1 . For making contact and communicating with a person, effective eye contact is essential to our everyday interaction with people, and also to those who want to be effective communicators in public places.
Generally in Western societies and many other cultures, eye contact with a person is expected to be regular but not overly persistent.
Overly lasting eye contact is also a sign of a person’s over-awareness of the messages they are giving. In the case of people who try to lie to someone, they may distort (扭曲) their eye contact so that they’re not avoiding it.
However, Scotland’s University of Stirling found that, in a question-and-answer study among children, those who maintained eye contact were less likely to come up with the correct answer to a question than those who looked away to consider their response.
A.This is a widely recognized indicator of lying |
B.Constant eye contact is often considered to be rude |
C.Eye contact is the act of looking into someone’s eyes |
D.But there’s something you may not know about eye contact |
E.Overpowering eye contact can make the other person excited |
F.Even between humans and non-humans, lasting eye contact is sometimes unadvisable |
G.Eye contact, as a socializing device, can take a surprising amount of effort to maintain |
2 . We all know at least one person shows confidence and grace (优雅) without working at it.
Slouching (佝背)
Slouching is a huge no-no.
Weak Handshaking
It’s programmed in our minds to consider somebody with a weak handshake as untrustworthy. Unfortunately, there’s no way around it—you either have a firm handshake and appear trustworthy or you don’t. It’s not a good idea to have a crushing (太用力的) handshake, either.
Rolling Your Eyes
This is the classic way of showing discomfort or anger.
Leaning (倾斜) Back
A.So try to stand straight |
B.If you want your body to make the same impression |
C.Sitting backward a bit can be good for your conversation |
D.All cultures are different in terms of proper social conduct |
E.But it’s one of the most commonly made body- language errors |
F.It can feel good to respond to a silly statement by rolling your eyes |
G.You can respond with similar amount of pressure that your shaking partner gives |
3 . When we talk more broadly of body language, rather than good postures, we can actually see the effects it has on relationships right throughout the animal kingdom. In particular, body language is used to express power through expansive (扩张的) postures.
You might know about Amy Cuddy’s famous Ted Talk and her incredible insights on how posture changes our thoughts. Cuddy and her team study body language, particularly what they call “high-power” and “low-power” poses.
“High-power” poses refer to the act of taking a posture of confidence, which can help you feel more self-confident, even after only two minutes. Typical high-power poses are about opening up. You stretch and expand your body to take up as much space as possible. For example, bosses are doing high-power poses when they lean back in their chairs, put their hands behind their heads, and kick their feet up onto their desks. Meanwhile, people take low-power positions when they’re feeling helpless or defeated. They close up, arms around themselves, taking up the smallest space.
Some even more recent studies took this even further: A study by researchers from Columbia and Harvard Universities showed that body language symbolizing power can actually affect our decision-making, unintentionally. The researchers measured the desire for risk of participants in either expansive, powerful poses or constricted (收缩的) poses. Those in the powerful poses not only felt more powerful and in control, but were 45% more likely to take risky actions.
“This isn’t about what your body language is communicating to others; it’s about what your body language is communicating to you. Your body language is changing your mind, which changes your behavior, which changes your outcomes,” said Cuddy.
So if you want to take advantage of the benefits of these poses to live a healthier and happier life, where should you start?
1. Which is probably a low-power pose according to the text?A.Sitting with hands crossed in the lap. |
B.Arms raised in a “V” above the head. |
C.Standing with your legs open. |
D.Sitting with your arms spreading out on the chair. |
A.They are hesitant. | B.They are very shy. |
C.They feel out of control. | D.They feel more confident. |
A.The posture of confidence. | B.Cuddy’s research on behavior. |
C.The surprising power of body language. | D.The research about decision-making. |
A.How to correct bad habits. | B.How to improve your body language. |
C.How posture affects your health. | D.Why good posture matters for employees. |
4 . Language is a part of culture and plays a very important role in it.
Different cultures have different ways of using nonverbal communication and people have different gestures to convey their expressions. However, nonverbal communication, like traffic, is not random (随意的);it has a purpose.
People coming from the same culture share common understanding by using the same body language such as eye management, facial expressions, gestures, and body movements.
