1 . Sometimes the people who give you warmth are strangers. They brighten your day or your life. Snow makes everything white. But a
For several days snow fell heavily. It lay many inches thick on the ground. My home is not far from the Hill Park station. Every morning I
I was walking quickly when I
I went to him and asked the reason for not wearing any hat. He gave me a strange
A.smile | B.hug | C.silence | D.help |
A.broken | B.warm | C.tight | D.sad |
A.jumped | B.walked | C.drove | D.lifted |
A.step | B.enter | C.finish | D.put |
A.covered | B.left | C.stuck | D.down |
A.snow | B.raindrops | C.leaves | D.winds |
A.coat | B.hat | C.gloves | D.clothes |
A.guessed | B.expected | C.noticed | D.imagined |
A.body | B.head | C.face | D.hands |
A.so | B.then | C.though | D.yet |
A.passed over | B.got through | C.lived away | D.spent out |
A.stare | B.anger | C.look | D.care |
A.gave | B.picked | C.let | D.took |
A.back | B.opposite | C.away | D.up |
A.warned | B.reported | C.thanked | D.reminded |
2 . A British friend told me he couldn’t understand why Chinese people love eating sunflower seeds (磕瓜子) as a snack so much. “I’ve met a lot of older Chinese and many have a crack in their front teeth; I believe that’s from cracking the seeds,” he said.
I had never noticed the habit, but once he mentioned it, I suddenly became more aware. I realized that whenever I’m watching TV or typing a report, I always start mindlessly cracking sunflower seeds. My friend doesn’t like sunflower seeds, and, to him, it seems unnecessary to work so much just to get one small seed.
When we were young, the whole family would usually get together for Chinese New Year. Then, we all lived close to one another, usually in a small city, and sometimes even neighbors would go door-to-door on Chinese New Year’s Eve to check out what every household was making.
I remember my parents would be in the kitchen cooking. Out in the living room, a large table would already be laid out, complete with fancy tablecloth, ready-made dumpling fillings, and dishes full of candy, fruits and sunflower seeds. Some of the dishes were to be offered to our ancestors later, while others were for neighbors and children to eat before the evening feast. I must have learned how to crack sunflower seeds back then.
I don’t think it’s right to criticize one’s choice in food or eating habits, no matter how strange they may seem.
It’s not only in China. When I went abroad, I found people had all kinds of strange habits when it came to food. In Denmark, they put salted red fish on bread and eat it for dinner, no matter how much it ruins your breath. They think it’s a delicacy (美味佳肴), and it’s connected to their certain culture. I think it’s a wonderful tradition.
1. What did the writer become aware of?A.She had ever typed a report about seeds. | B.She had various snacks while watching TV. |
C.She damaged her teeth by eating sunflower seeds. | D.She had a habit of cracking sunflower seeds. |
A.The traditions of celebrating it disappear. | B.Eating sunflower seeds is related to it. |
C.The families get together for it. | D.Children can eat delicious food on that day. |
A.neutral(中立的) | B.critical(批评的) | C.acceptable | D.doubtful |
A.One kind of food doesn’t necessarily suit everyone. | B.It is good to form healthy eating habits. |
C.Eating habits come from a certain culture. | D.Changing your eating habits will change your life. |
3 . When I was in third grade, my family and I took on an unforgettable trip across the country. It turned out to be more than just a/an
One day, while hiking through the Grand Canyon, I
As Dad showed me footholds, Mom coached me with calming
From then on, every evening, we’d gather around a campfire for what we
The trip taught me that the true meaning of travel isn’t merely about reaching the destination but about the personal growth that happens on the route, and the family bonds formed when facing
A.crowded | B.physical | C.creative | D.necessary |
A.relationships | B.potentials | C.dreams | D.inspirations |
A.guided | B.encouraged | C.comforted | D.attracted |
A.events | B.stations | C.locations | D.shows |
A.cultures | B.landscapes | C.groups | D.countries |
A.imagined | B.constructed | C.smoothed | D.encountered |
A.froze | B.flew | C.fell | D.forgot |
A.reached down | B.stood aside | C.stepped in | D.turned back |
A.words | B.worries | C.noises | D.thoughts |
A.lost | B.maintained | C.demonstrate | D.restored |
A.left | B.broke | C.found | D.dug |
