1 . Develop Positive Relationships
One of the most profound experiences we can have in our lives is the connection we have with other human beings. Positive and supportive relationships will help us to feel healthier, happier, and more satisfied with our lives.
●Accept and celebrate differences.
●Listen effectively.
Listening is a crucial skill in boosting another person’s self-esteem.
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In a world where time is of the essence, we don’t always have the time to give to our loved ones. Being present in the time you give to people is important. In other words, when you are with someone, you are truly with someone and not living in the past or worrying about the future. Devoting time, energy, and effort to building relationships is one of the most valuable life skills.
●Manage mobile technology.
By now, everyone has a mobile phone and many people have two or more. While they are a lifesaver in an emergency, and an effective tool for communication, they also can be a complete distraction when people exhibit a lack of mobile phone etiquette (礼仪).
A.Give people your time. |
B.Develop your communication skills. |
C.We can perceive the world variously. |
D.Active listening is the most useful listening skill. |
E.So here are some tips to help you develop more positive relationships. |
F.Pay attention to who you are with and answer the phone when necessary. |
G.So technology has somewhat weakened our ability to build a good relationship. |
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删除:把多余的词用斜线(\)划掉。
修改:在错的词下划一横线,并在该词下面写出修改后的词。
注意:1、每处错误及其修改均仅限一词;
2、只允许修改10处,多者(从第11处起)不计分。
How is it going? Hearing that you have troubles making small talk with strangers in China, I’d like to offer you my advice following by many people.
Firstly, it is normal to feel a bit nervous when approaching to strangers. Everyone gets little shy first; after all, you don’t know how they are like. The only way was to get over being shy and reach out to us. Secondly, Chinese people, especially young people, are general friendly, kind and enthusiastic. You can talk about almost everything range from sports, stars, movies to music. Thirdly, they are some sensitive topics such as age, weight and income, which should be avoided.
增加:在缺词处加一个漏字符号(∧)并在其下面写出该加的词。
删除:在错的词下划一横线,并在该词下面写出修改后的词。
注意:1.每处错误及其修改均仅限一词;
2.只允许修改10处,多者(从第11处起)不计分。
Last Friday’s afternoon, I was on my way to home after school. Suddenly, a sound came behind, “Hi, Li Hua.” He turned around and saw it was Li Tao. Li Tao said, “I was going to play football with Mingming. Could you come to join us?” I told him that I had made appointment with Peter, who asked me to help him with his Chinese. Heard this, he became unhappily. Just then, Yang Yun came. Having found out that we were talking about, she said she could do it instead of me. But we three were both very happy.
One of my unforgettable memory of my school in Xinjiang is that of lunches we brought from our homes. I hold my lunch-box in my hand when I was going to school. The smell from it was very good. Since the lunch bell finally rang, my friends or I met under a tall tree and had our lunches. My best friend Aigulie was used to share her Nang with me. Nang is a specially kind of cake in Xinjiang. I like them very much. Now Aigulie and I study at different colleges or we can only see each other during the summer vacation. I think over her a lot and I miss the food and the good time we had together.
1.学好英语,增加交流机会;
2.多交朋友,友情会使人忘记孤独;
3.积极参加各种活动,使自己的生活更加有趣。
注意:
1.词数100左右;
2.开头和结尾已给出,不计入总词数;
3.可适当增添细节,以使行文连贯。
Dear Susan,
I’m sorry to hear that you are having trouble adapting to your new school life in America.
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6 . The key to a happy life has nothing to do with getting ahead at work, making money, or traveling the world. Instead, living your best life and creating meaning is all about one thing: relationships.
A study of adult development has been running at Harvard since 1938, and is now on its second generation of participants—the children of the original study’s subjects. Over decades, the research team collected data about their lives, including their physical and mental health, marital (婚姻的) status and quality, career happiness, etc.
They found the most important aspect in how happy and healthy these men were over time was their relationships. In other words: Finding happiness in life is all about the people you love.
The research doesn’t only include romantic relationships and marriage. Quality, close relationships are important whether they are in the situation of romantic relationships or closeness between friends or family members. The kind of relationship you have is less important than how close you feel with them.
However, the study only included men, and important gender differences exist in how people experience relationships. Some research suggests that men may benefit more from marriage. But they tend to have a harder time keeping friendships; as men get older, they will more likely say they have nobody to discuss important subjects with. So it’s possible that having close relationships throughout their lives might affect men differently than women.
The findings line up with the effects of loneliness. People who are socially isolated have a greater likelihood of strokes (中风), heart attacks, and higher blood pressure, not to mention mental health issues.
Unfortunately for the youngest generations, recent surveys found that young Americans are lonelier than older generations. That will likely have a big impact on how healthy and happy people feel throughout their lives.
1. What’s the moral lesson from this passage?A.Travel far and wide to learn a lot. | B.Keep an open mind to be creative. |
C.Treasure your time with your loved ones. | D.Work hard to be the best of your profession. |
A.Women are unwilling to participate in the study. |
B.Men are better at maintaining a close relationship. |
C.Women are not treated equally in scientific research. |
D.The findings of the study may not be true for women. |
A.Because they have nobody to talk to. | B.Because they are more socially isolated. |
C.Because they can’t keep their relationships. | D.Because they suffer physically and mentally. |
A.Close Relationships Make a Happy Life |
B.Men Look Forward to Close Relationships |
C.Close Relationships Ensure People’s Health |
D.Men and Women Differ in Keeping Relationships |
7 . How to Write a Letter to Parents
As a teacher, one of the most difficult parts of your job is working with parents. With proper communication, however, you can build bridges between the school and home.
