During the month of September, a dear friend of mine lost her husband suddenly in an accident. This accident was sudden and certainly unexpected. We sometimes take our love ones for granted, and we expect that they will be with us forever. However, as we all know, life does not work that way and sometimes we get a wakeup call that shocks us and realize how short life is.
In comforting her, I tried to imagine if I was in her shoes how I would feel. It was impossible to imagine what she was going through. What words do I say to help her? Sometimes words just cannot express our feelings. Sometimes our actions are much more meaningful than words. A hug can sometimes express more than our words will ever express. Sometimes, just being there to listen is more meaningful and helpful to people.
As I was leaving the funeral parlor(殡仪馆), I ran into Marilyn. She is one of those friends who is with you in the good times and is always by your side in the bed times. She has a sense of humor that makes everyone feel at ease. We chatted for a few moments, and then she asked me how my job was. I was telling her I was having a stressful week with my job. She listened to me, then without saying a word, she took her hands and placed them on my face, and said to me, "But at least you have a day."
Since that day, when I start feeling stressed, I remind myself of Marilyn's words --- but at least I have a day! Things could be a lot worse, but I am alive and I have a lot to be thankful for ----- so I shall not waste my days with stress and frustrations(挫折) ------- life is too short.
1. The author was most likely to comfort her friend by ______ .A.saying many kind words to her friend | B.imagining how sad her friend was |
C.listening to her friend sincerely | D.going through a lot of troubles |
A.strong, honest and clever | B.positive, helpful and humorous |
C.lucky, active and determined | D.wealthy, noble and friendly |
A.a day is long enough or you |
B.you will die soon after the day |
C.life is really too short for all of us |
D.you are still alive and should be grateful |
A.has thought highly of Marilyn | B.has valued her life quite a lot |
C.has met with many difficulties | D.has enjoyed stress and troubles |
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【推荐1】My grandmother could communicate to us only in Mandarin. A few phrase in Mandarin are particularly vivid to me. Mamahuhu is the most striking of all, which means “so-so” .
Mamahuhu became a family joke for me and my siblings. At first we found the concept funny and the sound of it, too. Sometimes my brother and I sang the string of vowels, hosting the “hu” like owls before bursting into laughter. But as we grew older, we realized mamahuhu also described our family.
My parents and my grandmother could be precise when it mattered. For example, my mother is a re i red plant physiologist. Her research led to multiple patents related to improving plant growth and food safety. But when she helped me on an elementary-school project, she used steamed rice instead of a glue stick. My paper crown fell apart in class. The mamahuhu attitude sometimes embarrassed me, But it also taught me not to get hung up on mainstream ideals of perfection.
Out of a sense of pride, my siblings and I transformed mamahuhu from an ordinary adjective into an ethos(精神特质). It’s the philosophy behind my brother’s repairs around the house or on vehicle: “So-so, good enough,” he told me. “Because most of the time, that’s all that’s needed.” Growing up, I talked about mamahuhu only at home. But lately, as elements of Chinese culture have spread throughout the world, I realize my family isn’t alone in our affection for the term. Various accounts on TikTok, Twitter and Instagram use the word in their names; it’s also an entry in the Urban Dictionary.
It’s our family practice to make do, and as the pandemic set in, the philosophy helped us survive. With this clear-eyed worldview, my 10-year-olds don’t rely on tradition or precedence (优先权)as their only guide. Last summer our family considered visiting Hawaii, and again for spring break earlier this year, but we’ve repeatedly postponed the vacation because of the pandemic. In the end, we settled for a road trip to Southern California to see their grandparents and baby cousin. I asked the boys if they were excited. “This trip is mamahuhu,” one joked. Everyone laughed.
1. How did the author find Mamahuhu at the beginning?A.Embarrassing. | B.Funny. | C.Understandable. | D.unusual. |
A.To show that his family can be precise. | B.To tell funny stories of both his parents, |
C.To note how mamahuhu described his family. | D.To clarify the differences between family members. |
A.To accept imperfection. | B.To rely on tradition. |
C.To take pride in their Asian origin. | D.To avoid being affected by other cultures. |
A.The author’s family were always easily satisfied. |
B.The author’s children didn’t depend on precedence. |
C.The term of mamahuhu has been spread worldwide. |
D.The mamahuhu philosophy helped the author survive. |
【推荐2】Farming is a tradition among many in South Dakota, one that is not always easy to keep in the family. But one family has survived four generations and hopes to continue long into the future.
