1 . Small children are easy to throw up in the air and catch — and they
I hope Jacky will always—trust me fully, but I know that, as he gets older, it will need more effort and sound judgment
A.deserve | B.miss | C.love | D.know |
A.as if | B.in case | C.even though | D.so that |
A.fear | B.excitement | C.doubt | D.astonishment |
A.reasonable | B.limited | C.undoubted | D.important |
A.relief | B.satisfaction | C.achievement | D.responsibility |
A.on my behalf | B.on my part | C.in my honor | D.in my name |
A.afford | B.choose | C.wait | D.expect |
A.impress | B.compare | C.adjust | D.introduce |
A.safe | B.happy | C.proud | D.grateful |
A.Above all | B.In addition | C.At first | D.For example |
A.However | B.Therefore | C.Similarly | D.Fortunately |
A.affection | B.determination | C.friendship | D.leadership |
A.solve | B.organize | C.develop | D.understand |
A.power | B.credit | C.bond | D.lack |
A.management | B.personality | C.communication | D.education |
2 . In a house with more than one kid, there is bound to be some problems. There are natural
When brothers and sisters don’t
Sometimes brothers and sisters are
You can choose your friends but you can’t choose your families. Learn to grow up with brothers and sisters and accept each other’s
A.ideas | B.responsibilities | C.preparations | D.reasons |
A.return | B.produce | C.collect | D.purchase |
A.protects | B.loves | C.encourages | D.helps |
A.get out | B.get away | C.get on | D.get back |
A.unhappy | B.doubtful | C.enjoyable | D.considerate |
A.importance | B.concern | C.benefit | D.interest |
A.lie | B.improve | C.scream | D.quit |
A.pressure | B.comment | C.competition | D.attention |
A.argue | B.promise | C.separate | D.agree |
A.afraid | B.fond | C.tired | D.envious |
A.relaxing | B.confusing | C.stressful | D.cheerful |
A.sick | B.aware | C.convinced | D.proud |
A.count | B.decide | C.focus | D.rely |
A.differences | B.characters | C.preferences | D.identities |
A.appear | B.change | C.lose | D.gather |
3 . Two of the saddest words in the English language are “if only”. I live my life with the goal of never having to say those words, because they express regret, lost opportunities, mistakes, and disappointment.
My father is famous in our family for saying, “Take the extra minute to do it right.” I always try to live by the “extra minute” rule. When my children were young and likely to cause accidents, I always thought about what I could do to avoid an “if only” moment, whether it was something minor like moving a cup full of hot coffee away from the edge of a counter, or something that required a little more work such as taping padding (衬垫) onto the sharp comers of a glass coffee table.
I don’t only avoid (避免) those “if only” moments when it comes to safety. it’s equally important to avoid “if only” in our personal relationships. We all know people who lost a loved one and regretted that they had foregone an opportunity to say, “I love you” or “I forgive you.” When my father announced he was going to the eye doctor across from my office on Good Friday, I told him that it was a holiday for my company and I wouldn’t be here. But then I thought about the fact that he’s 84 years old and I realized that I shouldn’t give up an opportunity to see him. I called him and told him I had decided to go to work on my day off after all.
I know there will still be occasions when I have to say “if only” about something, but my life is definitely better because of my policy of doing everything possible to avoid that eventuality (可能发生的事). And even though it takes an extra minute to do something right, or it occasionally takes an hour or two in my busy schedule to make a personal connection, I know that I’m doing the right thing. I’m buying myself peace of mind and that’s the best kind of insurance (保障) for my emotional well-being.
1. Which of the following is an example of the “extra minute” rule?A.Start the car the moment everyone is seated. |
B.Leave the room for a minute with the iron working. |
C.Wait for an extra minute so that the steak tastes better. |
D.Move an object out of the way before it trips (绊倒) someone. |
A.To keep her appointment with the eye doctor. |
B.To meet her father who was already an old man. |
C.To join in the holiday celebration of the company. |
D.To finish her work before the deadline approached. |
A.given up. | B.Lacked. | C.Avoided. | D.Wasted. |
A.The Emotional Well-being | B.The Two Saddest Words |
C.The Most Useful Rule | D.The Peace of Mind |
4 . Recently, a man who thinks himself wise complained to me about his bad luck. He interviewed an architect for his project, but he intended her to offer a plan right away and he thought she
Was this a poor choice or just bad luck? If we play out the same situation 100 times —where a man
One way to visualize the man’s
Life is full of such examples. We
The main
A.fooled | B.changed | C.charged | D.benefited |
A.failed | B.happened | C.refused | D.promised |
A.gets over | B.rushes through | C.relies on | D.puts off |
A.obvious | B.popular | C.payable | D.available |
A.similar | B.particular | C.smooth | D.flexible |
A.rudeness | B.carelessness | C.greed | D.short-sightedness |
A.position | B.advertise | C.kick | D.trace |
A.drops | B.increases | C.continues | D.disappears |
A.recognize | B.employ | C.decline | D.serve |
A.choice | B.adventure | C.target | D.strategy |
A.collection | B.purchases | C.donations | D.garbage |
A.once | B.unless | C.though | D.before |
A.rarely | B.slightly | C.equally | D.merely |
A.requirement | B.comment | C.lesson | D.standard |
A.Generosity | B.Smartness | C.Preservation | D.Thoughtfulness |
5 . When I told my parents I was quitting my job, my parents objected strongly. They said something to me, “You won’t have any money, NO!” “Setting up a business is very risky, you shouldn’t do it!” and “Your job is so suitable with rather great pay, why do you want to quit?”
