1. What are the speakers mainly talking about?
A.Work projects. | B.Various games. | C.Team building activity. |
A.The trust game. | B.The personality tests. | C.The group sports events. |
A.In their rooms. | B.Under the tree. | C.In the dining hall. |
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A.To study the effect of isolation on humans. |
B.To figure out the conditions of the volcano. |
C.To help choose the right persons for a trip to Mars. |
D.To learn about human mental and emotional problems. |
A.Eating diet food. | B.Enduring isolation. |
C.Being cooperative. | D.Coping with pressure. |
A.To set up their habitat. | B.To make weather maps. |
C.To study the rocky surface. | D.To communicate every 20 minutes. |
Some people are naturally outgoing, but other people have to practice to become outgoing. If you want to become outgoing, there are several strategies(策略)that you can use. Being “outgoing” involves learning how to present yourself to others, starting conversations, and being more confident in yourself.
One of the easiest ways to present yourself is to ask your friends, colleagues, or classmates to introduce you to their friends. For example, if you walk into a room and your friend is talking to someone else, make it a point to say hello and introduce yourself. The next time you see that person, you can say hello and, since you have already been introduced, you have built a bridge into future communication.
When you’re in a social situation, such as at a party, try to make eye contact with the other people there with a friendly smile. If the other person responds or smiles back at you,then go over to them and introduce yourself. That is usually a good sign for a possible conversation. If the person does not respond, let them go their way. There’s a difference between being “outgoing” and “pushy”. Another practical way to start a conversation with others is to use compliments(赞美). When you’re attracted by certain people, you're bound to notice little things that you appreciate. You can acknowledge these things with a sincere compliment.
Doing something that makes you feel a little uncomfortable is a good way to promote your confidence and help you become a more outgoing version of yourself. If you have never danced before but want to take a ballet lesson, try it out. Do your best to fight the inner voice telling that you can’t do something or defining(定义)yourself by what you think you should be doing instead. With each little victory, you’ll gain the confidence to step further and further outside your comfort zone.
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4 . Building Your Children’s Social Skills
Parents should help build their children’s social skills, which will affect their relationships now and in the future. To start with, tell them that learning social skills is as important as mastering a language or riding a bicycle.
1. Set an example
2. Encourage sharing and taking turns
The foundation to almost all pre-school relationships is sharing and taking turns.
3. Practice social skills
Practice social skills with your child through interaction.
4. Give them opportunities to play
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Guide your child how to deal with an issue as a response to problems with social skills. When your child reports a problem with another child to you, ask questions about possible reasons for the other child’s behavior. By understanding why a peer acts in a certain way, your child can come up with ways to respond.
A.Teach problem solving |
B.Communicate with others |
C.Model the ways you want to see your child behaving. |
D.Encourage your child to share and take turns whenever possible. |
E.This is the best way to let a child know what your expectations are. |
F.Provide a reward by playing a game when your child behaves well. |
G.Provide chances for your child to play with other children from an early age. |
5 . I have forgotten the name of the old lady, who was a customer on my newspaper route when I was a twelve-year-old boy back in 1954. Yet it seems like just yesterday that she taught me a lesson in forgiveness that I can only hope to pass on to someone else some day.
On a Saturday afternoon, a friend and I were throwing stones onto the roof of the old lady’s house. I found a smooth rock and sent it. The stone headed straight for a small window on the old lady’s back door. At the sound of broken glass, we took off from the old lady’s yard.
I was too scared about getting caught that first night. However, a few days later when I was sure that I hadn’t been discovered, I started to feel guilty for her misfortune.
She still greeted me with a smile each day when I gave her the newspaper, but I was no longer able to act comfortably when seeing her.
I decided to save my paper delivery money, and in three weeks I had the seven dollars that I thought would cover the cost of her window. I put the money in an envelope with a note saying that I was sorry for breaking her window and hoped that the seven dollars would cover the cost of repairing it.
The next day, I handed the old lady her paper. She thanked me for the paper and gave me a bag of biscuits she had made herself. I thanked her and ate the biscuits as I continued my route.
After several biscuits, I felt an envelope and pulled it out of the bag. When I opened the envelope, I was shocked. Inside were the seven dollars and a short note that said, “I’m proud of you.”
1. What work did the author do at the age of 12?A.Collecting old papers. |
B.Delivering newspapers. |
C.Picking rocks. |
D.Repairing roofs. |
A.They broke the old lady’s back door. |
B.They heard the old lady shouting. |
C.They broke the old lady’s window. |
D.They were seen by the old lady. |
A.He saved some money to cover the cost. |
B.He gave the old lady papers for free. |
C.He apologized in the old lady’s presence. |
D.He bought cookies for the old lady. |
A.strict | B.patient | C.mean | D.generous |
6 . If someone kindly introduces you to someone in their network or connects you with someone they think you should know by email, here are the steps to politely and effectively send your email response.