The year was 1933 when Ed VanderWal’s father first stepped onto the farm. Now 80 years later, Ed carries the passion his father gave him for farming every day while working the fields on the family farm in Volga.
“Well, I was in the first grade when my dad moved here to this farm and I grew up on the farm. And that's what I was interested in doing more,” Ed said. But that love of working the land didn't stop with Ed. He’s passed it down to his six sons. Some of them run farms of their own now, but two of them, Scott and David, still work side by side with their dad every day.
Some people might worry that working sun up to sun down with family seven days a week would lead to a few family spats. But for the VanderWals, the constant time together works just fine.
“When families work together on a farm, it’s a challenge at times getting along. Everyone has to pull their weight and do their share. And that, of course, transfers from one generation to the next,” Scott said.
And while they all get along like any family, with good days and bad, it's tradition that keeps each generation teaching the next.
“But we taught them to work with animals at a young age, like most farmers do. So it’s nice to be able to pass that tradition onto the next generation,” Scott said.
The youngest generation of the VandcrWals, Ed’s three grandsons and a granddaughter, all started learning farming techniques at a young age.
1. Why did Ed VanderWal devote himself to the farm?A.Because he grew up on the farm. |
B.Because he was affected by his father. |
C.Because he could do nothing but work on the farm. |
D.Because he wanted to set a good example for his sons. |
A.Panics. | B.Shifts. | C.Quarrels. | D.Blames. |
A.Ed’s farms have no lack of successors (继承者). |
B.The VariderWals have strict family rules. |
C.Ed’s tradition has great effect on the local. |
D.Ed’s grandchildren will drop out of school. |
A.A farming family. | B.A successful farmer. |
C.The agricultural generation. | D.The agricultural tradition. |
【推荐3】In 1959, Handler changed how toy dolls were made when she introduced “Barbie” to the world. With her mature figure, Barbie was one of the first “grown-up” dolls to hit the retail market.
Handler wanted to create a toy that was different from the baby dolls that dominated little girls’ toy boxes. She wanted a doll that girls could project their future dreams upon and allowed for limitless clothing and career choices. Inspired by paper dolls of the time, Handler, to much disagreement, made sure Barbie had the body of a grown woman.
“My own philosophy of Barbie,” Handler wrote in her autobiography, “was that through the doll, the little girl could be anything she wanted to be. Barbie always represented the fact that a woman had choices.”
There’s even a Barbie for cancer patients — Brave Barbie — a partnership between Mattel and CureSearch that sends a bald (光头的) Barbie to families affected by cancer. “Gifting my daughter a Barbie who suffered from cancer was tremendous,” Michelle, a cancer survivor said, “We would play with that Barbie together and I’d heartbreakingly watch her pretend to take the doll to the hospital for chemo (化疗), or place its long wig on top of its head and tell the doll ‘It’s time to be beautiful again.’”
Bald Barbie was super brave and went on awesome adventures after chemo. Sometimes she felt sick and needed to sleep, but would feel much better after a rest. Bald Barbie always beat the cancer and went on to live a long and happy life with her family. That Barbie became so much more than a plastic doll — she was a means of communication and a coping mechanism during an extremely distressing time for little families.
1. Why did Handler create Barbie?A.To make a hit in the retail market. | B.To appeal to girls with her diverse outfits. |
C.To do a project on women’s career choices. | D.To inspire girls to make choices as they wish. |
A.Sad yet comforted. | B.Envious yet proud. |
C.Overwhelmed and ashamed. | D.Heartbroken and regretful. |
A.A reliable emotional support. | B.A glue for broken relationships. |
C.An effective practical treatment. | D.A secret medium of negotiation. |
A.A medical journal. | B.A charity brochure. |
C.A financial report. | D.A story collection. |
【推荐1】Most of us have original stories in which our hobby comes from or how it becomes a job we love to do. Here's my story. It all started when I lived in California. I was exposed to graffiti(涂鸦) written on buildings and walls almost everywhere. But I thought that I could draw much more characters and fun things with my pen than what could be created by graffiti. However, it was there growing and creeping(渐渐出现) into my life one day.