Their comments didn’t wind me up since I had already made up my mind. I told them that I knew what I was doing. At the same time, I understood their concerns, which I had already put into my business plan.
After 9 months or so, my parents stopped discouraging me. After my first or second year, they actually understood that I was doing this for my career. It’s been 10 years, and for the past 8 years, they never asked me to do anything different. In my family, when you don’t get strong discouragement, that means acceptance. Similarly, when I told them about my plan to travel around the world, to try a different diet, among other plans, they would completely oppose at first. But after I pushed forward and moved forward with my aims for a while, they would come to accept them.
At the end of the day, remember that your parents love you. If they don’t care about you, they wouldn’t be against what you do at the risk of influencing your relationship with them. So don’t hate them. Use their objection as a positive force. It will take time for them to change their mind, but when they are aware of your determination (决心) and see you succeeding, and feeling happy and fulfilled doing so, they will realize that you are no longer a little boy / girl who requires their worry and control. That’s when they start to be more hands-off and give you the space to grow and come into your own.
1. What did the author decide to do after giving up his job 10 years ago?A.Go on a diet. | B.Start his own business. |
C.Travel around the world alone. | D.Improve his relationship with his parents. |
A.By sticking to his goals. | B.By turning to someone else. |
C.By showing more respect for them. | D.By having more communication with them. |
A.Change jobs from time to time. |
B.Live a happy and successful life. |
C.Find the space to improve yourselves. |
D.Think about parents’ opposing opinions positively. |
A.Whether to give up your job when you don’t like it. |
B.What to do when your parents don’t support you. |
C.How to communicate with your parents properly. |
D.Whether to change your goals now and then. |
6 . Volunteering is something that is usually not at the top of young people’s lists. But with a little bit of a push from student organizations and nonprofit organizations, volunteerism and community change can start to take a huge lead. They become not just something that will look good on a resume (简历) or college application, but a first concern and a learning experience for the young.
I did a considerable amount of community work during my summer breaks. A few times I would go down to the church and help with the sorting and handing out of canned foods to the homeless. The ragged (破旧的) cloth and the look of upset printed on the faces of the people I handed food to reminded me of the hard realities of our society today, and the difficulty many people face in achieving their self-worth. I was also reminded of the fact that the statistics we hear every day about homelessness are real people-not just numbers. The largest percentage of people who are homeless is in fact, not the men on the street, but families: mothers, children of all ages, and fathers.
The most important thing I’ve learned from my volunteer experiences is that people are not powerless; as a matter of fact, we have a great deal of potential (潜力). I learned how exciting it is to realize how much fun you have in your own life and how beautiful it is to share that with others and hoped that they will discover it themselves. I learned how giving human beings are, even when they don’t have much to give. These are important to help us open doors of understanding and take time to actively listen and communicate with our community members.
The relationship between young people and nonprofit organizations can be the start of a great change in the community and should be a very powerful educational experience. An open-minded and promising flow of communication between organizations and community members can be the start of social and environmental change. Together, we can make the change.
1. What can we learn about volunteering from the first paragraph?A.It deserves to be taken seriously. | B.It is more important than grades. |
C.It is a must in college application. | D.It runs high on young people’s lists |
A.His necessity to improve himself. |
B.His willingness to do community work. |
C.The great suffering of many homeless people. |
D.The amazingly large number of the homeless. |
A.Supporting each other with financial giving. |
B.Developing our potential to discover beauty. |
C.Knowing our ability to share fun with others. |
D.Taking time to solve neighborhood problems. |
A.To call on the young to volunteer. |
B.To share his volunteer experiences. |
C.To explain the benefits of volunteering. |
D.To introduce suitable community work |
7 . Conflict (冲突) between teenagers and parents happens for a lot of reasons. Sometimes conflict happens between teenagers and parents just because conflict happens between human beings anyway. Humans have different needs, different feelings, different opinions about what they want, and the relationship with people can be really difficult. However, teenagers can cause further conflict because of the hormonal (生理的) changes that are happening and the stage of life that they're in.
Teenagers and parents have different understanding about rules and at times they find it difficult to look into the future. So parents and teenagers will often experience conflict about many things, do chores, homework, whether teenagers speak respectfully or not and about what they're allowed to do.