If you do it properly, this is an excellent way to communicate when you cannot meet with parents face to face.
·Put positive communication in the letter, even if you are writing to discuss a problem.
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·Ask for a response. You can ask them to write back, sign a part of the letter or give you a call.
·Consider mailing the letter to the parent, rather than sending it home with the student. Some students will intentionally forget to give the letter to their parents, while others will accidentally or purposely lose the letter.
A.Writing a letter to parents is one way to do this. |
B.If you do not hear from them, you should call them |
C.Share the problem with the parents. |
D.Respect parents and never quarrel with them. |
E.Whenever you meet with problems, you should keep cool. |
F.Sending it in the mail makes it more certain that it will be received. |
G.You can do this by pointing out a gain the child has made recently. |
8 . How can teenagers keep themselves from suffering from loneliness? Here are some suggestions for speeding a recovery from loneliness.
Find a safe place to make connections.If going to the dancing party makes you feel like you just don't belong,try joining a special-interest group.Maybe it’s the drama club or the marching band.Just because you feel left out in one group doesn't mean you'll feel like an outsider in every other one.
Find other ways of making connections.Lonely people hunger for friendship.Sometimes feeling accepted and liked comes more easily when you do something for others rather than waiting for them to make you feel better.
Choose the right people.Loneliness is an absence of quality friendship,not of a particular quantity of friends.
You get what you expect,so expect the best.If you expect others to be friendly,you will behave in proper ways that encourage people to be friendlier to you.It can be hard work to be positive toward others.
A.Loneliness won't last long. |
B.So consider becoming a volunteer. |
C.Reach out to others but start small. |
D.This harmful attitude can continue into adulthood. |
E.That's why it's important to know how to select a friend. |
F.Look for a group that allows you to feel comfortable gradually. |
G.But starting the first step of positive expectations can make all the difference. |
9 . Like the rest of us, scientists have long suspected the healing capacity (修复能力) of a good hug. Unlike the rest of us, they’ve gone about trying to prove it.
“Laboratory studies suggest that things like hugs help us feel safer. They can also make us less sensitive to physical pain and less reactive when we’re faced with threatening experiences,” says Michael Murphy. He is a research professor in the department of psychological sciences at Texas Tech University. “This lab work has shown that hugs and other touch behavior are related to stress. The more stress we have, the more our heart rates and blood pressure go up. At this time, hugs and other forms of personal touch may give off all sorts of feel-good chemicals, so that stress can be reduced.”
“There’s a lot that we still need to learn, and there’s a lot we don’t know,” Murphy says. “However, what seems to be rising up is that hugs, as well as other forms of loving and gentle touch, are really powerful. They remind people that they’ re cared about and that they have someone in their corner.”
We expect touch. When we were born, we were placed in our mothers’ arms almost immediately. In that first year of our life, we spend a lot of time being held by other people. And as we grow up, we seek out hugs and touch as a way of connection. I think what we have lost in the past few years are these really easy opportunities to be reminded of connection.”
While he was at Carnegie Mellon, Murphy was the lead author of a hug-centered 2018 article in the scientific journal PLOS One. In a series of interviews with 404 adults over a two-week period, the researchers found that receiving a hug is associated with the attenuation of negative emotions that occur on days with interpersonal conflicts. That is to say, generally, hugs help to reduce the negative impacts that personal conflicts may cause in our daily lives.
1. What can we infer about hugs from the laboratory studies?A.They show people’s good social relationships. |
B.They can cure us of our mental disease. |
C.They can put much pressure on people. |
D.They make us feel calm and at ease. |
A.To recall childhood memories. |
B.To keep connected with others. |
C.To solve relationship problems. |
D.To express their social politeness. |
A.Expression. | B.Influence. |
C.Suffering. | D.Reduction. |
A.The Power of Hugs |
B.How to Reduce Stress |
C.How to Care for Others |
D.The Importance of Interpersonal Relations |
10 . Symbol of friendship
Friendship is a wonderful thing to have no matter how old you are. However, it is important for teens and young adults to provide conversation, support and so much more as friends.
One of the symbols of a wonderful relationship between friends is easy conversation. When you can talk about almost anything, you are sure to be true friends. When the conversation flows easily from one topic to another, this can be a symbol of friendship as well.
Able to have fun
Support all the time
If your friends know they can call you anytime and you will be there for them, then this symbolizes friendship.
Attentive listening by both individuals
If you find that you listen closely to what your friend says and they do the same for you, this is another symbol of friendship.
Share laughter and tears
Another symbol of friendship is the ability to share both laughter and tears. A friend is someone with whom you can laugh and cry over anything.
A.Get together |
B.Easy conversation |
C.Teenagers always have difficulty in making friends. |
D.A true friend is someone you can have a great time with. |
E.You feel comfortable with this person to share your special feelings. |
F.If you are trying to make friends, you may be wondering what symbolizes friendship. |
G.True friends listen closely to each other and understand what the other person is saying. |