1 . Pursue Your Dreams Today, Not Tomorrow
Have you caught yourself daydreaming about your dreams? We often postpone our dreams, trapped in a cycle of delay. But why wait?
It doesn’t matter how old you are or how many people have warned you that you’re never going to succeed. Even the most successful people have had their hesitations about whether they had what it took to make it in their field.
At the end of the day, you need to carve out a path for yourself that will lead to the most satisfaction. If you allow your fear to get the best of you, you’re never going to forgive yourself.
Sometimes, following your passion means spending a lot of your time each day. It may require making slight adjustments to your schedule, but you don’t have to sacrifice everything to follow your hearts. Try to strike a balance between your current life and your dreams.
Pursue your dreams now, even though that means you might need to break out of your comfort zone, and even though it means entering the unknown.
A.Ask yourself what would be worse. |
B.Starting small is completely acceptable. |
C.You owe it to yourself to go after your dreams. |
D.New opportunities may lead to personal growth. |
E.If things go well, you can gradually make further shifts. |
F.You need to move past your insecurities and explore your full potential. |
G.Hard as it is, it’s crucial to wave off the doubts in the back of your mind. |
2 . When you hear that your friend has passed an exam that you failed earlier, how do you react? Do you share in her happiness? If you do, congratulations!
One method to evoke positive feelings for others is through asking questions. We don’t have to wait for someone else’s good news to practice Freudenfreude. By inviting others to share their victories and genuinely listening to their stories, we can cultivate joy.
Since emotions are contagious (有感染力的), expressing appreciation can also enhance Freudenfreude. We can think of Freudenfreude as something that can be shared when we are experiencing personal happiness.
A.To better understand Freudenfreude, it is important to realize that it is a win-win. |
B.According to social scientists, finding pleasure in another person’s success is what they call Freudenfreude. |
C.However, experiencing Freudenfreude is not always easy. |
D.Despite these challenges, generating Freudenfreude is valuable, and there are ways to cultivate this feeling. |
E.You might ask: “What’s the best thing that happened to you this week?” |
F.It is a term that describes the joy we feel when someone else succeeds. |
G.To do this, we can give credit to others for their support and acknowledge their contribution to our success. |
3 . A heart-to-heart talk refers to an honest conversation between two people. When sharing a heart-to-heart talk, people will generally share innermost (内心最深处的) thoughts and feelings. This talk usually takes place without other people being present.
Share personal stories.
Listen to understand. Being an active listener is important during a heartto-heart talk. When you actively listen to what another person is saying, he is more likely to open up.
A.Raise questions actively. |
B.Avoid close-ended questions. |
C.Many times, you may listen to prepare an answer. |
D.So it’s considered that the talk will be kept secret. |
E.You should share what you feel comfortable sharing. |
F.Self-disclosure opens the door to a deep conversation. |
G.People find comfort in expressing unhappiness with others. |
1. What did researchers study in two tests?
A.The way of seagulls’ stealing food. |
B.The effects of staring at seagulls. |
C.The different food thieves. |
A.They flew away immediately. |
B.They stood still and looked at the food. |
C.They made an attempt to steal food. |
A.They snatched food violently. |
B.They stole food secretly. |
C.They attacked people aggressively. |
A.By feeding them first. | B.By setting a big trap. | C.By staring at them. |
5 . Social media can connect you to friends and family, bring you the latest and most important news, and help you discover things you would never come across otherwise.
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The contacts on your social media can add up quickly over time as we constantly follow more people. Adding in other junk accounts can make things even worse. The next time you load up one of your social media apps, take some time to unfollow the accounts and people you’re no longer interested in.
•Turn off notices
Fewer notices can help you keep focused and create a healthy habit of checking social media only when you really have to. Notices aren’t too difficult to control these days.
•Set time limits
Setting time limits for social media apps on your devices isn’t a perfect approach, as you can easily turn them off if the attraction is too strong. Still, you might find these limitations are effective at reducing the amount of time you spend checking your social networks.
A.Update your accounts regularly |
B.Follow fewer people |
C.You can find Screen Time options in the iOS |
D.Take a look at the phone’s settings and you will see what you can change |
E.However, social media contact may cause you problems |
F.But these platforms can sometimes be troublemakers |
G.This will make a big difference to how often you check social media |
6 . If you want to be confident at interview and get the job, body language will be important.
Here are some useful tips for your body language during a job interview.
Make a great entrance. A job interview actually starts before you get to the interview room. You don't know who could be looking at you from a window or standing next to you in the elevator. Your body language should tell others that you're confident and calm.
Don’t go for direct eye contact.
Use hand gestures while you're speaking. If you’re not sure what to do with your hands, go ahead and gesture while you're speaking. When you're really nervous, you may want to hide your hand because they express your anxiety.
Stay positive. Your body language follows your mind. If your mind is negative, your body will consciously create negative energy. However, stay positive and you feel confident in your body language.
Work on your walk. Interviewers often make a hiring judgment within the first 10 seconds of meeting you.
A.Instead, make “direct face contact”. |
B.How you walk into the room is a part of that judgment. |
C.At this time, it's a good choice for you to hide your hands. |
D.Instead, using your hands gesture can make you feel relaxed. |
E.If your have a positive mind, you will wear a smile on your face. |
F.It's very important to review your information you have prepared. |
G.It's improper to crazily search your file for your resume at this time. |
7 . You may not realize that your brain is consuming energy almost all the time. Paying attention, decision-making, empathy, even meditation consume mental resources. You can’t think much at all-or laugh, or respond to danger, or dream about the future, or even remember where you put the car keys-without mental energy.
Despite its essential status, mental energy is a missing factor in most accounts of psychic(心理的)operations. It’s not even clear what mental energy is. One model sees it as one part mood state, one part cognition, and one part motivation. There’s no agreed-upon measure of or method for assessing mental energy.
