of the table. Think about why they did what they did... and remember that we’re all people with our own problems and our own dreams.
A.Forgive yourself. |
B.Find the humanity in all people. |
C.All you can do in life is to try your best and let fate take its course. |
D.Happiness is on the horizon, and we’re here to show you what to do. |
E.No. Nature adapts and embraces every twist and turn in life and you should too. |
F.Really, what’s the point in life if you don’t have something to work towards, right? |
G.A huge source of worry in our lives comes from when we beat ourselves up from inside. |
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9 . The journey towards self-improvement and personal success is often paved with challenges and obstacles.
Mindset rests on a fundamental principle: your inner beliefs and thoughts can form your reality.
Factors like talent and hard work are often highlighted in professional success.
To make full use of the potential of your mindset, it is crucial to confront and overcome limiting beliefs. You may never realize it.
A.This isn’t merely hopeful thinking. |
B.Effort and ability can equal a positive mindset. |
C.The growth mindset means continuous improvement. |
D.In fact, mindset emerges as an equally critical element. |
E.Such beliefs can act as invisible barriers to your success. |
F.Mindset plays an important role in building good relationship. |
G.However, a crucial element that influences this journey is the mindset. |
10 . Niels Eék, psychologist and co-founder of mental health and self-development platform Remente, gives advice on how to manage your mental health when returning to work.
The prospect of going back to work may cause some nervousness and anxiety, especially after spending so long with limited face-to-face contact. Upon returning to the office, you may want to keep track of how much time you are devoting to work when you return home in the evenings.
Remote working can blur the boundaries between your professional and personal life, so it’s important to re-establish this division, particularly if you have spent the last four months working from home. Reading and receiving emails and messages outside of working hours can make some people feel more anxious. To avoid this, you may want to set clear boundaries at home, where you do not address work emails during certain hours, to give yourself time to relax ready for the next day.
Of course, some tasks may be urgent, so ask your manager to phone you if something needs to be immediately addressed. That way, you don’t need to be constantly checking your device and can instead focus on your own mental and physical well-being. Go to bed at a time that allows you to rise well-rested, cook nutritious meals that you enjoy, or perhaps take an evening walk to relax. Returning to work is likely to be a shock after so long, so make sure to do what you need to do to feel relaxed each evening.
Talking to a friend or colleague can be extremely useful when addressing these anxieties. It is good to remember that these feelings are something that many people face, so being open about your emotions is nothing to feel uncomfortable about. “Remember that it is OK to tell your friends and co-workers that you need some time out” as you return to regular interactions with people after months of isolation. It may take some time to adapt to the change in circumstances, but this is totally normal.
1. What will happen to the people who return to office work?A.They will need more career development guidance. |
B.They will have to check their emails constantly. |
C.They will feel more relaxed than working at home. |
D.They may suffer from some mental problems. |
A.Mix up. | B.Focus on. | C.Break away. | D.Set up. |
A.Telling your manager you need rest. |
B.Checking your device repeatedly for messages. |
C.Confirming urgent and vital things to be addressed. |
D.Telling your colleagues to spare you some time. |
A.How to manage your physical health at work |
B.How to deal with anxiety as you return to work |
C.Advice on a better performance at office work |
D.Advice on striking a balance between work and life |