There is immense value in stepping out of your comfort zone and making a change to your life that you truly want to happen. This not only creates your
The first step is to change your words. Your words-whether spoken or thought-influence your own experience and
“By taking just a couple of breaths before speaking, we can first open our hearts, and feel the connection and appreciation for ourselves and whoever we’re communicating with or about,” explains Andrea Gardener.
This conscious action will transform the words
A.To express her gratitude. | B.To ask for help. | C.To show her kindness. |
3 . “There is nothing noble (高尚的) in being superior (优秀的) to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” —— Ernest Hemingway
As Hemingway says, self-improvement is a noble cause.
Only when you have accepted who you are can you grow. If you continuously fight against yourself, you won’t have the emotional energy you need to better yourself. If you wish to get on with people better, then you may start by accepting yourself.
If you are on a personal path that is going upwards, then you are likely to find a friend or partner who is also seeking to better themselves and their circumstances.
Focusing on your good qualities and attempting to protect and improve these characteristics will help you become a better person.
A.Like-minded people attract one another. |
B.When you feel confident, you keep calm. |
C.It will also stop you from damaging yourself. |
D.The way you view yourself affects how others view you. |
E.This will probably help you become a successful person. |
F.People like to be around individuals who like and accept themselves. |
G.It can help us learn about who we are and enable us to be better people. |
With the development of our
A good interpersonal relationship promotes (促进) people's success. Throughout human history, we can know
In my childhood, I
One day, my father took me to a speech therapist. After giving me a thorough examination, he said it was mainly because of the fear and lack of confidence
Now I am 27 years old and I am now working in a large company
6 . Empathy, the ability to understand and co-experience the feelings and thoughts of other people, is probably one of the most important skills a person can have.
• Humans are social animals.
There are very few activities that humans take part in that don’t involve others.
• It lets you better understand non-verbal components of communication.
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When you unconsciously perceive what the other party wants and needs and can understand exactly why they want it, reaching a “win-win” solution gets easier. You don’t have to blindly search for a way out.
• It broadens your horizons.
Seeing the world from other people’s perspectives lets you perceive it to a fuller extent. When you are able to look at life from other people’s point of view, you are able to live a more fulfilled life.
A.It makes you better at handling conflicts. |
B.It helps you introduce your ideas to others. |
C.Empathy basically is what makes us human. |
D.Humans always live and work with each other. |
E.So why exactly is empathy so important for us? |
F.Communication is so much more than what words express. |
G.Therefore, the ability to better understand others and read their feelings is an advantage. |
7 . The joy of giving is real, according to a study. Research presented in the Journal of the Association for Psychological Science shows that those who give gifts are happier — and happier for longer — than those who receive gifts.
Researchers conducted two studies last year. In one,participants were given $5 every day for five days and were required to spend the money on the same thing each day. Some participants were required to spend the money on themselves, while others were required to give to make a donation to charity. In a second experiment that was done online, participants played 10 rounds of a word puzzle game and each won 5 cents per round, which they could keep or donate.
In both experiments, participants reported their overall happiness. Those who donated their money showed that their happiness declined at a much slower rate than those who kept the money or spent it on themselves.
The researchers note that when people focus on an outcome, they can easily compare outcomes, which may diminish their sensitivity to each experience. When people focus on an action, they may focus less on comparison and instead experience each act of giving as a unique happiness-inducing event. Further analyses ruled out some potential alternative explanations, such as the possibility that participants who gave to others had to think longer and harder about what to give, which could promote higher happiness.
The results are especially interesting because according to one of the researchers, Ed O’Brien of the University of Chicago Booth School of Business, they conflict with past research. “If you want to sustain happiness over time, past research tells us that we need to take a break from what were currently consuming and experience something new. Our research reveals that the kind of thing may matter more than assumed: Repeated giving, even in identical ways to identical other,may continue to feel relatively fresh and relatively pleasurable the more we do it,” O’Brien said.
So for all the holiday gifts you give this season, expect to feel happy and know that feeling is going to stick around for a while.
1. What’s the function of the first paragraph?A.To lead to the topic. |
B.To highlight the importance of the study. |
C.To recommend a journal. |
D.To persuade people to give gifts regularly. |
A.To challenge the past research. |
B.To rule out different experimental data. |
C.To show the benefits of donation. |
D.To make the conclusion more convincing. |
A.Develop. | B.Show. | C.Reduce. | D.Lack. |
A.Gift giving will result in longer happiness than receiving. |
B.Thinking longer and harder on giving will promote higher happiness. |
C.The feeling of happiness will disappear soon if people just give holiday gifts. |
D.Taking a break from what were currently consuming will sustain happiness. |
8 . Oregon firefighters battling wildfires across the state have a new "force" on their team: a Baby Yoda doll. The lovely toy, from Disney's Star Wars series The Mandalorian, has become a symbol of hope and joy among the firefighters who have been tirelessly fighting the historic wildfire since early January.
