1 . Avoid These Mistakes in Your Social Interaction
Breaking into an existing conversation
Timing is everything. If you see two or more people actively engaged in conversation, they’re probably not ready for you to cut in. First, wait for a rest.
Starting talking without having something to say
If someone appears distant or lost in thought, moving into their personal space and saying “hello” is hardly a way to start a conversation. Try asking permission (e.g., “Excuse me, do you mind if I ask you something?”) and make sure you have a fully formed question or comment in mind (e.g., “Are you having a good time?”).
Bringing up controversial(有争议的) topics
If you’re talking to someone new, it’s generally best not to talk about weighty or of-putting topics.
Once you’ve made a connection with each other, keep that connection going by making yourself easy to understand. If you speak different languages, for example, slow your speech and pronounce clearly. If they ask you what you do for work, don’t use a lot of technical expressions.
Talking too much about yourself - or about the other person
It’s often said that people love to talk about themselves, and that asking questions is the secret to good conversations.
A.Being hard to follow |
B.Making too much connection |
C.But that’s not true for everyone |
D.They will lead to a deeper interaction |
E.Then once you have someone’s attention or receive a nonverbal go-ahead |
F.Aim for something simple that you and the other person can observe together |
G.It’s all about creating a comfortable opportunity for the other person to respond |
2 . Smiling gives you a happy appearance.
What does your smile mean as a company manager? Management is serious business! However, most managers are aware of the positive effect that a well-meant smile can have on others.
Finding the right balance between showing a happy facial expression and a serious facial expression is an art in itself.We want to come across as being relaxed and friendly.
A.Smiling a lot is a valued personality. |
B.In addition,not all smiles are created equal. |
C.Most people respond angrily to this gesture |
D.The smile here is more by way of an apology. |
E.But we also want to be taken seriously at the same time. |
F.In most situations your smile will contribute to your success. |
G.You will quickly feel uncomfortable in situations where smiling is required. |
3 . I have forgotten the name of the old lady, who was a customer on my newspaper route when I was a twelve-year-old boy back in 1954. Yet it seems like just yesterday that she taught me a lesson in forgiveness that I can only hope to pass on to someone else some day.
On a Saturday afternoon, a friend and I were throwing stones onto the roof of the old lady’s house. I found a smooth rock and sent it. The stone headed straight for a small window on the old lady’s back door. At the sound of broken glass, we took off from the old lady’s yard.
I was too scared about getting caught that first night. However, a few days later when I was sure that I hadn’t been discovered, I started to feel guilty for her misfortune.
She still greeted me with a smile each day when I gave her the newspaper, but I was no longer able to act comfortably when seeing her.
I decided to save my paper delivery money, and in three weeks I had the seven dollars that I thought would cover the cost of her window. I put the money in an envelope with a note saying that I was sorry for breaking her window and hoped that the seven dollars would cover the cost of repairing it.
The next day, I handed the old lady her paper. She thanked me for the paper and gave me a bag of biscuits she had made herself. I thanked her and ate the biscuits as I continued my route.
After several biscuits, I felt an envelope and pulled it out of the bag. When I opened the envelope, I was shocked. Inside were the seven dollars and a short note that said, “I’m proud of you.”
1. What work did the author do at the age of 12?A.Collecting old papers. |
B.Delivering newspapers. |
C.Picking rocks. |
D.Repairing roofs. |
A.They broke the old lady’s back door. |
B.They heard the old lady shouting. |
C.They broke the old lady’s window. |
D.They were seen by the old lady. |
A.He saved some money to cover the cost. |
B.He gave the old lady papers for free. |
C.He apologized in the old lady’s presence. |
D.He bought cookies for the old lady. |
A.strict | B.patient | C.mean | D.generous |
4 . Getting along with people can be tough.
Accept human nature.
Humans make mistakes. People aren’t always nice. They also have all of the problems that you have in your life.
People are all very different: that’s what makes life interesting. And just like people are all different, the world is also very complex. Every situation is different, always. Just because someone doesn’t make the choice that you would make or just because they take a less efficient or smart path to get where they’re going doesn’t make them wrong.
