1 . Conflict (冲突) between teenagers and parents happens for a lot of reasons. Sometimes conflict happens between teenagers and parents just because conflict happens between human beings anyway. Humans have different needs, different feelings, different opinions about what they want, and the relationship with people can be really difficult. However, teenagers can cause further conflict because of the hormonal (生理的) changes that are happening and the stage of life that they're in.
Teenagers and parents have different understanding about rules and at times they find it difficult to look into the future. So parents and teenagers will often experience conflict about many things, do chores, homework, whether teenagers speak respectfully or not and about what they're allowed to do.
Before we think about rule boundaries (界线) for teenagers, we need to make sure that we have a really good relationship base. There's no point saying “From now on, you have to listen to me”: if you don't have a positive relationship with your teenager. We need to go back and make sure there is some degree of shared respect, and some degree of positive communication and enjoyment being together. you do that first, it means that rule boundaries are a lot easier to set up.
Often we're dealing with conflict on the fly. This is not the right time to be dealing with it. We really want parents and teenagers to sit down and think about the kinds of things that may happen in the house before the problems come. The more detailed your rule boundaries are for teenagers, the more likely it is that they are going to follow them. So this means we don't have rule boundaries like “Have the bathroom cleaned”. It needs to be “The floors mopped, nothing on the countertop and the mirrors cleaned by ten o'clock every Saturday”: Rule boundaries need to be written down, and set out ahead of time so the teenager knows exactly what's expected.
1. What's important to set up a rule boundary easily for teenagers?A.Being strict from the start. | B.Developing a good relationship with them first. |
C.Saying"No" to their requirements. | D.Avoiding close talks with them. |
A.Doing some housework. | B.Having a good reading habit. |
C.Cleaning the bathroom. | D.Finishing your homework by five. |
A.In a hurry. | B.On the plane. | C.By oneself. | D.Another day. |
A.Growing Pains | B.Teenage Problems |
C.Parent-Child Conflict and Solutions | D.Knowing the Conflict |
2 . At a conference last week, I received an interesting piece of advice: “Assume we are wrong.” When Nosek recommended that I and other scientists assume that we were wrong, he was sharing a strategy that he’s employed in his own lab—a strategy for changing the way we respond to criticism.
Assuming that we are wrong is not so foreign to science. Many of our past scientific theories have been wrong, so surely many of our current theories will turn out to be wrong, too. That doesn’t mean we haven’t made progress, but it does suggest that there is always room for improvement.
One worry about this approach is that it could discourage scientists, because trying to be less wrong might be a less effective encouragement than the promise of being right. Another concern is that a strategy that works well with scientists might not work when it comes to communicating science with the public.
Despite these worries, I still like Nosek’s suggestion because it builds in humility (谦卑) (“There are things I do not know!”) along with a sense that we can do better (“There are things I do not know yet!”). It also builds in a sense of community—we’re all in the same boat when it comes to falling short of getting things right. Perhaps the focus on a shared goal—our goal as scientists and humans of being less wrong—can help make up for the harms in scientific motivation or communication.
I also like Nosek’s advice because it isn’t limited to science. Trying to be less wrong—rather than more right—could be a beneficial way to communicate our aims across a variety of contexts, whether it’s a daily argument or a business decision. I may be wrong about who did the dishes last night, or about what is the best investment; if I begin from the assumption that I can be wrong and I’m trying to be less wrong, any challenge may not appear so threatening.
1. What did Nosek most likely want to tell the participants at the conference?A.Facing criticism is a very important part of life. |
B.Taking a step back is a good way to face criticism. |
C.Confidence is necessary for daily communication. |
D.Assuming that we are wrong is foreign to scientists. |
A.The popularity of Nosek’s idea. | B.The concerns about Nosek’s strategy. |
C.Our natural response to criticism. | D.The problems with scientific theories. |
A.Approving. | B.Conservative. | C.Doubtful | D.Uninterested. |
A.A diary entry. | B.A biography. | C.A news report. | D.A lab’s instruction. |
3 . I decided to be a teacher when I was 10, because I could clearly see some of my teachers had extraordinary powers.