As I was older, I moved to St. Louis and saw the graffiti all over downtown. I was very curious as to how it got onto the walls. I happened to see a movie called ‘Breakin’, where I learned graffiti is one of the four elements of hip-hop and first saw how it was written with spray paint. Since that, I have been totally immersed into it and wanted to try it by myself.
I set about learning how to draw letters and make them look fashionable as what I saw on the walls in St. Louis. I practiced drawing my name and other people's names in bubble letters, which was the first step of learning how to write graffiti, essentially. By the end of middle school, I was ready to go out to write on the walls, but it turned out unsatisfactory. Then I learned my craft and the structure of graffiti from a real graffiti writer. I also met more minded-like people who became my good friends afterwards. We wrote graffiti for the first time on stock cans and then found walls to write on. Later on, we discovered a graffiti yard where we could practice.
It was one of the best things that ever happened to me. From there, we found our way to our career. Over 20 years later, we're still engaged in our craft and enjoying every second of writing. It just goes to show that something we love can be our lifestyle.
1. What did the author think of graffiti at first?A.It didn’t look real. |
B.It was out of date. |
C.It was limited in contents. |
D.It damaged the public space. |
A.It helped him write graffiti well. |
B.It inspired his interest in graffiti. |
C.It was very popular in St. Louis. |
D.It promoted graffiti to become a hit. |
A.His friendship with others. |
B.His achievement in graffiti. |
C.His gratitude to his teacher. |
D.His learning to write graffiti. |
A.My path to a graffiti writer |
B.St. Louis, where my career began |
C.Graffiti, a new fashion in the US |
D.My childhood memory about graffiti |
【推荐2】Imagine that you’re rock climbing and you really want to reach the top. And you know you can get to the top. However, you’re having a hard time getting there because all you can do is look at the ground below you.
I don’t rock climb. However, recently I have been reflecting on how in so many areas of my life, I easily think about the vision and rarely think about what failure looks like.
Maybe you’re so focused on not going broke (破产的) that you’re not putting energy into creating wealth. Maybe you’re so fearful of not failing in the exam that you’re not taking action to change the situation. Maybe you can’t stand the thought of being unemployed, so you never take the risk to fully love your work.
Take a moment to think about where you’re stuck in the middle because you don’t want to “go down”. Take those times and reframe the way you think of those things in your life.
A.As a result, I get stuck there. |
B.I move toward that vision with ease. |
C.Live for love, abundance, joy, and wellness. |
D.I don’t have the time or energy to get better. |
E.You don’t want your feet to slip off the rocks. |
F.These are various things we probably face in our life. |
G.All of your energy is focused on everything beneath you. |
【推荐3】My boss recently asked me, “Do you know why I hired you? Because you didn’t sell yourself. You didn’t tell me, ‘Look how experienced I am.’ You emailed me and said, ‘I researched your website and saw how many amazing vets (兽医) you have, and I want to learn from them,’ and that’s why I hired you. You showed vulnerability (弱点).”
So, what is vulnerability? For me, vulnerability means putting your fear of embarrassment aside and allowing personal growth. I believe vulnerability is a pathway to success. Vulnerability has traditionally been viewed as a weakness in the workplace. The very thought of exposing your weaknesses is terrifying. However, we can change the views surrounding it.
After graduation, I started working in a clinic where I thought I would have support. However, I didn’t have the help I required. I quickly became exhausted. Within 18 months, I didn’t want to work there anymore.
During this period, I realized without the support I wanted, I was potentially making mistakes I wasn’t even aware of. Was I treating patients effectively? I wouldn’t know, because I had no one to ask or help.
I decided to be vulnerable. I accepted that I was unhappy, living with poor mental health and lacking important knowledge. I wanted to find somewhere I’d be able to continue building my knowledge, not as an average vet, but as a good one. After two and a half years, I have finally found a place where I get the support I need.
My point is: don’t stay where you are unhappy. Be vulnerable and have the courage to accept when you’re unhappy. Find somewhere that will support you and push you to do better. Vulnerability shouldn’t be considered a weakness because it allows personal growth. Being vulnerable is the ability to show people that you are human.