A.nicer | B.tougher | C.braver | D.closer |
A.originally | B.affectionately | C.frequently | D.simply |
A.sympathy | B.conflict | C.tears | D.profits |
A.challenges | B.defeats | C.opposition | D.uncertainty |
4 . We often wonder how we’re doing as parents. Kids don’t come with an instruction guide, so how do we
The video opened, showing a man in a suit and tie. Her daughter’s next to him, looking
As the man began his
When raising children, we can never be
A.desert | B.judge | C.choose | D.appreciate |
A.appointment | B.expectation | C.agreement | D.experiment |
A.reminded | B.defeat | C.interrupted | D.inspired |
A.delighted | B.annoyed | C.embarrassed | D.frightened |
A.reporters | B.advertisers | C.interviewers | D.employers |
A.Confidently | B.Apparently | C.Skillfully | D.Remarkably |
A.lecture | B.motion | C.humor | D.peace |
A.installation | B.institution | C.introduction | D.interaction |
A.showed | B.switched | C.shined | D.spotted |
A.lie | B.complain | C.appeal | D.explain |
A.make up | B.call out | C.put away | D.take in |
A.massive | B.curious | C.anxious | D.certain |
A.honors | B.qualities | C.talents | D.manners |
A.blame | B.punish | C.decline | D.correct |
A.capable | B.sure | C.proud | D.cautious |
5 . In an international spelling contest (竞赛) in America, an 11-year-old girl was asked to spell a certain word. But with her
As the girl walked off the
Probably the biggest test of our character and honesty is what we should do if we knew we would never get
It’s so true that the choices you make today
A.high | B.sweet | C.tough | D.soft |
A.finally | B.kindly | C.secretly | D.totally |
A.forgotten | B.mispronounced | C.misspelled | D.lost |
A.correct | B.wrong | C.different | D.same |
A.stage | B.studio | C.test | D.classroom |
A.bravery | B.honesty | C.courage | D.cleverness |
A.cancelled | B.cost | C.offered | D.wasted |
A.achieve | B.broke | C.won | D.defeated |
A.talent | B.knowledge | C.understanding | D.character |
A.paid | B.awarded | C.caught | D.reported |
A.escaped | B.lied | C.changed | D.answered |
A.accept | B.fight | C.cheat | D.insist |
A.value | B.touch | C.learn | D.play |
A.contest | B.champion | C.judge | D.expert |
A.sense | B.money | C.respect | D.benefit |
A.come to | B.adapt to | C.discuss with | D.live with |
A.make | B.change | C.keep | D.create |
A.give | B.take | C.follow | D.set |
A.grow up | B.bring up | C.take up | D.come up |
A.recording | B.inspecting | C.correcting | D.watching |
6 . While enjoying my fresh lunch in a restaurant in Amsterdam, I noticed something odd. Customers coming in for something to eat ignored the person standing behind the counter (柜台), preferring to
What was the crazy thing about this? They were just several
Think about it for a moment. When was the last time you naturally
We shop,
A.talk | B.call | C.order | D.deliver |
A.meters | B.millimeters | C.kilometers | D.centimeters |
A.chance | B.turn | C.look | D.test |
A.spoken | B.written | C.typed | D.mentioned |
A.efficient | B.enthusiastic | C.effective | D.energetic |
A.ended up | B.engaged in | C.made up | D.went on |
A.hear | B.believe | C.remember | D.understand |
A.recording | B.studying | C.playing | D.calculating |
A.idea | B.aim | C.problem | D.rise |
A.cash | B.price | C.debt | D.tax |
A.decorate | B.book | C.build | D.repair |
A.Contact | B.Work | C.Quarrel | D.Reunion |
A.interests | B.benefits | C.disadvantages | D.influences |
A.unrealistic | B.unsuitable | C.unreasonable | D.unexpected |
A.serves as | B.refers to | C.accounts for | D.consists of |
7 . Rejection doesn’t always hurt. Sometimes rejection may
This year football fans have been watching to see how Joe would
Joe became the Heisman Trophy
Joe’s story reminds us that there are
A.follow | B.lead | C.create | D.clear |
A.study | B.perform | C.train | D.join |
A.tough | B.fun | C.attractive | D.easy |
A.accepted | B.remembered | C.rejected | D.ignored |
A.bench | B.stand | C.team | D.stage |
A.chance | B.resource | C.potential | D.enthusiasm |
A.signed up for | B.applied to | C.attended to | D.searched for |
A.fan | B.adviser | C.learner | D.winner |
A.similar | B.smooth | C.multiple | D.flat |
A.costs | B.takes | C.makes | D.offers |
A.theory | B.training | C.rejection | D.excuse |
A.achieving | B.planning | C.announcing | D.explaining |
A.affect | B.emphasize | C.estimate | D.acknowledge |
A.active | B.negative | C.possible | D.predictable |
A.interpret | B.imagine | C.explore | D.escape |
8 . Cycling becomes more popular nowadays. Some may argue that it brings tiredness but it’s nothing,
