I often recall those good old days. At that time life was relatively simpler, and people were much more ______and gentler. Recently, to my surprise, I got the opportunity to experience that same warmth that I thought had_____ from the fast-moving world.
I was out shopping the other day with my husband, two daughters and one ______. It was a burning hot day, and we were all visibly tired and hungry. We entered a restaurant, looking for some______and comfort. To our disappointment, all the tables were_____and no one seemed in a hurry to______ . We waited, tired and ______. After quite some time, one table was vacated, but that could ______only two of us. My daughter made me sit along with her father, while she and my other daughter _____alongside. My granddaughter sat on my______ as we looked all around us, waiting for another table to be ______soon.
At the next table, two young girls were sitting at a table for four and enjoying their meal. We decided to move to their table, ______they were finished with their lunch. Since the girls had just got their ______, I knew it would be a ______wait. As we were deciding on what to eat, one of the girls got up and ______their table to us. She said they would move to our table so that my family could sit together.
We were very appreciative of their kind ______. We thanked them ______and moved to their table. The girls quickly ______their plates and glasses and went to sit at our table.
That day, I ______to myself there still were some kind, civil and helpful youngsters in this non-caring world, and my faith in humanity was______ .1.
A.friendly | B.generous | C.careful | D.sensitive |
A.prevented | B.removed | C.lost | D.disappeared |
A.niece | B.granddaughter | C.nephew | D.son |
A.tea | B.food | C.fruits | D.vegetable |
A.fixed | B.covered | C.occupied | D.set |
A.start | B.wait | C.give up | D.set up |
A.impatient | B.nervous | C.awkward | D.embarrassed |
A.serve | B.seat | C.lay | D.hold |
A.sat | B.followed | C.stood | D.watched |
A.shoulder | B.feet | C.lap | D.table |
A.blank | B.free | C.available | D.clean |
A.unless | B.once | C.before | D.until |
A.order | B.bill | C.note | D.menu |
A.long | B.short | C.boring | D.exciting |
A.left | B.pushed | C.shared | D.offered |
A.treat | B.expression | C.movement | D.gesture |
A.personally | B.properly | C.publicly | D.sincerely |
A.picked up | B.set up | C.put up | D.gave up |
A.turned | B.came | C.thought | D.pointed |
A.lost | B.rebuilt | C.found | D.shaken |
2 . Many years ago, there was an emperor(皇帝). One day he told his horseman that if he could ride on his horse and
He
The above story is
Life is not about making money. Life is definitely(肯定地) not about work! Work is only
A.use | B.get | C.work | D.cover |
A.Sure | B.Strange | C.Good | D.Interesting |
A.rode | B.ran | C.expanded | D.struggled |
A.gave up | B.asked for | C.kept on | D.succeeded in |
A.sad | B.hungry | C.confused | D.excited |
A.because | B.so | C.but | D.if |
A.dying | B.arguing | C.sleeping | D.smiling |
A.make | B.push | C.destroy | D.prove |
A.find | B.have | C.need | D.show |
A.live | B.support | C.bury | D.sleep |
A.useful | B.certain | C.special | D.similar |
A.future | B.past | C.history | D.life |
A.money | B.progress | C.discoveries | D.friends |
A.freedom | B.career | C.honor | D.health |
A.things | B.condition | C.beauty | D.people |
A.before | B.when | C.unless | D.since |
A.regret | B.realize | C.apologize | D.explain |
A.but | B.until | C.however | D.or |
A.saved | B.won | C.reduced | D.missed |
A.possible | B.probable | C.necessary | D.suitable |
3 . It was a rainy day. I was riding on a bus downtown to go to
The man running the stand was
The newsman