1. Why did the author’s boss hire her?A.She was experienced. |
B.She researched the website. |
C.She spoke highly of herself. |
D.She was honest about her weakness. |
A.A fear of embarrassment. |
B.A pathway to success. |
C.A way to personal growth. |
D.A weakness in the workplace. |
A.Because she was tired and unhappy. |
B.Because she made mistakes. |
C.Because she needed support but couldn’t get. |
D.Because she wanted a new workplace. |
A.Necessary. | B.Foolish. | C.Normal. | D.Embarrassing. |
【推荐1】In the 1950s, Japan began to focus on developing is economy. Every day, many people traveled by train between Tokyo and Osaka. Many industrial materials were also transported on those railway lines. But the Japanese railway system was so outdated that the 320-mile trip could take 20 hours. So in 1955 the Japanese railway chief asked the nation’s engineers to create a faster train.
Months later, a team managed to create a train going at a speed of 65mph — a speed that made it one of the fastest passenger trains worldwide at the time. But the railway chief wasn’t satisfied. He wanted 120mph. The engineers immediately explained that at those speeds, if a train turned too sharply, the speed would force the cars off the track.
But the railway chief didn’t change his mind. After making many attempts, the engineers eventually created a train running up to 120mph and had a big influence on the industrial design worldwide. This is an example of what a “stretch goal” (延展性目标) can achieve. When exploring psychology, I was frequently told by researchers that the most successful people tend to set goals differently from everyone else. In particular they tend to identify big, seemingly unrealistic objectives.
“Stretch goals break complacency (自满),” some scientists wrote. “By forcing a big rise in collective hopes, stretch goals can shift attention to possible new futures and perhaps lead to increased energy in the organizations. They thus can achieve more.”
This lesson can be used in the most ordinary aspects of life. Take to-do lists for instance. When making to-do lists, some people often write down tasks they can cross off right away. That’s wrong. Before writing easy tasks, you should first put down at the top of your list a big stretch goal that will constantly remind you of the main objective you’re trying to get done.
1. What does the description of Japan’s problem in the 1950s show?A.The public’s discontent at its train service. |
B.The unfavorable economic situation of Japan. |
C.The practical need to improve its railway system. |
D.The unbalanced development of its transportation. |
A.They found it tough but worthwhile. |
B.They considered it totally unrealistic. |
C.They put forward their own research plan. |
D.They believed it would gradually come true. |
A.How to break down big goals into smaller ones. |
B.How to understand “stretch goals” matters. |
C.How to create success step by step. |
D.How to set goals sets people apart. |
A.encourage people to keep making to-do lists daily |
B.indicate we’d better first achieve easy goals |
C.prove to-do lists are crucial to organizations |
D.show stretch goals can apply to our daily life |
A.A stretch goal can be a double-edged sword. |
B.Ambition pushes personal and social progress. |
C.Readers need to listen to members’ opinions. |
D.Goals should fit in with the reality. |
【推荐2】A fashion show that features elderly people as models is a rarity. One with elderly Black African models is even rarer. Perhaps that’s why Nigerian visual artist Malik Afegbua got so much attention from around the world when he posted images titled “The Elders Series” on social media last month showing seniors on a fashion runway, dressed in stylish and colorful clothes.
“The inspiration behind this series was my mum,” explained Afegbua, 38. “She had a stroke(中风), and I am very close to her. I just needed an outlet to find a way to express myself and not think about her on a life-support machine. I wanted to think about her in a happy place.”
But what’s truly remarkable about the images is that the ground-breaking fashion show never actually took place. While the images look like photographs of a genuine vent, they were entirely generated by artificial intelligence (AI).
“The Eiders Series” is an extension of other projects that Afegbua has created through AI. He uses the AI Platform Midjourney, which generates images in response to text prompts (提示). Afegbua says he experiments with different phases, refining his search terms until he gets an image he likes, and then edits it in Photoshop-repeating the process until he achieves the effect he’s looking for.
Afegbua believes AI can be a powerful tool for the arts-film and television in particular. “It’s here to say...it’s going to advance and it’s going to get better,” he said. But he says the role of a human creator is still key. “AI is not All. It can’t think by itself. There is always s human being behind it-to put things in motion,” he added.