Practice forgiveness.
Do something together.
A.Think about what your words really say. |
B.Respect that there are lots of valid choices. |
C.The following are some suggestions that can help you in some way. |
D.Everyone is dealing with their own set of problems. |
E.Doing things together is a great way to bond with people and make friends. |
F.Forgive people when they do make mistakes. |
G.Even when someone’s making you mad, thank them for their effort to help or their suggestions. |
5 . Neighbors play an important role in our lives. Their lifestyle, friends, and social habits can have a strong influence on our lives. So it's a good idea to get along well with neighbors and build a better relationship that will last for many years to come. But how should you get along with your neighbors?
When you hear of a special need you can meet, do it, such as sitting with a sick child while your neighbor goes to work or taking an elderly parent to a doctor's appointment when their car won't start.
If you hear that someone close by is ill, has an accident, or is out of work, give him or her a hot meal or a fresh dessert. Your kindness will add a special feeling during a difficult time. If your neighbor is cutting down a tree or building a doghouse, offer helping hands to him or her. There is no better way to build relationships. Besides, you never know when the favor might be returned.
Exchange holiday cards, gifts or traditions. Invite your neighbors over for a cup of coffee or lunch. A backyard barbecue can be a great way to share food and fun. If they've watched your kids grow up or been concerned about your family events, they may want to share these special events.
Plan a party. Invite all your neighbors to your party. Planning and carrying out the activity helps everyone to know and understand each other. Your neighbors are like your family in many ways since you have to live with them, or near them for a long time. Appreciate their strong points and ignore weak points, and everyone will get along well.
1. The purpose of the first paragraph is to ________.A.introduce how you can get along well with your friends |
B.explain the importance of getting along well with your neighbors |
C.show how to make friends with your new neighbors |
D.list the advantages of building strong family relationships |
A.try to give them a helping hand |
B.do housework for them when they are sick |
C.give them a good job if they're out of work |
D.lend them money when their parents are ill |
A.Tips on how to form a healthy lifestyle. |
B.The best way to form good habits. |
C.The importance of being helpful. |
D.Tips on how to get along with your neighbors. |
A.a physical science magazine |
B.the travel news |
C.a magazine of social life |
D.the technology news |
Police are likely used to people approaching them with questions.One day in Michigan, a police officer named Sgt.Heather walked to a mom and asked her a question regarding her family’s living situation.
The woman named Erin Harrison and her twin daughters were homeless, and she simply asked the police officer if it was illegal to sleep in their car.From their conversation, Sgt.Heather knew that Erin was going to be sleeping in the car so that she could get the kids to the school in the next morning.Erin told Sgt.Heather that she and her two daughters Hayden and Abbigale were driven out of their rented house because she couldn’t afford to pay the skyrocketing(飞涨的)rent price.
However, they needed a place to sleep.They’ve been surviving in their car on the parking lot of the children’s elementary school for a while now.They had nowhere else to go.Erin worked day in and day out at a local McDonalds to take care of her two beautiful daughters, but they weren’t able to move into a home yet.
When the police officer was faced with this heartbroken question, she immediately decided to help.As a mom, she knew she had to get the family a place to stay in.Sgt.Heather was also a mother and she couldn’t let this family go without a place to stay in.She quickly reached out to some friends and colleagues to gather enough money for a hotel room, so they could at least have one warm and comfortable night.
The police officer also gave a fun birthday party for the twins Hayden and Abbigale.They would celebrate their ninth birthday just a couple of days later.The girls were amazingly surprised and happy because their mother had told them she would not be able to do anything for their birthday due to their present situation.
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Luckily, the police department and local community were able to give the twins a party they never expected.
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The news about this family in need quickly spread across the town.
