1 . “Communication is the most essential and sociable of all human behaviors”, which is absolutely true as for human community. Communication is the majority of everyone’s social life. “Without communication, life would be as cold as a rock.”
To start good communication, we can make certain adequate preparations, especially some relative questions.
The most important part of communication is to listen.
A.Enjoy good communication, being friends with them. |
B.It is usually said that eyes are windows to the soul. |
C.It would make others feel uneasy and unwilling to continue talking. |
D.They believe they wanna know and even convince us. |
E.We should concentrate on others’ saying and think in their shoes. |
F.It is considered to be fairly comfortable to be asked fine questions. |
G.Furthermore, good communication is an interesting attraction in our daily life. |
2 . Empathy, namely the ability to understand another person's feelings, is probably one of the most important skills a person might have. Empathy is not just for building and maintaining strong and healthy relationships, but to work more effectively and achieve greater success in life.
Empathy is often acquired beyond verbal language. You can experience empathy by noticing a person's facial expressions and voice. You try to tell when he needs attention, acknowledgement, or an offer of help. You grasp when he wants you to leave and give him space or when he wants you to quietly stand by. Empathy demonstrates you care.
However, having an endless capacity for empathy is dangerous. With empathy, you will feel others’ stress, anxiety, and anger. If you let these emotions sit in your body, your mind can be emotionally controlled. Absorbing other people's feelings can make you easily affected by feelings of depression and hopelessness.
In fact, extreme empathy can break the bond of trust that you were hoping to strengthen. When you take on other people's emotions, you may feel responsible for easing their pain. You are driven by a strong desire to fix their problems and interrupt to offer aid. However, your intrusive reaction will make them feel disrespected and less understood.
Non-reactive empathy is especially useful when you feel the desire to jump in and fix people. To acquire non-reactive empathy, you should receive whatever might pass into your mind in a calm way. Notice when emotions begin to arise in your body. Name the emotion and offer what you sense to the person to help him or her better understand the experience. Then you can relax your body and let the emotion fade away.
1. Which is NOT mentioned as the advantage of empathy?A.Keeping healthy relationships. |
B.Working more effectively. |
C.Making friends with people. |
D.Improving your social status. |
A.Persuading her to stop crying. |
B.Accompanying her quietly. |
C.Blaming her for her mistakes. |
D.Telling her that everything is possible. |
A.Absorbing others' feelings. |
B.Interrupting to give help. |
C.Being sensitive to bad emotions. |
D.Letting emotions fade away. |
A.To introduce a common problem. |
B.To add some background information. |
C.To provide some advice for readers. |
D.To summarize the previous paragraphs. |
3 . In October, I told the eight-year-olds in the class about my plan.“I'd like all of you to do housework to earn some money," I said. “Then we'll buy food for the poor." I wanted the children to learn that it's more blessed to
A week later, they returned with their hard-earned
“Flowers!" Kristin cried. The group
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Kids carried the gifts in, and the old woman oohed and aahed-much to her visitors’
We returned to the car. The woman inside waved goodbye, then turned and walked across the room, past the turkey, straight to the
The children were quiet. In that brief moment, they had seen for themselves the power they possessed to
A.take | B.ask | C.give | D.provide |
A.money | B.chance | C.victory | D.salary |
A.left | B.headed | C.moved | D.ran |
A.spotted | B.recognized | C.revealed | D.heard |
A.passed | B.turned | C.rushed | D.jogged |
A.cooler | B.faster | C.simpler | D.wiser |
A.As a result | B.After all | C.Above all | D.At last |
A.But | B.So | C.And | D.For |
A.red | B.yellow | C.purple | D.pink |
A.wealthy | B.lucky | C.needy | D.funny |
A.broke down | B.pulled up | C.came along | D.came down |
A.pleasure | B.sadness | C.regret | D.relief |
A.thrilled | B.annoyed | C.amused | D.surprised |
A.car | B.money | C.flowers | D.food |
A.save | B.strengthen | C.love | D.brighten |
4 . There’s a lot that can be conveyed in a handshake. Throughout history, such a(n)
But touching strangers can also lead to other, less beneficial shared
A popular theory about the handshake’s
There may be a
Behavioral scientist Val Curtis in London says that one possible
A.message | B.expression | C.act | D.solution |
A.indicate | B.describe | C.value | D.end |
A.outcomes | B.beliefs | C.concerns | D.emotions |
A.understand | B.pause | C.study | D.change |
A.clearly | B.originally | C.officially | D.firmly |
A.advantage | B.meaning | C.benefit | D.origin |
A.peace | B.appreciation | C.power | D.satisfaction |
A.waving | B.holding | C.shaking | D.searching |
A.detailed | B.historical | C.scientific | D.cultural |
A.washed | B.sniffed | C.clapped | D.grasped |
A.Besides | B.Therefore | C.Meanwhile | D.However |
A.protection | B.warning | C.control | D.communication |
A.role | B.reason | C.means | D.source |
A.mature | B.cautious | C.reliable | D.tough |
A.theory | B.topic | C.research | D.practice |
I had hardly sat down on the train and opened a bar of chocolate
Then he opened one of his bags and gave me
6 . An act of kindness doesn't have to be a grand gesture. Even those small acts of kindness can make a difference in someone's day. That was just the case for Amie Mickey when she
Amie started to do this several years ago. At first, she wondered if people would
Stories like Amie's really
A.tore up | B.picked up | C.fixed up | D.put up |
A.watch | B.overlook | C.notice | D.neglect |
A.attention | B.strangers | C.confusion | D.trouble |
A.running | B.driving | C.walking | D.riding |
A.voices | B.hats | C.shoulders | D.thumbs |
A.count | B.share | C.value | D.matter |
A.frightened | B.frustrated | C.embarrassed | D.disappointed |
A.parking | B.speed | C.incident | D.event |
A.approached | B.blocked | C.repaired | D.cleaned |
A.important | B.special | C.typical | D.skeptical |
A.happened | B.occurred | C.managed | D.offered |
A.shock | B.inspire | C.delight | D.satisfy |
A.feelings | B.thoughts | C.spirits | D.minds |
A.work | B.exercise | C.conduct | D.behave |
A.reliable | B.subjective | C.positive | D.brief |
7 . "Smile!" I shouted, holding a yellow sign up on a busy street in Seattle. We were three thousand miles away from home on a Random Acts of Kindness and Volunteerism Road Trip. We had two aims. One was to try out our new "Smile!" signs and see how much kindness and joy we could spread in Pike Place Market. The other was to raise $80 by doing street performances, enough for gas to Portland and a small hotel room.