There was an English teacher in fifth grade who could
I know being a teacher isn’t the
I have taught for three decades. Occasionally, I meet my
A.carefully | B.casually | C.deliberately | D.magically |
A.take away | B.pick up | C.hand out | D.leave alone |
A.see | B.bear | C.break | D.cover |
A.missed | B.hated | C.lacked | D.valued |
A.ambiguous | B.foreign | C.urgent | D.unspoken |
A.vividly | B.partly | C.hardly | D.roughly |
A.work | B.task | C.major | D.duty |
A.empathy | B.doubt | C.desire | D.superpower |
A.easiest | B.hardest | C.dullest | D.weakest |
A.errors | B.risks | C.skills | D.stages |
A.voice | B.sight | C.cars | D.legs |
A.sign | B.cause | C.gift | D.reason |
A.cheap | B.private | C.slight | D.emotional |
A.present | B.former | C.patient | D.polite |
A.adventures | B.services | C.memories | D.messages |
4 . On a cold morning at a Subway Station, a man with a violin played for about 45 minutes. During that time, approximately 2,000 people went through the
No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the greatest musicians in the world. Two days before, Joshua Bell sold out a theater in Boston where the
In a common-place environment, at an
A.shop | B.station | C.road | D.subway |
A.begged | B.picked | C.received | D.paid |
A.food | B.phones | C.stones | D.money |
A.above | B.under | C.behind | D.against |
A.stopped | B.cried | C.played | D.sang |
A.happily | B.anxiously | C.hurriedly | D.angrily |
A.but | B.and | C.so | D.or |
A.nodding | B.turning | C.shaking | D.bowing |
A.turned up | B.came across | C.put down | D.took over |
A.applauded | B.commented | C.laughed | D.cried |
A.chairs | B.seats | C.benches | D.couches |
A.different | B.same | C.unique | D.foreign |
A.early | B.uncertain | C.proper | D.inappropriate |
A.appreciate | B.think | C.follow | D.observe |
A.look | B.live | C.rush | D.go |
5 . I live with my husband Jack in Iowa, which is far away from Florida. One day, my husband suddenly decided to play
“Why Florida?” I wanted to know. “We are so busy every day with our work. Why not someplace
“Because,” he said, “Florida is famous for golf. It’s just something I
So when Jack talked about playing in
In order to make our life without
After many years, our plans were all finished.
A.football | B.golf | C.basketball | D.volleyball |
A.farther | B.closer | C.larger | D.warmer |
A.dream | B.hurry | C.refuse | D.afford |
A.In fact | B.For example | C.At once | D.In case |
A.lent | B.bought | C.missed | D.found |
A.called | B.practised | C.made | D.explained |
A.Georgia | B.Hawaii | C.Iowa | D.Florida |
A.support | B.learn | C.finish | D.prepare |
A.where | B.when | C.although | D.because |
A.came | B.rose | C.failed | D.happened |
A.regret | B.hope | C.difficulty | D.difference |
A.turned down | B.taken away | C.put out | D.carried out |
A.started | B.changed | C.appeared | D.stopped |
A.Simply | B.Finally | C.Quietly | D.Sadly |
A.early | B.busy | C.slow | D.fast |
6 . “Tell me the story of me, Momma,” my daughter Sophie always asks when we sit on my grandmother’s rocking chair at the end of the day. “The first time I saw your beautiful face, it was nearly covered by a blue-and-white hat. You were surrounded by a soft blue blanket (毛毯). All I could see was a rosy face.” “And I looked like a tiny fairy baby?” she asks. “You did, and you weren’t older than a minute,” I always answer. “The nurse handed a tiny little girl to me, and I was so surprised because you felt so light. I thought if I threw off the blanket, I’d find no baby there at all, only air.”
From that moment, I became a mother. But that moment was just special and magical as if she’d come from my body directly into my arms. From that day on, she was my daughter in every way that mattered.
It’s easy sometimes to forget there was another mother out there with whom I share my title. Sophie’s birth mother, who was also my friend, lost her life to cancer not long after giving birth to Sophie. And I’ll never forget that it was her difficult decision — her tears and her pain — that made me a mom.
As my daughter grows, she will understand that sometimes life is a relay race (接力赛), and you never know who in this world will hand you your baton (接力棒). It could be someone you know for years, or it could be someone who you even never meet, someone you will never be able to repay for giving you the life you always wanted.
1. How does the author start the text?A.By remembering her grandmother. | B.By asking her daughter questions. |
C.By describing her past life. | D.By showing a conversation. |
A.Disappointed. | B.Worried. | C.Thankful. | D.Surprised. |
A.Taking up the baton | B.Being thankful for life |
C.Two mothers’ love | D.The mystery of Sophie’s birth |
7 . There’s an old saying: How you do one thing is how you do everything.