Whatever mental energy turns out to be, one thing is clear: it’s something people want more of. Perhaps because we live in disquieting times that we struggle to make sense of even decisions about what to put in the garbage bring us face-to-face with existential threats-there are continuous demands on mental energy. Or maybe it’s just the price of having a big cerebral cortex(大脑皮层)in a time of information overload.
There are known ways of maintaining mental energy. Most accessible, perhaps, is the careful use of whatever mental energy individuals already have. Habits help conserve mental energy. They obviate the need to make any number of decisions so as to maintain mental energy. Good habits are even better; they additionally prevent the need to expend energy on mopping up the damage done by bad habits.
It’s also possible to generate mental energy from within by a technique known as mental contrasting. New York University psychologist Gabriele Oettingen developed mental contrasting as a way to use the energy necessary to turn goals into achievements. The technique requires imagining a future you want to attain-writing a book, say-and the best outcome of that desired goal-feelings of accomplishment and pride. The critical part is then avoiding pure fantasy by contrasting your wishes with the reality of the work necessary to attain them. The judgments people then make about how likely they are to attain the desired future are starting working, and the energy mobilization(能量调动)can be measured physically in tests of hand-grip strength(握力). Further,Oettingen finds,mental contrasting gives rise to a universal arousal state in which energy is transferrable to mental tasks wholly unrelated to the fantasy that birthed it.
1. What do we know about mental energy?A.It’s clear that people desire more of mental energy. |
B.Most threats and struggles can be addressed with mental energy. |
C.It is a model with parts including mood state, cognition, and motivation. |
D.Most accounts of psychic operations describe mental energy as a main factor. |
A.Meet. |
B.Remove. |
C.Increase. |
D.Provide. |
A.By turning goals into achievements. |
B.By transferring your energy to mental tasks. |
C.By picturing your desired goal and its outcome. |
D.By fantasizing about your accomplishments. |
A.The making of mental energy. |
B.The functions of mental energy. |
C.Habits, good keepers of mental energy. |
D.Mental contrasts, sources of mental energy. |
8 . Everyone knows about straight-A students. Many straight-A students actually put in fewer hours of homework time than their low-scoring classmates. Here are some secrets of the young study champions.
Top students bear no breaks on study time. Once the books are open or the computer is booted up, phone calls go unanswered, TV shows unwatched, and snacks ignored. Study is business; business comes before recreation.
Get organized.
Paul Melendres, a straight-A freshman from New Mexico, keeps two folders — one for the day’s assignments, another for papers completed and graded.
Clean up your act.
Neat papers are likely to get higher grades than sloppy ones. “The student who turns in a neat paper,” says Claude Olney, an Arizona State University business professor, “is already on the way to an A. It’s like being served a cheeseburger.
Speak up.
“If I don’t understand what my teacher is explaining, I asked him to repeat it,” says Christopher Campbell. Class participation goes beyond merely asking questions, though.
Test yourself.
As part of her note-taking, Domenica Roman emphasizes points that she thinks may be covered during exams.
A.Set priorities. |
B.Schedule your time. |
C.She designs test questions based on them. |
D.It’s a matter of showing intellectual curiosity. |
E.A bag or drawer keeps essential supplies together. |
F.Hard work isn’t the whole story behind their academic grades. |
G.You can’t believe it tastes good if it’s presented on a dirty plate. |
9 . Social anxiety is a mental disorder that is often misunderstood. It’s not just as simple as feeling shy or not wanting to engage in big groups.
Generally speaking, the physical symptoms (症状) of anxiety include an increase in heart rate, muscle tension and dizziness (头晕). In all of these cases, it’s important to take a minute and slow down your breathing to help you gain control back of your body.
Challenge your thoughts
People with social anxiety often have negative thoughts when in a social situation. Perhaps you’re worried you might trip over, or laugh or cough at the wrong time.
Set goals
The idea of goal setting is not only to decide where you want to end up, but to learn about where you are now. In this way, you can clearly see your progress. Remember though, never compare yourself to others in terms of social success.
Say yes
Maybe you’ve gotten into the habit of saying “no” to everything you get invited to. But it’s time to start saying “yes”! If you’re invited to do something social, don’t turn it down and accept the invitation.
A.Encourage yourself |
B.Focus on breathing |
C.You may feel a little anxious at first. |
D.The truth is, these things happen at any time. |
E.It doesn’t mean that others are going to think badly of you. |
F.Focus on yourself and how you are doing week by week, month by month. |
G.It involves being fearful of social situations, especially unfamiliar ones. |
10 . Skills you need for future work
Creativity
Emotional intelligence (EQ)
You exhibit high emotional intelligence if you have empathy (同感) and work well with others. A machine can’t easily replace a human’s ability to connect with another human being.
Critical thinking
A person with critical thinking skills can suggest innovative solutions and ideas and solve complex problems using reasoning and logic.
Technology skills
The 4th industrial revolution (革命) is fueled by technological innovations. This means that everyone will need a certain level of comfort around technology.
Due to the speed of change in the future workplace, people will have to be agile (机敏的) and able to embrace and celebrate change. Not only will our brains need to be flexible, but we’ll also need to be adaptable as we are required to adjust to shifting workplaces, expectations, and skill sets. A skill needed for the future will be the ability to see change as a chance to grow.
A.Active learning. |
B.Accepting change. |
C.So those who have high EQs will be in demand. |
D.People should understand and respect others despite differences in culture. |
E.Most employees will be required to access data and determine how to act on it. |
F.The first step in critical thinking is to analyze information from various resources. |
G.Human workers need to be creative to fully realize the benefits of all the new things in the future. |