2 . The philosopher,Martin Buber,is most known for his work on ”I-Thou/You" relationships in which people are open,direct,mutually interested in each other. In contrast,“I-It" relationships are those in which we use the other,like an object,to solve our problems and fulfill our needs and purposes.
It is not our fault that many of our relationships are or become "It" relationships because most of what we feel,think and do is motivated by unconscious memories of how to survive the environment. Thus,one of the reasons we use other people to help us feel better about ourselves and cope in the world is that using people was once necessary and it worked.When we were small and helpless,“It"came and-fed us,and held us,and set us on our way.We didn't have to reciprocate and care for“It". Even when the care and attention of "it" was minimal or unpredictable,if we got out of childhood alive,somewhere along the way "it" was involved.
When we are very young,other people are always "it"s whom we use to fulfill our needs. Freud called this stage of early life "primary narcissism",which is our instinct for self-preservation and is a normal part of our development.While most of us grow out of it,we still hold a survival fear,which motivates us to escape danger and to stay alive,and we all need this fear in healthy measure.
The problem is that too many of us,too much of the time,are in a constant state of threat--and we often don't know it. We imagine people are talking about us behind our backs,that we have cancer,that we are inadequate,and vulnerable to more than our share of bad luck.As our brains have grown in size and complexity,so has our ability to scare ourselves.
This causes many problems. For example,our stress levels increase,our digestion is impaired and our thinking becomes restricted. Our threat response stops any bodily function,feeling,thought and behavior that might"waste'"energy and detract from fighting or escaping danger. Thus,when in threat,our emotional,cognitive and behavioral range is significantly reduced.
And in this reduced state, one of our solutions is to find someone who can save and comfort us. Instead of enabling us to be open,direct and mutual,fear and anxiety lead us towards conversations and choices in our relations with others that are orientated towards surviving--not thriving. Threat-motivated relationships are characterized by need,dependency,control,demand,dishonesty,and self-interest.
We cannot form the "I-Thou"relationships that Buber speaks of until we have learned to notice, comfort,and understand the emotions and patterns of our threat brain.When in threat,we tend to use other people as objects who can save and protect us,or who we can blame for our problems.
1. When a person reciprocates,he tends to ________ .A.ask for some advice. | B.return the favour. |
C.convey an apology. | D.make some comments. |
A.It leads to our fear. |
B.It impacts our growth negatively. |
C.It is normal and usually temporary. |
D.It lays the foundation for Freud's theory. |
A.Comforting an upset friend. | B.Feeling sorry for your mistakes. |
C.Asking others to take on your task. | D.Trying hard to be independent. |
A.How We Can Form the "I-Thou"Relationships |
B.How We Can Get Out of the "I-It"Relationships |
C.What Helps Us Survive and Thrive in Early Stages of Life |
D.Why We Treat Others as Objects Rather Than Individuals |
A. idea B. understanding C. learning D. surrounding E. design F. develop G. creative H. solutions I. technology J. relatively K. rethink |
Technology in higher education: learning with it instead of from it.
Now, researchers at the University of Missouri have found that activity - based learning, rather than lecture - based, imporves student creativity and learning by allowing students to use technology to
Isa Jahnke, associate professor in the MU College of Education's school of Information Science and Learning Technologies, collaborated with former doctoral student Julia Liebscher to study how higher education professors in Europe use mobile
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"This research is useful for professors to rethink how they
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"If we have universities that are producing more creative-thinking students, then we have more people who can help come up with
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6 . American farmers have been complaining of labor shortages for several years.The complaints are unlikely to stop without an overhaul(全面修订)of immigration rules for farm workers.
Congress has obstructed(阻挠)efforts to create a more straightforward visa for agricultural workers that would let foreign workers stay longer in the U.S.and change jobs within the industry.
Perhaps half of U.S. farm laborers are undocumented immigrants.As fewer such workers enter the country,the characteristics of the agricultural workforce are changing. Today's farm laborers.while still predominantly born in Mexico,are more likely to be settled rather than migrating and more likely to be married than single.They're also aging. At the start of this century,about one-third of crop workers were over the age of 35.Now more than half are.And picking crops is hard on older bodies.One oft-debated cure for this labor shortage remains as implausible as it's been all along:Native U.S.workers won't be returning to the farm.
Mechanization isn't the answer,either--not yet,at least. Production of corn,cotton,rice,soybeans,and wheat has been largely mechanized,but many high-value,labor-intensive crops,such as strawberries,need labor.
As a result,farms have grown increasingly reliant on temporary guest workers using the H-2A visa to fill the gaps in the workforce.Starting around 20l2,requests for the visas rose sharply;from 2011 to 2016 the number of visas issued more than doubled.
In a 2012 survey,71 percent of tree-fruit growers and almost 80 percent of raisin and berry growers said they were short of labor.Some western farmers have responded by moving operations to Mexico.
In effect,the U.S.can import food or it can import the workers who pick it.
A.One trouble with U.S. agricultural workforce is the high mobility of crop workers. |
B.The H-2A visa has no numerical cap,unlike the H-2B visa for nonagricultural work,which is limited to 66,000 a year. |
C.Even dairy farms,where robots do a small share of milking have a long way to go before they're automated. |
D.From1998 to 2000,14.5percent of the fruit Americans consumed was imported. |
E.To attract younger laborers to the farm work is the much argued solution to the labor shortage in U.S.farming. |
F.If this doesn't change,American businesses,communities,and consumers will be the losers. |
A. sign B. expands C. sustainability D. investigate E. flexible F. admitted G. costly H. passed I. extends J. submit K. revelations |
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A.fade | B.maintain | C.tempt | D.ignore |
A.context | B.qualities | C.limitation | D.ranges |