We then
We cannot control people and situations that come to us, but we can always control our response to them. And in such
A.school | B.church | C.work | D.hospital |
A.draw | B.pay | C.make | D.attract |
A.market | B.stand | C.office | D.library |
A.curiously | B.gradually | C.eventually | D.obviously |
A.rude | B.modest | C.angry | D.kind |
A.add | B.refer | C.devote | D.apply |
A.shouted | B.waved | C.confirmed | D.smiled |
A.quickly | B.luckily | C.brightly | D.loudly |
A.book | B.present | C.paper | D.food |
A.In short | B.After all | C.On average | D.As usual |
A.responded | B.objected | C.appealed | D.disagreed |
A.ran out | B.left behind | C.turned away | D.put aside |
A.attempted | B.continued | C.intended | D.expected |
A.excitement | B.gratitude | C.impression | D.assessment |
A.ignore | B.manage | C.control | D.enjoy |
A.travelled | B.disappeared | C.separated | D.drove |
A.forgiven | B.shared | C.evaluated | D.forgotten |
A.effort | B.lesson | C.effect | D.pain |
A.wish | B.chance | C.right | D.power |
A.positive | B.proper | C.fortunate | D.nervous |
4 . Are you a man or a mouse? When people ask this question they want to know
Lenny had always thought of himself as a
When you are in a very
A.how | B.neither | C.whether | D.either |
A.brave | B.real | C.hard | D.certain |
A.when | B.until | C.after | D.once |
A.realize | B.find | C.think | D.agree |
A.life | B.question | C.mouse | D.danger |
A.soldiers | B.mice | C.heroes | D.cowards |
A.useful | B.brave | C.nervous | D.terrible |
A.So | B.Therefore | C.Then | D.Actually |
A.fresh | B.poisonous | C.warm | D.ice-cold |
A.nervous | B.calm | C.frightened | D.excited |
A.went | B.helped | C.spoke | D.swam |
A.in | B.under | C.above | D.from |
A.an accident | B.a mistake | C.seventy-eight | D.seventy-nine |
A.dangerous | B.comfortable | C.different | D.favorable |
A.With | B.Without | C.For | D.Like |
A.afraid | B.unable | C.ready | D.anxious |
A.gets | B.disappears | C.happens | D.goes |
A.needn’t | B.can’t | C.mustn’t | D.shouldn’t |
A.where | B.how | C.because | D.why |
A.really | B.very | C.such | D.so |
At the first home, the son of the deceased (已故的) woman said to me, “If only I had sent my mother to Florida and gotten her out of this cold and snow , she would be alive today. It’s my fault that she died.” At the second home, the son of the other deceased woman said, “If only I hadn’t insisted on my mother’s going to Florida, she would be alive today. That long airplane ride, the sudden change of climate, was more than she could take. It’s my fault that she’s dead.”
You see that any time there is a death, the survivors will feel guilty. Because the course of action they took turned out badly, they believe that the opposite course — keeping Mother at home, putting off the operation — would have turned out better. After all, how could it have turned out any worse?
There seem to be two elements involved in our willingness to feel guilty. The first is our pressing need to believe that
The second element is the view that we are the cause of what happens, especially the bad things that happen. It seems to be a short step from believing that every event has a cause to believing that every disaster is our fault. The roots of this feeling may lie in our childhood.
A baby comes to think that the world exists to meet his needs, and that he makes everything happen in it. He wakes up in the morning and summons the rest of the world to its tasks. He cries, and someone comes to attend to him. When he is hungry, people feed him, and when he is wet, people change him. Very often, we do not completely outgrow that childish view that our wishes cause things to happen.