Before we think about rule boundaries (界线) for teenagers, we need to make sure that we have a really good relationship base. There's no point saying “From now on, you have to listen to me”: if you don't have a positive relationship with your teenager. We need to go back and make sure there is some degree of shared respect, and some degree of positive communication and enjoyment being together. you do that first, it means that rule boundaries are a lot easier to set up.
Often we're dealing with conflict on the fly. This is not the right time to be dealing with it. We really want parents and teenagers to sit down and think about the kinds of things that may happen in the house before the problems come. The more detailed your rule boundaries are for teenagers, the more likely it is that they are going to follow them. So this means we don't have rule boundaries like “Have the bathroom cleaned”. It needs to be “The floors mopped, nothing on the countertop and the mirrors cleaned by ten o'clock every Saturday”: Rule boundaries need to be written down, and set out ahead of time so the teenager knows exactly what's expected.
1. What's important to set up a rule boundary easily for teenagers?A.Being strict from the start. | B.Developing a good relationship with them first. |
C.Saying"No" to their requirements. | D.Avoiding close talks with them. |
A.Doing some housework. | B.Having a good reading habit. |
C.Cleaning the bathroom. | D.Finishing your homework by five. |
A.In a hurry. | B.On the plane. | C.By oneself. | D.Another day. |
A.Growing Pains | B.Teenage Problems |
C.Parent-Child Conflict and Solutions | D.Knowing the Conflict |
8 . Lately, I’ve been starting to feel as though my friends are so much farther ahead of me in life. Some of them got engaged and all of them have responsibilities while I’m still single. I see my friends a lot more
Actually, I’m
How do I stop
I know life isn’t linear, and I shouldn’t compare my
So, for now, I’m just going to focus on myself, maybe by
A.infrequently | B.inaccessibly | C.inaccurately | D.impossibly |
A.speak | B.relate | C.care | D.worry |
A.idols | B.secrets | C.kids | D.failures |
A.delighted | B.sorrowful | C.guilty | D.apologetic |
A.putting off | B.showing off | C.calling off | D.working off |
A.family | B.baby | C.turn | D.success |
A.preferred | B.generated | C.accepted | D.rejected |
A.going on | B.depending on | C.getting on | D.taking on |
A.confusing | B.connecting | C.combining | D.comparing |
A.replied | B.commented | C.posted | D.wrote |
A.paper | B.interview | C.application | D.offer |
A.study | B.health | C.treasure | D.path |
A.whenever | B.wherever | C.whatever | D.whoever |
A.sleeping | B.eating | C.drinking | D.travelling |
A.self-discovery | B.self-discipline | C.self-study | D.self-respect |
9 . I was parked in front of the mall
After a few minutes he spoke, “That’s a very
“Don’t we all?” he said.
I was
I needed help. Maybe not for a bus fare or a place to sleep,
Don’t we all? Those three little words still
A.taking off | B.setting off | C.wiping off | D.going off |
A.still | B.even | C.much | D.yet |
A.ugly | B.pretty | C.expensive | D.dirty |
A.ignorance | B.dignity | C.responsibility | D.wisdom |
A.worked | B.smiled | C.signed | D.waited |
A.simple | B.thoughtful | C.powerful | D.meaningful |
A.ever | B.sometimes | C.never | D.seldom |
A.flying | B.climbing | C.feeling | D.moving |
A.successful | B.concerned | C.confused | D.depressed |
A.reminded | B.taught | C.relieved | D.struck |
A.so | B.and | C.but | D.although |
A.searched for | B.put away | C.reached in | D.set aside |
A.express | B.ring | C.communicate | D.cooperate |
A.little | B.less | C.few | D.fewer |
A.with | B.over | C.without | D.beyond |
10 . Once a year, around the time when Christians celebrate Easter, Muslims celebrate Ramadan and Jews celebrate Passover, I often invite my 24-person team to a joyful and special dinner at my place. To
I think this
Yet when people
I’m also really
As the person in charge of the lab, I see preserving a variety of cultural backgrounds as an important part of my job. Such an accessible, varied and supportive
A.accommodate | B.avoid | C.change | D.control |
A.enjoy | B.throw | C.prepare | D.taste |
A.dream | B.tradition | C.promise | D.debate |
A.strange | B.conservative | C.poor | D.diverse |
A.gives up | B.turns down | C.consists of | D.leaves out |
A.breakthroughs | B.backgrounds | C.ambitions | D.hobbies |
A.differences | B.recipes | C.requirements | D.standards |
A.visit | B.praise | C.join | D.aid |
A.regret | B.charge | C.sympathy | D.love |
A.surprised at | B.proud of | C.interested in | D.worried about |
A.curious | B.casual | C.careful | D.relaxed |
A.thank | B.defeat | C.compare | D.choose |
A.scientifically | B.physically | C.mentally | D.financially |
A.respect | B.protect | C.stand | D.doubt |
A.chance | B.position | C.lecture | D.environment |