1 . A few years ago, I walked into Panera and placed my order. As I sat down, I noticed that at the table next to me, there was an older man with a cap eating his soup alone. At the sight of this, a feeling of sadness began to wash over me. Why was he eating alone? Was he lonely? Did he want someone to keep him company?
This wasn’t the first time I’d felt sad when I noticed someone eating alone. I automatically assume they’re lonely and need someone to be there for them. For some reason, eating with other people is the norm. Modern society has evolved to the point where most people eat with others and do almost every activity together. If we need to get lunch before a class, we’d rather ask around to see if someone will come with us. But is it possible we just don’t want to appear lonely?
For me, it’s easy to get pressured to have to be around other people when I see everyone else around me accompanied by a friend almost all the time. So many people are always around someone else, and that may make people think we always need someone with us to feel better about ourselves.
But that’s not true. We can enjoy being alone not everyone needs to be constantly surrounded by friends to be happy. And we shouldn’t be afraid to eat alone if that’s what we want to do. We don’t have to do what everyone else does.
Ultimately, I don’t think I’ll ever not get sad if I see someone eating alone, but I’ll bear in mind that maybe they just want a break from the world, or maybe they prefer it that way. It’s important to realize seeing someone doing something alone doesn’t always mean they’re lonely.
1. Why does the author mention her experience at Panera a few years ago?A.To introduce the topic of caring for old people. |
B.To start the discussion about people eating alone. |
C.To describe a memorable encounter. |
D.To illustrate the benefits of eating alone outside. |
A.It is a good way to avoid awkwardness. |
B.It helps maintain social connections. |
C.It is common but deserves questioning. |
D.It is unreasonable and unacceptable. |
A.Uncomfortable. | B.Isolated. | C.Envious. | D.Relaxed. |
A.Social relationships are unnecessary. |
B.People need to be alone to recharge. |
C.Loneliness is unavoidable in our daily life. |
D.Being alone doesn’t equate to loneliness. |
2 . The Power of Peers
Do birds of a feather really flock together? People do tend to choose friends who are similar to them. Many behaviors spread socially. Activities in certain brain areas change when other people are around.
A research shows that even just having another peer around can change the reward response in the brain and also the risk-taking tendencies of teenagers. Some people seem to be more easily influenced than others and more sensitive to feeling included or excluded by others.
It’s the quality of friendships — not quantity — that really makes the difference. Friendships you feel you want to let go of may be low quality.
Spending time with friends can be especially helpful for people. Noticing that our behavior is influenced by other people, we can be intentional and try to focus on the people who are doing the things we want to get into ourselves.
A.Adolescence is such a risky period. |
B.That can affect what you choose to do. |
C.Peer pressure can sometimes lead to competition. |
D.People care about what others think across all different age groups. |
E.They are linked to poor academic performance and behavioral issues. |
F.Sharing your healthy habits could also make a real difference to others. |
G.The number of friends you have determines your level of social influence. |
3 . There’s a long line of research showing that when we make contact with people who’re socially different from us, we tend to feel less prejudice towards them. According to the contact theory, contact seems to work best for reducing prejudice when the contact is generally positive. But what happens when the conditions for interpersonal contact may not be ideal? For example, what if you feel threatened in some way by a group of people you see as “the other”?
Researchers from Ghent University in Belgium analyzed the results of 34 studies surveying nearly 64,000 people from 19 countries to see how intergroup contact affected their viewpoints about “outgroups” under conflict situations. For example, people were asked to report on how they viewed other groups. The researchers also had data from the surveys that measured attitudes towards outgroup members, such as how positive people felt towards them and how much they could trust them.
After analyzing the data, the researchers found strong feelings of threat were associated with more negative views of outgroup members. But having contact with outgroup members still reduced prejudice just as much under those unfavorable conditions. To Jasper Van Assche, the lead author of the paper, this suggests contact theory holds even under conflict situations.
Van Assche says that contact is so powerful probably because just being around people from an outgroup affects how we think and feel about them. As we become accustomed to even the me re presence of people from other groups, that can reduce our anxiety, especially if the encounters are positive—and that can lead to warmer feelings. Also, contact can enhance our knowledge about others’ customs and practices, so that they don’t seem so foreign or “other” to us.
Van Assche hopes his research can lead people to see the benefits of integrating the spaces where they live. This could be done through top-down methods, such as the government requiring school integration, but also from the bottom up. For example, suggests Van Assche, communities could create low-cost, low-key events that bring people together, helping to promote tolerance.