1. The author had to hold the two women’s funerals probably because .
A.he wanted to comfort the two families | B.he was an official from the community |
C.he had great pity for the deceased | D.he was priest of the local church |
A.they couldn’t find a better way to express their sorrow |
B.they believe that they were responsible |
C.they had neglected the natural course of events |
D.they didn’t know things often turn out in the opposite direction |
A.everything in the world is predetermined |
B.the world can be interpreted in different ways |
C.there’s an explanation for everything in the world |
D.we have to be sensible in order to understand the world |
A.Life and death is an unsolved mystery. |
B.Every story should have a happy ending. |
C.Never feel guilty all the time because not every disaster is our fault. |
D.In general, the survivors will feel guilty about the people who passed away . |
Later that evening, I
We moved to Indiana in 1962, and Michael studied at Concordia High School in the same year. He got
Michael
On graduation day in 1972, Frank and I
Interestingly, Michael then
Children often do as
A.joy | B.surprise | C.dislike | D.disappointment |
A.tearfully | B.fearfully | C.cheerfully | D.hopefully |
A.student | B.son | C.friend | D.doctor |
A.argued | B.realized | C.decided | D.understood |
A.joke | B.mistake | C.warning D wonder |
A.specially | B.strictly | C.naturally | D.carefully |
A.poor | B.good | C.average | D.standard |
A.in | B.about | C.of | D.for |
A.visited | B.chose | C.passed | D.entered |
A.allowed | B.described | C.required | D.offered |
A.missed | B.held | C.delayed | D.attended |
A.high | B.same | C.low | D.different |
A.curiously | B.eagerly | C.calmly | D.jokingly |
A.faith | B.interest | C.pride | D.delight |
A.looked for | B.asked for | C.waited for | D.prepared for |
A.received | B.accepted | C.organized | D.discussed |
A.imperfect | B.impossible | C.uncertain | D.unsatisfactory |
A.honestly | B.much | C.well | D.bravely |
A.hear | B.learn | C.expect | D.speak |
A.wise | B.rude | C.shy | D.stupid |
They feel ill equipped for parenthood, because they don’t see what values or lessons they could honestly pass on to their young, besides self-centeredness and a passion for the good things in life. They are trying to live by not acting their age.
As Ms Jane put it in her letter: I’m married, in my late 20s and enjoy a lifestyle other married graduate couples enjoy: winning and dining, tasteful clothes, travel and a career. Why give up all these for a baby?
It is reported that when asked whether they were adults, most people in their 20s answered they were not sure. This reflected a global economy in which people chased more papers to get better jobs that would comfortably support middle class living.
Being a kidult is not all about being selfish, though. With the untold uncertainties of war, fluctuating(波动)markets, disease and terrorism, many see this world as a poor place to live in—let alone bring kids up in. This seems especially so in urban living. All anyone wants after a long, hard day at work is some peace and quiet.
My classmate, Jenny, mused(沉思)recently how our friends living in small Malaysian towns were onto their second or third kids. Maybe they just loved having children around. Or maybe, in their own way, they wanted to leave the world a better place than they found it.
That’s how you, I and everyone know we have the chance to breathe air, touch grass and see sky. I think out parents understand that just being alive is an experience worth passing on.
1. What is a kidult in the writer’s opinion?
A.A person who doesn’t have a child |
B.An adult who actually has a psychology of a child |
C.A child who doesn’t want to grow up |
D.A person who doesn’t know that what values he has |
A.money |
B.reputation |
C.qualification |
D.power |
A.presenting research findings |
B.making comparison |
C.showing her own experience |
D.using examples |
A.know little what they can pass on to their children |
B.are sure of their abilities for good life |
C.living in urban can enjoy more peace |
D.living in small towns know well what they’re living for |
It’s easy to see how to help some people, but what about those whose needs are not so obvious? This story may have happened a while back, but it was a
It was Thanksgiving, and I was
Then my mother quietly took me to one side. She said, “You have
About a week later the shelter received a large
Now,
A.passion | B.feeling | C.challenge | D.lesson |
A.impressing | B.volunteering | C.blessing | D.contacting |
A.serving | B.cooking | C.working | D.carrying |
A.visitors | B.friends | C.diners | D.consumers |