It was easy to meet different people with
The support and comfort they gave was a(n)
Meanwhile, cycling gave me much time to
These were the adventures of my life, and they were
A.exchanged | B.compared | C.impressed | D.contacted |
A.strong | B.happy | C.wise | D.creative |
A.solutions | B.strengths | C.memories | D.dreams |
A.power | B.energy | C.kindness | D.confidence |
A.make | B.admire | C.welcome | D.experience |
A.supported | B.paid | C.offered | D.showed |
A.pleasant | B.slow | C.unique | D.obvious |
A.neared | B.brought | C.recorded | D.advanced |
A.powerfully | B.finally | C.gracefully | D.recently |
A.get close to | B.give in to | C.look forward to | D.think back to |
A.wastes | B.repairs | C.tracks | D.keeps |
A.lost | B.requested | C.needed | D.affected |
A.future | B.source | C.relationship | D.goal |
A.annoying | B.impressive | C.extra | D.painful |
A.calls | B.focuses | C.agrees | D.depends |
9 . One morning, my four-year-old daughter and I were getting ready to leave the house when she suddenly yelled “Idiot!” right at me. As I processed the word, I noticed she was upset. Tears streamed down her face as she half whispered and half yelled “you are an IDIOT Mama.” Total silence followed as we looked at each other. We were staring at each other for so long, and I nearly forgot to breathe out and in again. Idiot. How could my daughter call me an idiot?
There are many behaviors that really push parents’ buttons. Disrespectful, rude words tend to top the list. The wrong response to such rude remarks is often a serious warning. But I didn’t offer any serious remarks.
I realized that my daughter’s intention wasn’t to disrespect me. She was expressing the disconnection (疏离). And punishment doesn’t solve disconnection. It creates more of it. Her choice of word said it all. She was annoyed. She sensed the stress. I needed to hear her. I was being careless. I was the one being rude to her.
So, why punish our children when they need guidance? We must know that the words we use matter, and become our children’s words too. The words include those we use to handle emotional overload. Idiot is a word I regretfully must admit to using when I’m extremely annoyed. Not at my children, but yes, they have heard me say it. So, instead of punishing my daughter for misbehavior, I chose to focus on her real message: Idiot means that “Mom, you are stressing me out!”.
No blame. No criticizing her choice of words. Just focus on our relationship. I admitted my ignoring her, and we hugged and kissed each other. I walked into her play school with interest and was ready to see all her current projects.
Don’t be afraid to look beyond misbehavior, find the true message, trust the power of connection, and show kindness and forgiveness.
1. After hearing her daughter’s words, the author ________.A.couldn’t believe it | B.gave her a warning |
C.lost her temper | D.had a talk with her |
A.You are an idiot. | B.You are ignoring me. |
C.You always punish me. | D.You teach me the rude words. |
A.bad-tempered | B.brave |
C.sensitive | D.wise |
A.To settle conflicts between parents and children. |
B.To explain why children disrespect their parents. |
C.To suggest a positive response to children’s misbehavior. |
D.To encourage readers to express their true feelings. |
10 . Sometimes a part of us must die before another part can come to life. Even though this is a
Sometimes we build these identities in relationships or jobs, and when we change, those areas of our life become
We may feel a strange
A.dusty | B.natural | C.humorous | D.rare |
A.moving | B.disappointing | C.tiring | D.confusing |
A.report | B.notice | C.indication | D.idea |
A.brotherhood | B.neighborhood | C.childhood | D.adulthood |
A.animal | B.people | C.child | D.stage |
A.goodbye | B.hello | C.thanks | D.sorry |
A.left | B.showed | C.shaped | D.realized |
A.remained | B.influenced | C.defended | D.ignored |
A.around | B.between | C.for | D.within |
A.aid | B.memory | C.defense | D.support |
A.moreover | B.therefore | C.however | D.meanwhile |
A.area | B.shelter | C.room | D.space |
A.contents | B.limits | C.connection | D.requirements |
A.mixture | B.influence | C.appearance | D.relation |
A.growing | B.coming | C.escaping | D.dying |
A.come back | B.come down | C.come out | D.come across |
A.sense | B.time | C.name | D.room |
A.appear | B.disappear | C.go | D.exist |
A.convince | B.remind | C.warn | D.tell |
A.welcoming | B.imaging | C.hoping | D.supplying |