I recently went to a jam session(即兴演奏会)with some other musicians. When I used to jam with other musicians, I spent more time thinking about my drumming instead of actually paying attention to the
I believe that the best
A.Otherwise | B.Instead | C.Therefore | D.However |
A.games | B.football | C.chess | D.music |
A.song | B.band | C.place | D.money |
A.supported | B.taught | C.persuaded | D.advised |
A.longer | B.brighter | C.louder | D.better |
A.performance | B.appearance | C.freedom | D.speech |
A.tool | B.sense | C.language | D.truth |
A.hurt | B.attacked | C.broken | D.connected |
A.singing | B.playing | C.walking | D.studying |
A.sharing | B.reading | C.understanding | D.judging |
A.artists | B.musicians | C.politicians | D.scientists |
A.friends | B.children | C.audience | D.company |
A.useful | B.interesting | C.caring | D.careful |
A.punish | B.praise | C.forgive | D.thank |
A.value | B.potential | C.joy | D.security |
8 . In one of my son’s favorite TV shows, Herkie, the Helicopter has to perform a good deed in order to earn a Merit Badge. Herkie spends the entire show attempting to perform a remarkable, heroic deed, only to
Years ago, as my pregnancy has progressed, I’ve had more and more trouble
When the pillow arrived, I was,
What a
So often in my life, I’ve felt like Herkie, needing to perform a big awesome act to
A.miss | B.fail | C.forget | D.escape |
A.gives up | B.takes off | C.carries on | D.hides away |
A.right | B.kind | C.creative | D.small |
A.sitting | B.walking | C.sleeping | D.eating |
A.expensive | B.heavy | C.rough | D.soft |
A.say | B.leave | C.try | D.share |
A.unreasonably | B.secretly | C.deliberately | D.frankly |
A.smelled | B.looked | C.felt | D.tasted |
A.insignificant | B.inconvenient | C.invaluable | D.incomplete |
A.spend | B.earn | C.waste | D.surprise |
A.shame | B.mess | C.coincidence | D.save |
A.feature | B.advantage | C.success | D.trick |
A.have a break | B.take a chance | C.make a difference | D.set an example |
A.In reality | B.After all | C.Or rather | D.By chance |
A.praise | B.value | C.discuss | D.notice |
9 . I was talking to some friends while standing in line in the cafeteria at my middle school. As I started to share a funny story, my friend Elizabeth
However, I never wanted to ask what “Coco” meant. I
One day, a classmate stopped by my locker and said to me, “‘Coco’ means Elizabeth thinks you’re being
The next day, at lunchtime, I sat beside Macy, who was sitting with another two girls and who had always seemed nice,
Most adolescents are attempting to
A.interrupted | B.mentioned | C.greeted | D.recognized |
A.incredible | B.odd | C.risky | D.relaxing |
A.knew | B.admitted | C.recalled | D.assumed |
A.embarrassed | B.guilty | C.lucky | D.ready |
A.quit | B.sighed | C.laughed | D.complained |
A.mean | B.annoying | C.unfair | D.dishonest |
A.believe | B.afford | C.resist | D.make |
A.ensuring | B.suspecting | C.realizing | D.praying |
A.broke | B.sank | C.softened | D.melted |
A.expect | B.deserve | C.intend | D.refuse |
A.caution | B.sympathy | C.delight | D.regret |
A.figure out | B.care about | C.count on | D.escape from |
A.model | B.inspiration | C.guarantee | D.reminder |
A.critical | B.superior | C.true | D.immune |
A.new | B.smart | C.imaginary | D.right |
10 . Do you have a best friend at work? A person once said, “Relationships
We hear a lot about this and it’s true. We spend more time with our co-workers than our families. Getting along well with workmates is the
Gallup, our employee engagement survey provider, has been asking us to
I’ve worked with a lot of people over my career. The most
I’ve been through a lot with many people I would
Good relationships and a sense of
A.grow | B.matter | C.increase | D.last |
A.schedules | B.worries | C.errors | D.details |
A.believe | B.remember | C.miss | D.understand |
A.key | B.clue | C.response | D.attitude |
A.determine | B.observe | C.reflect | D.rate |
A.connection | B.interest | C.gap | D.trend |
A.effective | B.memorable | C.qualified | D.professional |
A.classmates | B.teams | C.committees | D.families |
A.mixing | B.competing | C.arguing | D.chatting |
A.comes across | B.sticks to | C.lies in | D.takes up |
A.consider | B.replace | C.attract | D.acquire |
A.tasks | B.challenges | C.pressure | D.progress |
A.humor | B.direction | C.belonging | D.pride |
A.Finally | B.Luckily | C.Hopefully | D.Particularly |
A.city | B.campus | C.stage | D.workplace |