A.In detail | B.In short | C.In surprise | D.In general |
A.something | B.nothing | C.everything | D.anything |
A.cheap | B.shabby | C.expensive | D.ordinary |
A.amazement | B.delight | C.amusement | D.satisfaction |
A.food | B.clothing | C.money | D.room |
A.information | B.rescue | C.employment | D.service |
A.cared | B.bought | C.meant | D.delivered |
A.proven | B.assumed | C.planned | D.decided |
A.mental | B.moral | C.natural | D.physical |
A.Therefore | B.But | C.And | D.So |
A.comfort | B.luck | C.wealth | D.space |
A.announce | B.communicate | C.apologize | D.explain |
A.respect | B.praise | C.invitation | D.donation |
A.determine | B.wonder | C.conclude | D.support |
A.whenever | B.however | C.whatever | D.whichever |
A.try | B.behave | C.look | D.struggle |
Listening well also requires total concentration upon someone else. An essential part of listening well is the rule known as ‘bracketing’. Bracketing includes the temporary giving up or setting aside of your own prejudices and desires, to experience as far as possible someone else’s world from the inside,
Most of the time we lack this energy. Even though we may feel in our business dealings or social relationships that we are listening well, what we are usually doing is listening selectively. Often we have a prepared list in mind and wonder, as we listen, how we can achieve certain desired results to get the conversation over as quickly as possible or redirected in ways more satisfactory to us. Many of us are far
more interested in talking than in listening, or we simply refuse to listen to what we don’t want to hear.
It wasn’t until toward the end of my doctor career that I have found the knowledge that one is being truly listened to is frequently therapeutic(有疗效的) In about a quarter of the patients I saw, surprising improvement was shown during the first few months of psychotherapy(心理疗法), before any of the roots of problems had been uncovered or explained. There are several reasons for this phenomenon, but chief among them, I believe, was the patient’s sense that he or she was being truly listened to, often for the first time in years, and for some, perhaps for the first time ever.
1. . The phrase “stepping into his or her shoes” in paragraph 2 probably means _______.
A.preparing a topic list first |
B.focusing on one’s own mind |
C.directing the talk to the desired results |
D.experiencing the speaker’s inside world |
A.How to listen well. |
B.What to listen to. |
C.Benefits of listening. |
D.Problems in listening |
A.listen actively |
B.listen purposefully |
C.set aside their prejudices |
D.open up their inner mind |
A.they were taken good care of. |
B.they knew they were truly listened to. |
C.they had partners to talk to. |
D.they knew the roots of problems. |
10 . Mistakes are a part of life. To err is human. Failure is also a part of life, not the end of life. Be happy facing life’s challenges. When you make the effort to be happy and to improve your life, you are actually rewarded along the way.
Life is like a game and maybe you can award (奖励) points for every effort that has been a success for you. Try it. Add ten points for every achievement. And when you have reached 50 points, just yell, “ Hey, I’ve won!” and give yourself a reward. If you happen to have missed your points for whatever reason, tell yourself, “Well, I tried!” which is better than not trying at all. Don’t let it be said you didn’t try.
What is it that you want to make yourself happy? Actually happiness means different things to different people. For example, an athlete will be happy winning his first race. For a new mother happiness would be seeing her baby’s first steps. Happiness for a poor person would mean having a meal just for today. So happiness for you is really something simple that you want for yourself.
It really doesn’t have to be big. As a matter of fact you should always have realistic expectations. Make the best out of every given situation. If you expect a certain result from a situation and it does not happen, don’t get despondent. This just means trying harder next time. We all have in us the power to succeed. Don’t let “ give up ” be a part of your vocabulary.
1. By saying “To err is human”, the author means that________.A.human beings should try to avoid (避免) making mistakes |
B.no one is perfect (完美的) and everyone makes mistakes |
C.mistakes and failures make up our life |
D.human beings make mistakes easily |
A.Try to reach 50 points. |
B.Never stop trying in your life. |
C.Award yourself for your success |
D.Don’t be afraid of missing your points. |
A.examples | B.numbers |
C.experiments | D.stories |
A.frightened | B.disappointed |
C.surprised | D.excited |