It all began when five-year-old Carver Tinning and his grandmother Sasha Tinning from Scappoose, Oregon, found the Baby Yoda while searching for items in the superstore to donate to Oregon firefighters. Sasha said," Hey, this plush(丝绒)toy looks neat, maybe we should take this to the firefighters. "Carver responded, "He would be a very good friend for them."
The toy, along with a note saying. "Thank you, firefighters. Here is a friend for you in case you get lonely. Love. Carver." was handed to donation drive volunteers on January 20. The thoughtful gift brought tears to their eyes. Volunteer Tyler Eubanks said "We were all really touched that Carver wanted to give a companion to the men and women who were out risking their lives to fight the wildfires."
Eubanks delivered the toy to the firefighters in Colton, Oregon. The toy and note was really emotional for the firefighters and a couple of people broke down in tears. Eubanks took a few pictures of the Baby Yoda in action, and then posted them on the Facebook, titled “Baby Yoda Fights Fires”. The pictures became instant hits, reaching over 500, 000 fans. Eubanks was thrilled by the community response. She told the media, "The impressive response is giving firefighters a huge moral inspiration, which is something that's really needed right now."
Sasha agreed, saying, "It's a miracle how one small gesture should create a wave of kindness." The 54-year-old said Carver was excited that everyone liked Baby Yoda and happy that the firefighters-many of whom hadn't been able to see their families for weeks-had a "little friend to give them comfort."
1. Why did Carver and Sasha buy a Baby Yoda doll in the superstore?A.Because it was a toy with encouraging notes. |
B.Because it came from Disney's Star Wars series. |
C.Because it was a lovely doll that everyone likes. |
D.Because it could be gift to support the firefighters. |
A.By bringing them more companions. |
B.By showing their actions on the media. |
C.By joining them in fighting the wildfire. |
D.By making the toy's adventure into a film. |
A.She was proud of their small act of kindness. |
B.She was grateful for the work of the volunteers. |
C.She was surprised that the doll was so popular. |
D.She was concerned about the life of firefighters. |
A.Baby Yoda Joined Firefighters in Battling Wildfires |
B.Firefighters Risked Their Lives to Fight the Wildfires |
C.Young Carver Delivered Magical Toy to Firefighters |
D.Volunteers Contributed More to Fighting the Wildfires |
9 . Being a good team player is an essential skill, especially at work and school. Then how to be a good team player?
Show you're reliable by doing everything you say you will. Your actions will reflect on everyone in your group, so do your best to always follow through.
Make sure you do an equal share of the work. No one likes a teammate who barely contributes to the project.
Speak up when you have ideas.
A.So take on an equal part of the work. |
B.Volunteer to take on extra work, when necessary. |
C.Adopt a positive attitude when it comes to your work. |
D.Be direct and honest when you communicate with others. |
E.Moreover, complete your task and always keep your promises to the group. |
F.This shows leadership skills, while also making you a valuable part of the team. |
G.If someone really doesn’t help the team, talk to her or him about team expectations. |
10 . Why do people take “selfies(自拍)?”
Researchers at Syracuse University in New York tried to answer that question.
Other findings from the study include: There are no major differences on how often men and women post selfies and how often they use editing software.
The Newhouse School’s Associate Professor Makana Chock worked on the study. She said, posting selfies on social media is not all that different from what people have done for many years. On trips, our parents and grandparents used cameras to take photos. Before social media, people would bring back photos to show friends and family. You had no choice but to look at them. If you are a nice person, you commented about how nice everyone in the photos looked, especially children and the person showing the photos.
On social media, it is a different experience. People can decide not to look at photos of their friends and family even if they click “like” or even “love” under the Facebook selfie.
A.That was the old way of “clicking” like. |
B.They came up with some surprising answers. |
C.Different people have different opinions about it. |
D.Such people think very highly of themselves, especially how they look. |
E.Both cameras and phones are useful tools to record people’s experiences. |
F.There are other reasons, besides admiring themselves, why people post selfies. |
G.But men desire to be seen as popular more than women when posting selfies. |