We weren't sure how people would react (回应) to our signs. I nervously raised up our signs and shouted, "Hi, there!" to a young couple. They looked over and felt confused. Then they read our signs and broke into a smile. Before long, some tourists wanted to take a photo with us and some strangers stopped to ask us about our signs.
In fact, we paid so close attention to our "Smile!" project that we forgot the other aim. Before we knew it, the sun was setting, and we had no money for our trip to Portland. We sat down to watch a blind musician play the guitar while thinking about what to do. He was packing up when a passing crowd kicked down his change bowl. He stumbled (绊倒) into the crowd. We rushed to help him, but another man moved more quickly to help him.
Once the musician had his money safely returned, we ran over to meet the strange helper and said, "We just wanted to praise you for your good deed." He smiled, looking at our signs. "Your trip reminds me of something similar I once did when I was young," he said. "Look! I'd like to donate (捐赠)." We told him, "No, thanks! We are fine. We've collected plenty of money." We lied. "Please let me donate. It will make me feel like I'm a part of this adventure," he insisted. And then the stranger opened his wallet and pulled out four $20 bills. The money was exactly what we had intended to raise that day. We were astonished. It seemed as if he had known somehow.
1. What's the main purpose of the road trip?A.To spread kindness and joy. |
B.To invite more people to join in the trip. |
C.To raise money for a trip to Portland. |
D.To encourage people to take happy photos. |
A.Disappointed. | B.Worried. | C.Interested. | D.Moved. |
A.Because he felt pity for the author. |
B.Because he wanted to join in the project. |
C.Because he hoped to help the homeless. |
D.Because he felt sorry for his impoliteness. |
A.Tired. | B.Satisfied. | C.Frightened. | D.Surprised. |
8 . Small talk has a reputation for being uninteresting, and for good reason. Pointing out the fact that it’s raining seems as ridiculous as pointing out the fact that you have a head—you’re fully aware of both things, and don’t require an outsider to confirm them. But despite being evident and often painfully dull, small talk has an important role to fulfil, enabling us to leap over a number of social obstacles towards improved, meaningful interaction.
Humans can be sensitive souls. We each have our boundaries and lists of potential upsets, which when broken, cause us to either gently back away to an alternative position in the room, or become cross at the person. Small talk is first a way to test the waters with an unfamiliar person, so that you may better understand their personality. When finding yourself positioned closely to a person who you know little about, it’s much safer to point out the rainy sky than to share your political views on a sensitive topic. Until you know the person better, heavier topics should probably be kept under wraps, so you won’t find yourself on the receiving end of a cold stare.
Though insignificant, small talk still has great power. When talking with fellow humans, much of our soul is exposed through non-verbal communication. A response to “how was your weekend” can unveil much about the person’s character. The length of their response might indicate their level of self-confidence; the tone of speaking might show how agreeable a person is; their slightly lowered head, as if protecting themselves from attack, a possible sign of a regrettable history of bullying.
As more of a person’s character is revealed, we have the insight needed to determine whether to broach more significant topics—the things that we actually want to talk about. Conversation is a great educator, and deep conversation establish lasting bonds with our fellow humans, forming precious friendships that paint our lives with vibrant colors. Such friendships begin with small talk.
1. What is described in the first paragraph?A.The first stage of human interaction. |
B.Ridiculous human behavior in communication. |
C.Absence of communication between strangers. |
D.The difficulty of having deep conversations. |
A.Because they are fond of heavy subjects. |
B.Because they are enthusiastic about politics. |
C.Because they are too sensitive about topics. |
D.Because they fail to manage interpersonal distance. |
A.The length of the answer. | B.The quality of the voice. |
C.The position of the head. | D.The distance between speakers. |
A.Reputation of Small Talk | B.Ways of Understanding Personality |
C.Significance of Small Talk | D.Challenges of Deep Conversation |
9 . Aidan Anderson was raised in a family that valued community service. His
Since an early age, Aidan has shared his
Aidan considers his mom his biggest
A.brave | B.kind | C.proper | D.tough |
A.expand | B.find | C.reflect | D.notice |
A.released | B.borrowed | C.copied | D.purchased |
A.demand | B.responsibility | C.passion | D.reason |
A.normally | B.basically | C.recently | D.originally |
A.songs | B.clothes | C.albums | D.tips |
A.organized | B.forgot | C.accepted | D.disliked |
A.interest | B.money | C.understanding | D.attention |
A.set up | B.given up | C.turned up | D.held up |
A.greet | B.gather | C.benefit | D.approach |
A.profession | B.solution | C.application | D.inspiration |
A.requests | B.supplies | C.programs | D.suggestions |
A.painful | B.wasteful | C.meaningful | D.faithful |
A.profit | B.age | C.experience | D.knowledge |
A.share | B.save | C.follow | D.ignore |
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2.解释具体原因,并希望他能谅解;
3.告诉他下次练习的时间、地点及话题。
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