1. Why did Afegbua create “The Elders Series”?A.To raise money for his mom in hospital. | B.To express his sadness in a positive way. |
C.To call on people to care for the seniors. | D.To earn money to buy a life support machine. |
A.Their production method. | B.Their pretty models. |
C.Their shooting location. | D.Their photographer. |
A.What the AI platform Midjourney is. | B.Why “The Elders Series” is so popular. |
C.Why AI performs better than man. | D.How Afegbun uses AI to create artworks. |
A.Human creators are to be replaced. | B.AI can be used as tools only in art. |
C.AI just plays an assisting role in art creation. | D.AI has advanced to the highest level. |
【推荐3】As a child, I was really afraid of the dark and of getting lost. These fears were very real and caused me some uncomfortable moments. Maybe it was the strange way things looked and sounded in my own room at night that scared me so much. There was never complete darkness, but always a streetlight or passing car lights, which made clothes on the back of a chair take on the shape of a wild animal. Out of the corner of my eye, I saw the curtains seem to move when there was no wind. A very low sound in the floor would seem a hundred times louder than in the day. My imagination would run wild, and my heart would beat fast. I would lie very still so that the “enemy” would not discover me.
Another of my childhood fears was that I would get lost, especially on the way home from school. Every morning I got on the school bus right near my home. That was no problem. After school, though, when all the buses were lined up along the street, I was afraid that I would get in the wrong one and be taken to some other strange places. On school or family trips to a park or a museum, I wouldn’t let the leaders out of my sight.
Perhaps one of the worst fears of all I had as a child was that of not being liked or accepted by others. Being popular was so important to me then, and the fear of not being liked was a serious one.
One of the processes growing up is being able to realize and overcome our fears. Understanding the things that scared us as children helps us achieve greater success later in life.
1. The author had _______ kind(s) of fears when she was a child.A.One | B.two | C.three | D.none |
A.Streetlight and car lights | B.Wild animals and enemies |
C.Moving curtains and wind | D.Clothes and walls |
A.walk away without others | B.take a bus by herself |
C.follow others closely | D.make sure not to take a wrong bus |
A.She thought being popular among people was important. |
B.She was always the leader of the others. |
C.She always got poor grades. |
D.She was not liked by others at all. |
【推荐1】One August day this past summer, Richard Phibbs was taking photos of Hollywood's hottest couple, Michael Fassbender and Alicia Vikander. The next day,he was sprawling(趴)on the floor of a 6-by-6-foot animal-examination room at the Humane Society of New York(HSNY),photographing dozens of homeless animals for free.
For the past four years, Phibbs,famous for photographing celebrities,has photographed more than 360 rescued dogs,cats and other animals at the Humane Society in hopes of helping them find loving homes forever. Now 63 of those portraits are featured in a new book Rescue Me,detailing animal's miserable past and their new lives in New York City.
"I was longing lo take a picture that does something more than sell clothes or sell a career, " Phibbs tells The Post. "In fashion,we're trying to make up fantasy and dreams. When I'm at the Humane Society, I use photography to speak the truth. When people look into the eyes of that animal,the spirit of that being is there. "And his photos work. The animals whose portraits are taken by Phibbs see a much higher adoption rate than others at HSNY,thanks not only to the photographs themselves but also to their high share-rate on social media.
"Without doubt, "says Sandra Dereo, HSNY's executive director. "When we post one of his photos on Instagram or Adopt-a-Pet,it's like a flood. All of these people suddenly notice the animal. "
The photo shoots last anywhere from 5 to 45 minutes,and Phibbs will see dozens of animals in a single day. Each of his subjects is given time to adjust to his or her surroundings,so that they open up and let their personalities shine.
Whether it's a human or animal, I'm trying to get the subject to feel safe and to feel confident and comfortable with me, "the photographer says. "We're looking for that spirit,what makes them different. "While Phibbs may not spend hours with each animal,many of them still have a strong impact(影响)on him. "It's not uncommon for me to walk home,and weep the whole way. "
1. What organization is the Humane Society of New York?A.A fashion photo studio. | B.A shelter for the homeless |
C.An animal welfare agency. . | D.A hospital for human beings. |
A.They contribute to animal adoptions. |
B.They attract the celebrities 'attentions |
C.They help dogs to find the way home. |
D.They increase share-rate on social media. |
A.uses them lo Tell the true story |
B.always adjusts lo his surroundings |
C.likes to look into the eyes of animals |
D.emphasizes the characters of animals |
A.He has lo walk home |
B.He feels pity for the animals. |
C.He has adopted too many pets. |
D.He is uncomfortable with the animals. |
【推荐2】There are many ways to travel within a city. We can walk, cycle, or take a bus. But no matter which way we travel, we have to stick to the route(线路) the city planners laid down for us.