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7 . There he was, turning the corner of Hawley and Main Street like clockwork. His red hair seemed to catch the sunlight, giving his head a soft candle-flame glow. He caught my eye, and up went his arm in his usual wave. As usual, I
Having moved from a larger city, I wasn't used to waves from
Perhaps that's why I enjoyed these daily waves. It-felt great to be
One night I was walking in the street, my thoughts traveled to "The Waver", wondering if I could be
Everyone at some point in their lives wonders if they've made any
A.waved | B.took | C.saluted | D.glanced |
A.cautious | B.reliable | C.friendly | D.thankful |
A.strangers | B.relatives | C.colleagues | D.employers |
A.informed | B.encouraged | C.encountered | D.acknowledged |
A.behaviors | B.business | C.appearance | D.manners |
A.worried | B.noticed | C.relieved | D.checked |
A.agree | B.attempt | C.promise | D.happen |
A.vehicles | B.buildings | C.street | D.children' |
A.mildness | B.curiosity | C.eagerness | D.brightness |
A.crave | B.mature | C.lucky | D.crazy |
A.attacking | B.escaping | C.following | D.approaching |
A.lengthened | B.softened | C.worsened | D.tightened |
A.cool | B.tough | C.fresh | D.curious |
A.comment | B.impact | C.decision | D.sense |
A.accurately | B.slightly | C.thoroughly | D.generally |
8 . As workers return to the office, friends meet up and religious services move from online to in person, people are asking the question: to shake hands or not to shake hands? When the coronavirus (新冠病毒) crisis first began, an event planning business in Kansas City began selling “I Shake Hands” stickers.
Diane Gottsman is a national etiquette (礼仪) expert. She said though the country is entering a time similar to the start of the pandemic, when people wanted to know if others were socially distancing before getting close to them, she does not think the handshake will go away because of the pandemic.
At the beginning of the pandemic, some companies offered to create new workplace rules, such as a no-handshake policy. But there was not enough interest for people.
A.You'd better avoid shaking hands. |
B.The handshake has been around for centuries. |
C.The words were meant to make social situations easier. |
D.Anyway, people long for human interaction and human touch. |
E.Etiquette means the rules making up the correct way to behave in society. |
F.He thinks people are overthinking the question of whether to shake hands or not. |
G.It's a really hard greeting to deny as it has been deep-rooted since we were young. |
9 . Do you remember those times when your mother told you to avoid talking to strangers? But now you’re not a child anymore.
▲.You can meet a really great person.
Talking to a stranger is a good habit because you never know whom you may meet.
▲.
You have some opinion about different subjects and you know your friends’ and relatives’ points of view about them too. But there are millions of other people who think differently and can give you unpredictable yet smart ideas that will broaden your horizons.
▲.You can improve your social skills.
▲.You'll feel an increase of confidence.
If you belong to that shy type of people, talking to a stranger may seem to be a real challenge for you. I'm also extremely shy but I realize it's not an issue at all. You can overcome your fear of being judged by others by talking to strangers and become more confident.
▲. You can cheer someone up.
The thing you’ll definitely like about talking to strangers is that you can make someone’s day better. Smile and people will smile in return. Praise people and they’ll think something pleasant about you.
A.You can widen your world view. |
B.Having a sweet short dialogue is one of those perfect chances to make people cheerful. |
C.Why not speak to someone until your turn comes? |
D.You can meet a person who'll become your best friend in future. |
E.In fact, there are many advantages of talking to strangers. |
F.It may show you the solutions you didn't know about. |
G.Whatever social skills you have, you can make them better when talking to strangers. |
10 . Several studies suggest there are some very good reasons to think about ways to be kind and friendly plan out that type of behavior.
Oliver Curry is the research director at Kindlab, a non-profit organization.
But research shows that our bodies can also reward us for being kind. University of California Riverside psychology professor Sonja has tested this idea in many experiments over the past 20 years. In one experiment, she asked people to perform three acts of kindness for other individuals each week. She asked a different group to do three acts of self-kindness.
A.Other research has shown that many people prize kindness over other values. |
B.Research shows that kindness can be good for many species |
C.These acts could be small, like opening a door for someone. |
D.Its goal is to educate and urge people to choose kindness. |
E.Research shows that acts of kindness can improve our health. |
F.But it is not just emotional but also physical. |
G.That is why we help strangers in need. |