1. Why are the questions raised in paragraph 1?A.To inspire readers’ imagination. | B.To argue against the contact theory. |
C.To show the author’s curiosity. | D.To offer the purpose of the study. |
A.It improves people’s adaptive capacity. | B.It increases people’s desire to socialize. |
C.It promotes each other’s understanding. | D.It makes people emotionally stable. |
A.Expanding communities on the whole. |
B.Increasing chances of positive contact. |
C.Strengthening interactions between schools. |
D.Offering equal education opportunities to diverse groups. |
A.People involved in equal contact are generally positive | B.Opportunities for intergroup contact are on the rise |
C.The interventions based on contact are unhealthy | D.Interpersonal contact can help people connect |
A.Those who wish to be a leader. |
B.Those who are warm and inviting. |
C.Those who have trouble socializing. |
D.Those who judge people by first impressions. |
A.Because it means time is important. |
B.Because it reflects that you value them. |
C.Because it allows you to get ready early. |
D.Because it applies to various business situations. |
A.By communicating with people in public. |
B.By talking with anyone around you in life. |
C.By trying to stop talking every time you use them. |
D.By practicing with these words at home one at a time. |
A.He is talkative. | B.He is bossy. |
C.He is confident. | D.He is trustworthy. |
1. What does the passage mainly tell us?
A.Working from home has its benefits. | B.Workplace friendships are easy to develop. |
C.Young people favour remote employment. | D.Working remotely limits workplace friendships. |
A.Financial support. | B.Emotional comfort. |
C.Frontline services. | D.Educational resources. |
A.Workplace friendships help to avoid disagreements at work. |
B.Workplace friendships motivate employees to work longer hours. |
C.Workplace friendships contribute to efficiency and security at work. |
D.Workplace friendships encourage employers to interact with customers. |
7 . Clear and effective communication not only can help you get what you want but also is important to successful relationships with your partner coworkers, bosses, and friends. You take part in some form of communication with others many times a day.
Few people have had any training in listening at all and they don’t know how to communicate with others. If you want to interact effectively with me, you first need to understand me. And you can’t do that with techniques alone.
Unless you understand me and my unique situation and feelings you won’t know how to advise me.
A.Being honest is the first step in good communication. |
B.At first there is not enough trust between two strangers. |
C.However, that doesn’t mean you’re communicating well. |
D.What you say is good and fine, but it doesn’t relate to me. |
E.But most people are not good at expressing themselves in public. |
F.Then, I don’t feel safe enough to express my opinions and my true feelings. |
G.If I sense you’re using some techniques, I will wonder what your purposes are. |
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Nowadays, there are more and more people who attach great importance relationships in career success. Being polite is the first and most important step to developing good relationships among friends. Polite words can be easily said yet always have some unexpected and powerful result in your daily life.
Always saying “please” and “thank you” will make your friends feeling more comfortable and more willingly to offer help when necessary. We all know that one man’s success is based on what he deals with people. Always being grateful for other people’s kindness and show your gratitude through the words you say. The more support you win from other people, the more faster you will move towards your goal.
Remember, be polite to others cost nothing so it’s worth a million dollars.
9 . How to treat each other well
The following tips can help you enjoy a healthy and satisfying relationship.
Create a foundation of respect.
Appreciate each other. A healthy relationship should be one in which you and your partner feel appreciated. Often, relationships are built from many small things added one on top of the other.
Expect changes. Know that your relationship will likely change. Allow growth for yourself, your partner, and for the relationship itself.
A.Spend quality time together |
B.Make a healthy relationship work |
C.Relationships can be fun and exciting early on |
D.Your partner’s thoughts and feelings have value |
E.Find activities that you can do together regularly |
F.Find the things your partner does for you and say “thank you” |
G.Recognize changes in your relationship are opportunities for new growth |
10 . Recently, a topic featuring “Graduates avoid sending resumes out of social anxiety disorder” received many comments on Sina Weibo. It seems that social anxiety disorder, also known as social phobia (恐惧症), is affecting many people’s lives. Over 80% of university students who took part in a survey tended to avoid social interaction due to an assumed social phobia.
For those who have a social phobia, everyday social situations cause strong fear beyond their control because they fear being watched or judged negatively by others.
Having a social phobia can mean physical symptoms like blushing (脸红), upset stomach, or having trouble catching your breath. The good news is that it is treatable.
I used to be so shy that I avoided greeting people I knew by pretending to scroll (滚屏) on my phone or turning in another direction.
A.After all, they are not making you any better. |
B.Understand it’s perfectly fine to make mistakes. |
C.Here are some tips for overcoming a fear of social interaction. |
D.But is avoiding social interaction equal to having a social phobia? |
E.However, my attitude began to change when I met a senior journalist. |
F.But if you only feel a bit uncomfortable, it might mean you are just shy. |
G.Shy people avoid socializing because they take others’ opinions seriously. |