1 . Do you find yourself pulling away from others, especially if you’ve experienced a deep disappointment? Maybe the most ______ thing most of us can do is to be with people when we don’t feel like being around anybody.
A man who lost his wife to cancer found himself wanting to be ______ . He dropped out of his community and ______ all of the activities he and his wife were used to for year. He ______ socializing at work and returned ______ home to an empty house after work. He turned down ______ from friends and co-workers.
His friends became ______ . One came by to visit and invite him over for supper the next evening. The two old friends sat in comfortable chairs by a ______ . The visitor extended the dinner invitation and ______ him to come, “You may need to ______ others to share your pain.”
The man responded that he felt better ______ staying with other people. “And ______ ,” he said, “it’s just too difficult to get out anymore.”
They sat in ______ for a while, watching the wood burn in the fireplace. Then the visitor did a(n) ______ thing. He took tongs (火钳) by the fireplace, reached into the fire, pulled out a ______ coal and laid down by itself on the earth. “That’s you,” he said.
The man sat in silence, ______ the red-hot ember. Neither man looked ______ as the once hot coal gradually transformed into a black lump. After some moments, the man said, “I get the ______ , my friend. I’ll be over tomorrow evening.”
We cannot ______ in any healthy way by ourselves. The leaf needs the branch. The branch needs the trunk. The trunk needs the roots. And the roots need the rest of the tree. We are ______ . And in that connection life and vitality (活力) are found.
1. A.exciting | B.common | C.difficult | D.obvious |
2. A.independent | B.cheerful | C.sociable | D.alone |
3. A.enjoyed | B.refused | C.looked back to | D.took part in |
4. A.quit | B.reduced | C.kept | D.became fond of |
5. A.hurriedly | B.hopefully | C.straight | D.eagerly |
6. A.greetings | B.visits | C.kindness | D.invitations |
7. A.annoyed | B.alarmed | C.disappointed | D.curious |
8. A.warm fireplace | B.beautiful garden | C.bright window | D.TV set |
9. A.inspired | B.told | C.encouraged | D.required |
10. A.inform | B.expect | C.leave | D.allow |
11. A.while | B.without | C.regardless of | D.because of |
12. A.besides | B.otherwise | C.generally | D.therefore |
13. A.turn | B.silence | C.tears | D.talks |
14. A.frightening | B.heartwarming | C.unusual | D.interesting |
15. A.black | B.burnt | C.dark | D.flaming |
16. A.watching | B.holding | C.admiring | D.ignoring |
17. A.down | B.away | C.ahead | D.around |
18. A.point | B.invitation | C.news | D.notice |
19. A.think | B.understand | C.escape | D.survive |
20. A.welcomed | B.concerned | C.connected | D.affected |