A.Misuse of body language can be unpleasant. |
B.And there are common rules to guide its flow. |
C.Without language, culture would not be possible. |
D.Body language makes up the largest part of our nonverbal communication. |
E.But in different cultures nonverbal communication takes on different patterns. |
F.If you’ re learning a new language, a great way is to watch movies and TV shows. |
G.In Africa, standing in a too “open” fashion, means that your posture might be inappropriate. |
5 . Body language is the most secret and powerful language of all! It speaks
Body language is particularly
Clearly, a great deal is going on when people
A.straighter | B.louder | C.harder | D.further |
A.hope | B.receive | C.discover | D.mean |
A.immediate | B.misleading | C.important | D.difficult |
A.well | B.far | C.much | D.long |
A.For example | B.Thus | C.However | D.In short |
A.trade | B.distance | C.connections | D.greetings |
A.strangers | B.relatives | C.neighbours | D.enemies |
A.in other words | B.on the other hand | C.in a similar way | D.by all means |
A.disturbing | B.helping | C.guiding | D.following |
A.closer | B.faster | C.further | D.shorter |
A.stepping forward | B.going on | C.backing away | D.coming out |
A.talk | B.travel | C.laugh | D.think |
A.different | B.appropriate | C.internal | D.fake |
A.curiosity | B.excitement | C.misunderstanding | D.nervousness |
A.chance | B.time | C.result | D.advice |
Body language is an important part of
If you want
7 . I visited my best friend Sean, whose mom, Cheryl could only communicate by her gesture I couldn’t understand. I felt
Then I went to see Sean several times. Each time I entered her house, my mind flooded with guilt and anxiety. I always needed someone to
That night I saw that look of
I could see
Within three weeks I had learned
About a month ago, Cheryl, Sean, my dad, and I took a trip to California State University, Northridge, where I would study. As we sat in the deaf student advisor’s office, no one
I left the university and felt so
That night Cheryl and I sat in our hotel room; she
A.pleased | B.interested | C.relieved | D.embarrassed |
A.lead | B.point | C.explain | D.expose |
A.hope | B.approval | C.satisfaction | D.loneliness |
A.leave | B.learn | C.check | D.escape |
A.pleasure | B.anger | C.disappointment | D.sadness |
A.grew | B.cared | C.changed | D.reserved |
A.advanced | B.entire | C.skillful | D.basic |
A.conversation | B.belief | C.instruction | D.task |
A.signed | B.admitted | C.talked | D.apologized |
A.translated | B.repeated | C.interrupted | D.occurred |
A.permission | B.regulation | C.education | D.suggestion |
A.shocked | B.excited | C.upset | D.worried |
A.will | B.promise | C.turn | D.inability |
A.set out | B.worked out | C.reached out | D.moved out |
A.finished | B.admitted | C.understood | D.refused |
8 . Language studies traditionally have paid much attention to verbal and written language. But recently they have begun to consider language without
In some
One study showed that 93 percent of the
Nonverbal communication expresses
What is acceptable in one culture may be completely unacceptable in another. In order to correctly interpret another culture’s style of communication, it is necessary to study the “silent language” of that culture.
1.A.hearing | B.learning | C.words | D.records |
A.skills | B.behaviors | C.tests | D.measures |
A.partly | B.independently | C.temporarily | D.frankly |
A.official | B.native | C.common | D.spoken |
A.unconsciously | B.secretly | C.uncommonly | D.particularly |
A.communication | B.question | C.competition | D.description |
A.guess | B.believe | C.know | D.help |
A.debate on | B.regard to | C.forget about | D.deal with |
A.started | B.continued | C.required | D.stopped |
A.patience | B.reflection | C.attention | D.silence |
A.body | B.impression | C.message | D.decision |
A.life | B.voice | C.respect | D.music |
A.appropriate | B.desirable | C.apparent | D.vital |
A.meaning | B.purpose | C.value | D.truth |
A.positive | B.practical | C.different | D.similar |
While Arabic may be the official language of many Middle Eastern
Placing your right hand on your heart is a warm greeting that can
Once you fall into conversation, there are several
In addition
So, while you’re learning Arabic words like “shukran” (thank you) and “masalamah” (goodbye), remember there are other ways to communicate and make yourself feel a part of
10 . Do you know that you can instantly change your state of mind just by smiling? Science has shown that when we produce a smile, our brain releases feel-good hormones (荷尔蒙) that reduce stress. You’ve already experienced the effects of smiling and laughing with friends and family — it’s an instant, free and joyful action.
In a study, scientists Tara Kraft and Sarah Pressman studied 170 participants who were taught to hold chopsticks in their mouths in three different ways, making them smile to various degrees, while performing a stressful task. The experiment revealed that subjects whose facial muscles were forced into the biggest smiles, due to the chopsticks, experienced a substantial reduction in their heart rate along with quicker stress recovery.
Have you ever smiled at someone and not received a smile back? It may have happened a handful of times, but it’s usually the exception, not the rule.
If you were waiting in line for a coffee and you could choose between a smiling server and one with a neutral expression on their face, who would you pick to take your order?
Whenever you find yourself in a stressful situation, be sure to smile.
A.Most of us would feel drawn to the smiling server. |
B.However, there is always someone who will break the rule. |
C.Most people can’t help smiling back at you, even if it’s just to be polite. |
D.The real message of this article is that you have the power to change your state of mind. |
E.As Victor Hugo once said, “Laughter is the sun that drives winter from the human face.” |
F.It won’t instantly change your situation, but it absolutely will change how you feel about it. |
G.Once you discover the science of how smiling improves your mood, you’ ll be smiling all the time. |