Parkour practitioners (跑酷爱好者), however, see the city in a completely different way. To them, there are no fixed routes. There are no walls and no stairs—since they jump, climb, roll and crawl to move across, through, over and under anything that they find in their path. The city is their playground.
The International Gymnastics Federation (FIG) has noticed that this activity is drawing more and more people to it—there are 100,000 people taking part in parkour today in the UK alone, according to the Guardian—and how it is helpful for people to be much stronger: It trains coordination(协调性) and balance. So the organization is thinking about recognizing parkour as a new sport and adding it to the Olympics by 2024.
But parkour practitioners themselves don’t seem to be happy with the idea. They see parkour as “a lifestyle”, wrote the website NextSportStar. “It’s a competition against the conditions rather than just a sport.”
Indeed, many do parkour just to “escape the daily routine(事务) and experience the city in different ways”, wrote reporter Oli Mould on The Conversation. They see parkour as a way to express themselves through relaxing moves and creative routes while freeing themselves from the pressure.
It’s great that the FIG wants to develop new sport and stay close to a new cultural form. But it would be greater if they knew that not everything in life is a competition.
1. How do the parkour practitioners do parkour?A.They move on as they wish. | B.They choose the routes the city planners laid down. |
C.They run faster than others. | D.They stick to certain routes. |
A.It’s a special way of life. | B.It draws their attention. |
C.It’s good for people to keep healthy. | D.It needs some rules and instructions. |
A.It is more formal than other sports. | B.It helps people to be creative. |
C.It’s worth adding to the sporting event. | D.It calls on people to work as a team. |
A.A new sports competition | B.Parkour practitioners |
C.Training in a different way | D.Making the city their own |
【推荐3】At least three times a week. Louise and David Sample prepare three-course meals in their home and then give them away.
Louise prepares the meats the night before she cooks them. Vegetables matter, too.She once spent an entire Saturday cooking greens. Each “regular”(which is how the couple refers to those their meals are intended for) gets a fresh salad. This means David needs to shop multiple times a week.Together the couple prepare,cook,clean, package,and deliver containers full of food to their neighbors in need.
“They're always making food for people,making sure everybody is taken care of,always giving,said Sha’Laina,35. “It’s just something they do.”The Samples, who are retired(退休的),say it’s no big deal spending hundreds of dollars and unknown hours each month in service to others.
Louise got a dangerous cancer in November 2018, and there were moments when those around her worried she wouldn't make it. Last year on Valentine's Day, she was very sick. But right up until she received her operation last August at Albert Einstein Medical Center, she made food for the regulars and for every employee who took care of her. “I was cooking the night before my transplant (移植).David took me to the seventh floor of the hospital” —to her patient room—“then took the food to them,’’she said. Even during her post-transplant hospital stay, Louise found a way to help others. Shekel separate the untouched food from her meal, and give it to David to take home. “We’d give it to the regulars,so she didn’t have to waste it,” said David.
Two months after leaving the hospital, Louise was back in the kitchen.“When someone goes through something traumatic (创伤的),continuing any part of your life where you know what you're doing is very beneficial. It puts you in a place where you're in control,’David said. “She loves cooking. Just doing it gave her part of her life back.”
1. What is mainly talked about in Paragraph 2?A.The couple went shopping a lot. |
B.It takes great effort to prepare the food. |
C.The meals from the couple are well balanced. |
D.The couple take good care of their neighbors. |
A.They are fond of giving. | B.They are good at treating strangers. |
C.They are exhausted from the cooking. | D.They prefer serving others to cooking. |
A.was too sick to see the doctor alone | B.usually cooked food in the hospital |
C.continued her acts of giving | D.received several operations |
A.Louise's bravery helped her survive. |
B.Cooking benefits Louise's recovery. |
C.Everyone will go through hard times. |
D.Louise should spend more time cooking. |