Respond immediately
Since you are the one being introduced by a colleague, probably because you requested an introduction, then you will be the one to respond first and as soon as possible.
If you haven't already researched the person you are being introduced to, now is the time to do it.It's also good to see if they've posted any updates on social media that may provide insight (洞察力)into what projects they are working on or what they are talking about on social media.
Say thanks for the introduction
Definitely show your gratitude to the person for their introduction.
Pay attention to your request
When gathering information from the person you' ve been introduced to, be very clear about the information you are looking for. Don't say you are looking to“pick their brain" or“learn about their career path."
A.Research before you respond |
B.So you can refer to that in your reply |
C.Send your response timely with two goals |
D.There are many ways to ask your questions |
E.These are too broad and may scare the person off |
F.It's polite to express appreciation to senders in person |
G.It's a big deal to take the time to make an introduction for you |
7 . Office Manners
Be punctual. As a newcomer, you should arrive early, not just on the first day and don’t be the first to leave at the end of the day.
Respect other people’s privacy. Knock before you enter someone’s office and do not read any correspondence lying on somebody’s desk. If you need to discuss a private matter with a colleague, make sure nobody else can overhear you.
Be neat and clean.
Don’t disturb others. Always apologize if you interrupt a discussion, someone’s concentration or other activities. Be aware of how loudly you may be speaking. If people in other offices comment on your conversations, perhaps your voice is too loud.
In short, office manners are about being respectful and polite in the office. It is an essential part of growing professionally and becoming a more mature person in the business world.
A.Be considerate. |
B.Be polite to everyone. |
C.Don’t be late for any appointment. |
D.Show appreciation for any help offered to you. |
E.Personal issues should not be made into a public topic. |
F.You should either close your office door or lower your voice. |
G.Take a shower regularly and wear appropriate office clothes. |
8 . Getting along with people can be tough.
Accept human nature.
Humans make mistakes. People aren’t always nice. They also have all of the problems that you have in your life.
People are all very different: that’s what makes life interesting. And just like people are all different, the world is also very complex. Every situation is different, always. Just because someone doesn’t make the choice that you would make or just because they take a less efficient or smart path to get where they’re going doesn’t make them wrong.
Practice forgiveness.
Do something together.
A.Think about what your words really say. |
B.Respect that there are lots of valid choices. |
C.The following are some suggestions that can help you in some way. |
D.Everyone is dealing with their own set of problems. |
E.Doing things together is a great way to bond with people and make friends. |
F.Forgive people when they do make mistakes. |
G.Even when someone’s making you mad, thank them for their effort to help or their suggestions. |
1. What was the relationship between the woman and Jim in the past?
A.Relatives. | B.Classmates. | C.Co-workers. |
A.A film actress. | B.An art director. | C.A magazine editor. |
10 . In the days before air conditioning, a wife and her husband were visiting her parents in a small town. As they were relaxing one day, the wife’s father suggested that they all drive to Abilene for dinner. The son-in-law dreaded the hot drive to a town 53 miles away, but said OK to avoid being a rude guest. The wife and mother-in-law both said it sounded good, so they went off.
Having the not very good food and returning home hot and sweaty, the mother-in-law said they would never have taken the terrible trip if it had been up to her. The son-in-law said that he chose to agree because the others wanted to go. Finally, the father-in-law said he only suggested it because he thought the younger couple might be bored at home.
This story happened to Jerry B. Harvey who later became a university professor. In 1974 he told it in an article entitled, “The Abilene Paradox (悖论): The Management of Agreement”, which shows that sometimes a consensus (一致) of opinion may not lead to achieving the desired result. The Abilene paradox sounds like groupthink. But in fact, groupthink members are voting according to their conscience (是非感) while Abilene “paradoxers” are not.
Going along to get along arises from a desire to avoid conflict and unwillingness to be seen as the “spoiler” who criticizes ideas and plans that others favor. The choice to go against one’s conscience to please the group produces cognitive dissonance (认识失调), and could involve personal risk to relationships or career or both.
The only way for either groupthink or the Abilene paradox in planning or decision-making situations is to avoid agreeing publicly with something you disagree with privately. You can’t control what others in the group do, but at least you can speak up, “I’ll go if everyone else wants to, but I’d be just happy to stay here and relax”.
1. What do we know about the son-in-law?A.He was good at pleasing others. | B.He didn’t want to take the trip. |
C.He behaved badly during the visit. | D.He was treated as an honored guest. |
A.She helped the family make a decision. | B.She suggested taking some food along. |
C.She had an argument with her family. | D.She made a complaint about the trip. |
A.It is difficult to make a balance. |
B.It is impossible to avoid a conflict. |
C.It is unnecessary to satisfy everyone. |
D.It is impolite to blame a person publicly. |
A.A man should find right ways to relax. |
B.A man should consider others’ ideas deeply. |
C.A man should actively participate in group discussions. |
D.A man should express himself directly in decision-making. |